As the saying goes, one inch of the heart is wide, and three points of benefit are benefited.
The blessing of life is not elsewhere, it is in one's own heart, and what kind of mentality there is, what kind of life there is.
In the same situation, some people are worried, suffering from gains and losses, while others are able to overcome obstacles, break through the situation and be reborn, and build a new self and a new life.
Psychologist Maslow said:
"The mentality has changed, and the attitude has changed;Attitude changes, Xi changes;Xi changes, personality changes;When your personality changes, your life changes. ”
The gap between people is sometimes not in the size of the ability, but in the quality of the mentality.
No matter whether life is good or bad, people with a good attitude can always see a glimmer of light from the haze, and can always be stronger and braver than most people in the face of setbacks.
In this life, people live in the mood and live in the state of mind.
With a good attitude, everything goes well;If you don't have a good mentality, everything is difficult. The more difficult life is for us, the more we must cultivate our hearts, open roads in the mountains, and build bridges in the water.
When the heart is big, the matter is big;When the heart is small, the matter is big. If you have the right mentality, you will be blessed!
As the saying goes, when viewed horizontally, the side of the ridge is a peak, and the height of the original place is different.
Many times, changing the way you look at things will often lead to different results.
Ryan Gottfreson said:
"Mentality is the filter of our psychological energy, and it is the psychological basis for a person to work, live, and see the world. ”
If a person always looks at things around him negatively, he is destined to be blinded, and over time, he will only see the bad side of things.
And a positive and optimistic person can see the good side in the bad things, and spend time on reading books, learning Xi and improving himself, instead of choosing to complain and let himself sink in pessimism.
Life is unsatisfactory in the top ten, whose life can be smooth sailing?
Whether it's setbacks or difficulties, those are just small episodes in life, solve problems when there are problems, don't be afraid of failure, and don't be so worried that you can't even eat.
A lot of times, it's not that serious, but if you imagine him to be serious, you will naturally collapse in your heart.
Only when a person encounters something can he face it with an optimistic attitude and calm down to think, can he find a solution, calm his mind, and maintain a normal heart, so that he can keep the clouds open and see the moon.
A real good attitude is to not only be able to stand the reluctance in front of you, but also to protect the poetry and distance in your heart.
There is a warm current in my heart, no matter the wind and rain in the outside world, and no matter the gossip of others, I can protect myself safe and sound.
People, the most important thing is not to screw, not to get along with yourself, and not to get along with life.
When you realize that your mentality is not good, you must adjust yourself in time, find an outlet for your emotions, persuade yourself to understand, and let yourself jump out of the whirlpool of emotions.
Life is the dojo, and suffering is the practice. Whoever grinds you will be able to cross you.
Mentality is a person's best feng shui, to maintain a flexible mentality, to maintain an optimistic attitude, what we should do is to experience the vicissitudes of life, into the driving force for progress.
Don't be afraid of other people's eyes and opinions, if others say two words about you, you can't stand it, you are tortured to the point of misery, you can't eat well, you can't sleep, why bother?
Don't be afraid that you can't do things well, work is practice, failure is experience, progress in learning Xi, learn Xi in progress, walk slowly, slowly become stronger, and that's it.
There is a saying that says it very well: "A good attitude is the antidote to life." ”
What really hurts us is our own unwillingness, reluctance, and reluctance.
Calmly face life, calmly face yourself, and calmly face everything that backfires.
For the rest of your life, don't think about it, no one is perfect, nothing is perfect, put the mentality flat, stop internal friction, understand the trade-offs, the mentality is right, and the blessing will naturally come!