Wen Xiaomo.
In life, especially during the holidays, when you go out to play, you often encounter some difficult things to deal with. For example,When I met someone I didn't like, many girls didn't know how to refuse, which was polite and not embarrassing.
If you are more introverted or a little socially phobic, you are even more at a loss and wait for a hole to be drilled into. It's too difficult for yourself and others, the following methods teach you how to refuse to be accosted by people you don't likeLearn to say "no" boldly.
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1. If the other party invites you to drink milk tea, coffee, drinking alcohol, etc.
You can smile and say firmly, "No, thanks, I'm allergic" or "No, I don't want to drink, thanks."
If the other person continues to pester, you can say "My boyfriend is waiting for me over there" or "I'm sorry, I want to be alone and don't want to be disturbed".
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Second, if the other party wants to invite you to dinner, or watch a movie, or play.
You can say "Thank you for the invitation, but I'm not going on a date with a stranger" or "I'm sorry, my boyfriend asked me out."
If the other person continues to pester, you can excuse yourself by going to the bathroom or calling ** to leave.
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3. If the other party gives you a gift, you must not accept it.
You can say "thank you for your kindness, I never take gifts casually, that's my principle".
If the other person continues to pester, you can say "I'm sorry, you still have a date, you're in a hurry, you're leaving".
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Fourth, if it doesn't work, it can only be a white lie.
You can say, "I'm sorry, I'm in a bad mood and don't want to chat".
If the other person continues to pester, asking you why you are in a bad mood, you can reply "I'm pregnant, I'm pregnant, and my brain is a little messed up right now".
Although it is a bad move, the effect is immediate!
Note that when rejecting others, there are three things to pay attention to
1. Look confident and firm, try to avoid nodding and smiling, and speak in a polite and firm tone.
2. Do not use offensive or insulting language to offend or hurt the other person, which may lead to conflict.
3. Always be vigilant and protect your own safety, and leave or ask for help immediately if you feel that the situation is not right.
It also takes courage to say "no", girls learn to say "no", and your life will be better.
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