Everyone has a turning point in their lives, and the turning point in my life at the age of 36 has brought me unprecedented shock and confusion. Those happy and prosperous days in the past seemed like a phantom, but in reality, I faced challenges in the workplace, betrayal in my family, and a rethinking of the meaning of life. However, it was this critical moment that made me understand the impermanence of life and my own strength.
1. Betrayal and pain in marriage
This is the sadness and indignation in my heart at the beginning. When I stumbled upon information that he had opened a room with a woman, my trust was completely destroyed and I couldn't believe the facts in front of me. As it is calledStrong womanof me, I thought oursMarriageIt's indestructible, but reality tells me that I'm not indestructible. This discovery plunged me into endless pain, I no longer had hope in life, and all kinds of physical problems followed, I lost weight, lost my hair, and suffered from insomnia. I began to doubt my own worth and importance to him. However, I still have two children who need me and I have to be strong for them.
Expanding:MarriageThe betrayal was an unimaginable pain. When we commit to each otherLoveand loyalty, but did not expect to suffer such a betrayal. I used to be that pairMarriagePeople of faith, I thought we were betweenLoveIt is possible to overcome everything, but I was wrong. This discovery made me re-examine my own worth and rightnessMarriageI began to question my own attractiveness and charisma, and I began to doubt my ability to keep his heart. Pathological self-blame and doubt plunged my whole body into a dark abyss.
2. Son's enlightenment and understanding
Children are really sensitive animals, and they perceive the changes between us. As much as I tried to hide my pain, my six-year-old son uttered something that broke my heart. He actually said that we had become his burden, and this sentence made me feel extremely guilty and guilty. I know I can't be there anymoreEmotionI have to make a choice for the children.
Expanding: Children are innocent, and they should not be burdened with grievances and conflicts between us adults. I had tried to hide the frustration and pain in their parental relationship, but their keen perception told me that they had perceived. The phrase "Mom, I know what's wrong with you and Dad!".The words were like a sharp sword, hitting me deep inside. They have always been my greatest comfort and support, but now they need me too. I can't complain and give up anymore, I have to cheer up and give them a stable and warm home.
3. Re-examine yourself and your marriage
Divorce was my initial choice, I didn't want to stay in a betrayal and lovelessMarriageMiddle. However, when I calmed down and thought about it, I realizedLoveIt's not the whole of life, I still have responsibilities and obligations to fulfill. I understood that I couldn't give up just for personal gainMarriageand family, I have to make the right choices for my children. I sat down with him and had a long talk, and we finally came to an agreement that the child would be raised by me. While this is only a small part of the resolution of the conflict, at least we have made compromises for the sake of the children's well-being.
Expanding: Re-examining yourself andMarriageIt's a kind of deep introspection. I used to thinkLoveIt's everything, only to have it wholeLoveto be happy. However, after all this, I understoodLoveIt's not all there is to life. MarriageIt is a kind of responsibility, a kind of commitment, it is not only the emotional bond between two people, but also carries the happiness and stability of a family. I can't give up just for personal painMarriageI have to make the right choices for the sake of my children's future. Re-examining my role and responsibilities, I understood my own strength and courage.
4. Transformation and reorientation of relationships
Life is far more thanLoveIt's more complicated, and I'm starting to accept that. I decided to focus on my career and create a better future for myself and my children. So, I started a company with him, and we became partners. This new partnership has transformed our relationship from husband and wife to parents and partners in our careers. While it will take time to adjust, at least we can support and support each other in the face of difficulties and challenges.
Expanding: It takes a certain amount of courage and wisdom to reposition relationships. I used to be full of anger and suspicion about his cheating, and I even had thoughts of giving up. However, life is not always simple, and we need to face a variety of challenges and difficulties. In the process of reorienting the relationship, I found my strength and courage. I decided to focus on my career and create a better future for my children and myself. So, I started a company with him, and we became partners. This new partnership has transformed our relationship and we have begun to support and support each other around a common goal.
2023 is an important turning point for me, and I have experienced itMarriagebetrayal and pain, re-examining themselves andMarriage, repositioning the relationship. Although all this is still a long process of adjustment, I believe that my future will be better and better because I have learned to be strong and brave. The turning point in my life made me understand the impermanence of life and the value of myself, meBelieve in the futureIn the future, I will step by step towards happiness and success. Thank myself, you are the best!