Since ancient times, giving birth to a woman is like going through a ghost gate, and problems such as amniotic fluid embolism and postpartum hemorrhage have always been a source of fear that plagues women. However, Jiang Lisha showed a warrior-like temperament.
In the past 5 years, she has experienced 4 consecutive cesarean sections, successfully gave birth to 4 cute little babies, and she did not even choose confinement. It can be said that when a baby is just ushered in, the next baby is already on the way. This kind of effort is not insignificant.
However, the damage caused to women by childbirth is irreversible. Even a brave and wealthy woman like Jiang Lisha can hardly escape the devastation of having a child. Compared with Yang Mi of the same age, who is as beautiful as a flower and Qin Lan's demeanor is still the same, Jiang Lisha looks like a 50-year-old aunt.
In Chen Haomin's view, his wife's great contribution has become insignificant, and even described as "very capable". This makes people wonder if Jiang Lisha will regret her decision to marry Chen Haomin in the first place
I don't agree, if you insist on marrying him, don't recognize me as a father. "My daughter has a beloved man, and she is at the age of talking about marriage, which should be a happy event. However, Jiang Lisha made her parents angry. Because the man she loves deeply turned out to be Chen Haomin, who is looking for flowers and willows in the entertainment industry and is deeply trapped in the pile of women. What's even more incredible is that Chen Haomin is 16 years older than her. When he first fell in love, Jiang Lisha was just a little girl under 20 years old. The combination of such a love veteran and a young girl is not easy to accept in any family.
When she was a child, Jiang Lisha's parents had great expectations for her, hoping that she would achieve outstanding results in the field of sports. She has made a name for herself on the women's basketball team and has become a unique presence.
Although she was later discovered by a modeling agency and changed her original career trajectory, she has always been a hard-working girl. She chose to study in Europe, specializing in fashion design, and is still a high-profile model in addition to her studies.
She won the New Silk Road Model Contest in one fell swoop, and her fashion design works were also highly praised at Fashion Week. Before a woman falls in love, she is often a strong, independent, and fearless strong woman.
However, once caught in the whirlpool of love, all previous independence may be lost. The difference is that Chen Haomin is not a man with both moral character and extreme loyalty to love and marriage.
Since he started his career in the entertainment industry, his girlfriends have been constant, and there have been endless scandals and romances. During the filming of "Fengshen Bang", he launched a continuous pursuit of Ye Xuan. Ye Xuan, who was in her early 20s, soon fell into the whirlpool of love, but found that "if you get it, you won't cherish it".
Chen Haomin does not stop at a relationship, after cooperating with Charmaine Sheh in many plays, the relationship between the two has gradually become unbreakable. In the eyes of outsiders, they are talented and beautiful, and they have even talked about discussing marriage.
However, the turning point of fate occurred during the filming of "Happiness Knocks on the Door", Chen Haomin fell in love with his colleague Zhang Meng. At that time, Zhang Meng was just a teenage girl, and her insights into life were not yet profound. Her admiration for Chen Haomin intoxicated him, however, this relationship can only become a thing of the past in the end.
The love when she was young was always so deep that Zhang Meng was still unforgettable many years later. And Chen Haomin is already an experienced "veteran" and does not have much nostalgia for the past.
People always like things that are young and full of freshness. When Jiang Lisha suddenly breaks into Chen Haomin's life, he is immediately attracted to her and is sure that she will be the next important person in his life. The acquaintance of the two originated from a chance visit, perhaps a fateful fate.
Jiang Lisha and Chen Haomin's first encounter took place at the filming site of "Living Buddha Jigong". Jiang Lisha was originally studying fashion design abroad, tall and slender, and a model. returned to China to visit his parents during the holidays, but was dragged by a friend to visit the class, and ended up coming to Chen Haomin's crew.
When he was a child, Chen Haomin's version of Duan Yu was the prince charming in the hearts of countless girls. Knowing that Jiang Lisha came to see Chen Haomin with her own eyes, the excitement in her heart could not be suppressed. Although today's Chen Haomin is no longer handsome in the Duan Yu period, wearing patched costumes and his hair is also a mess, all this cannot stop Jiang Lisha's admiration for him.
Especially seeing Chen Haomin's serious and focused appearance during filming, Jiang Lisha's love for him was even stronger. When the scene was over, she quickly walked over to Chen Haomin to ask for an autograph, and left her own *** Chen Haomin looked up, looking at this young and beautiful girl, and a special emotion surged in her heart.
At that time, neither of them expected that each other would become the special other half of their lives.
Jiang Lisha returned to Europe to continue her studies, while Chen Haomin was busy in the crew. Somehow, Jiang Lisha always recalls the bits and pieces they had on the crew.
There was an inexplicable surge in her heart, and Jiang Lisha began to suspect that this might be the little grasp of love. Without hesitation, she picked up her phone and sent a message to the past.
Chen Haomin responded quickly and enthusiastically. Soon, the two confirmed the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship through their mobile phones.
Being able to become a lover with her childhood idol, Jiang Lisha was so excited that she blushed. Despite being thousands of miles apart, this did not affect the relationship between the two.
Every day, Jiang Lisha shares her daily life, and occasionally confides in Chen Haomin about the pain of lovesickness. Chen Haomin, who is far away in China, often communicates with her in order to comfort her.
Although the words and language have warmth, these are not worth an affectionate hug when they meet. Although a long-distance relationship is difficult, Jiang Lisha finally decided to return to China and spend the rest of her life with Chen Haomin.
However, in reality, their lives are not as beautiful as Jiang Lisha envisions. After marriage, Jiang Lisha gave birth to four children one after another, and in order to give Chen Haomin a son, she worked tirelessly year after year.
Jiang Lisha's persistence made her parents' worries blow like the wind in her ears, which was not important to her. She threw herself into the love trap that Chen Haomin built for her, and had no time to take care of anything else.
However, does the reality after marriage meet Jiang Lisha's expectations?Is life as she wishes, happy and happy?
In order to take care of the child, Jiang Lisha did not even recuperate from confinement. When the host asked Chen Haomin what he thought of his wife, Chen Haomin's answer was simply chilling. In his opinion, Jiang Lisha is just a fertility tool, and he thinks that she only gave birth to children to avoid the responsibility of making money. However, is it really as simple as Chen Haomin thinks to take care of children at home?
In fact, Jiang Lisha has to take care of all aspects of her four children every day, and Chen Haomin is completely a hands-off shopkeeper at home. When eating, Jiang Lisha needs to settle the children first, and then she has to pick up vegetables and pour tea for Chen Haomin, her mother-in-law, grandmother and others. When the whole circle of people finished eating, Jiang Lisha had time to sit on the table and eat some leftovers.
Giving birth and running a family is so hard and tiring, but it did not return Chen Haomin's concern, but gave him a reason to have fun. During pregnancy, Chen Haomin had already cheated. drunk and sexually promiscuous, and even sexually harassed an actress who had just come of age with a good friend. Major news** have boycotted Chen Haomin and demanded him. Now that the facts have been laid out, Chen Haomin tried to excuse himself with "hospitality".
After seeing that this trick didn't work, he dragged Jiang Lisha, who was about to give birth, to hold a press conference together. At the press conference, he burst into tears and used coercion and inducement, while Jiang Lisha was also crying, begging everyone to give her husband a chance. Despite seeing Jiang Lisha's pity, Chen Jiaheng finally relented and gave up the prosecution of Chen Haomin. Chen Haomin also seemed to have won the gold medal for avoiding death.
Later, he was still immersed in the life of chasing girls and asking around, and whenever he encountered trouble, he relied on Jiang Lisha to help solve it. Such a way of life makes Jiang Lisha's inner feelings really puzzling.
Looking back, will he regret not following his parents' advice?After all, there is a good saying in the gossip: "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change".
Before getting married, Jiang Lisha actually knew Chen Haomin's personality for a long time, but she still chose love. Now, she is physically and mentally injured, but she has not been able to get her rightful place in the family. Perhaps, only she can really feel the bitterness and sadness in it.