As we all know, Chinese culture advocates the three virtues of filial piety – benevolence, humility and chastity. The word chastity in this can be understood as the topic we are talking about today, that is, "where to spoil". Yes, a wife should be revered by the whole family and the whole world, not just like air. Only in this way can the wife have the strong spiritual strength to build a family hand in hand with her husband. At the same time, this also reflects that traditional Chinese culture has a deep foundation for the term "favored wife".
First, let's look at the far-reaching implications of the act of "spoiling a wife" both internally and externally in the family. The mother is the guide of the daughter's growth, and the wife is also the guarantee of the son's spiritual sustenance. If a husband genuinely cares for his wife, then he also has a sense of responsibility and pride, showing a man's style. He carries the hope of the whole family with his love, nourishes the compassion of his parents with his loving eyes, nourishes the young children, and cultivates the eternal relationship between parents and children.
Secondly, "spoiled wife" can also promote the prosperity of the family. If the wife's family is indifferent to the husband's family's efforts, or is too obsessed with their own interests, this will undoubtedly bring endless trouble and even tragedy to the family. On a day as light as water, if you respect your wife, she will understand you;If you care about her, she will be there for youYou are very close to each other, and the relationship will naturally last for a long time. Money and wealth are just gifts after you spoil your wife.
Sadly, those who neglect or even betray their wives are bound to have their lives ruined. There is a saying in China: "If you don't listen to my mother, you will suffer for generations".This proverb speaks to the irreplaceable role a woman plays in the family and the consequences that betraying her can bring to the entire family. As a result of the lack of understanding and respect that these husbands have for their wives, they have alienated their emotional bonds, the trust between the husband and wife has been damaged, the foundations of the family have been shaken, and finally the family has fallen into a quagmire and the economic situation has deteriorated.
To sum up, the teaching that "those who favor their wives are in good order, and those who lose their wives are ridiculed by nobles" fully proves the close correlation between family harmony and the accumulation of wealth, and also reminds us to cherish marriage and always uphold loyalty and respect for our wives. Therefore, we must remember the virtue of charity, be humble and self-controlled, and be faithful. Only in this way can our families and lives prosper and be happy forever!