Someone once said: "Love is like a splendid flower, and marriage is the soil that nourishes her." ”
This sentence makes people feel as if they are in a courtyard filled with the fragrance of flowers, but in the palace of marriage, the baptism of years will gradually fade away.
However, there are some couples whose relationship is like that old tree, which has gone through vicissitudes but is still fresh for a long time. Hand in hand for decades, through the vicissitudes of life, love has become deeper in the years.
However, even the most passionate love will cool down and turn into ashes over the years, and it is only a matter of time before the relationship withers, especially when the marriage appears in the following three situations.
When "nothing to say" becomes "nothing to say," the ship in the marriage is likely to deflect itself and sail toward the icy waters of affection.
Communication and communication are essential in a marriage, they are the cornerstone of a home and a prosperous life.
Husband and wife should be heart-to-heart and talk about everything. Sweet greetings in the morning and hugging each other in the evening should be an indispensable spice in their relationship.
However, when communication becomes scarce and couples lose the possibility of mutual understanding and support, problems creep in.
Maybe it's the busyness of work and the lack of time;Maybe it's the trivialities of life that distract you.
Whatever the reason, the lack of communication will be a ticking time bomb for this marriage.
Small misunderstandings gradually accumulate and evolve into suspicion, and the sense of distance between husband and wife increases, and although they are in the same room, they become two parallel lines.
To avoid this outcome, couples must regain the habit of communicating, making time to chat, share each other's joys and sorrows, and be concerned about each other all the time.
Only in this way can the flowers of marriage continue to bloom.
Many women struggle to support their marriages for the sake of their children, and this has become a reality of sadness.
The beauty at first was eroded by the trivialities of life, and for the sake of their children, they gritted their teeth and struggled to support this loveless marriage.
The birth of a child brings the joy and busyness of a first-time mother, but slowly there are more and more trivial matters in the family, and the pressure of life is also increasing.
At this time, the original problem broke out, and indifference replaced the tenderness in the eyes.
For the sake of their children, they endure pain to maintain their apparent calm, but their hearts are already full of despair.
Such a marriage will eventually exhaust all one's enthusiasm and hope. While maintaining the marriage, he is also silently consuming himself. Such a marriage is unfair to yourself and your children.
The trivial things in life are important, but what is more important is to strive for true happiness rather than struggling for a false appearance.
Disagreement is another major cause of marriage breakdown.
The three views determine a person's basic attitude towards life and the world, and are the beliefs and values in the depths of the heart.
The husband and wife may initially care for and understand each other, but when life is now chosen, the differences will eventually be exposed.
What started as sweet talk turned into a quarrel, and confiding turned into a war of words.
is obviously the closest person, but because he can't cross the gap between the three views, he is drifting apart.
When worldviews and values diverge, the road to marriage becomes more and more difficult, and in the end, it may only come to an end.
In such a situation, if you don't work hard to change yourself, even if you barely survive, your marriage will inevitably break.
Signs of affection are everywhere, and the key is to truly find the root cause of the problem and solve the problem through communication.
On the long road of life, learn to find the right person, or become the right person.
We must cherish every relationship, manage the garden of marriage with our hearts, and let love continue to blossom and bear fruit in the years.
Marriage is like a building, which needs to be maintained by both partners, not destroyed by time.
In reality, there is no eternal fairy tale, but as long as we treat it with our hearts and face problems bravely, it is possible for marriage to bloom for a long time.