The story of the incident in the article is about a man Xie Hongtao who feels desperate because he has given birth to two daughters and publicly declares that his family is out of business. This incident caused a lot of repercussions on the Internet, and many people were skeptical and dissatisfied with Xie Hongtao's attitude. There are many similar incidents in society, and the patriarchal mentality still exists in some regions and families. This incident had a certain impact on society and aroused people's attention and reflection on the idea of preference for sons. At the moment, there is no update. In this whole matter, we should abandon the idea of preference for sons, respect the rights and dignity of everyone, and promote gender equality and harmonious social development.
The story is about a man named Xie Hongtao, who is desperate because he has given birth to two daughters, and publicly declares that his family is out of business. Around him, there are many retired pensioners, and he often squeezes into these people, which makes people feel very strange. Whenever others asked him why he didn't go to work, he always replied loudly: "I'm out of business, why do I have to work hard to earn that money?""This kind of rhetoric leaves people confused and speechless. It turned out that Xie Hongtao resigned because he felt that he was not motivated, and this was all because he gave birth to two daughters, which made him very angry. He had always hoped to have a son, but both births were daughters. Although Xie Hongtao did not abandon his daughters, he felt hopeless and remorseful for their existence, an attitude that made his daughters feel isolated and inferior.
Xie Hongtao's words and deeds caused great harm to his wife, who suffered from depression as a result. After she gave birth, she needed a long time to recuperate, but Xie Hongtao didn't care about it, regardless of his wife's physical condition, and pursued his desire to have a son. The wife eventually died of grief and illness, which dealt a heavy blow to the daughters. The daughters are growing up, but under the influence of Xie Hongtao's remarks, they have been in low self-esteem and fear. They do not do well in their studies and have few friends, which is even accompanied by doubts and denials about themselves.
However, after the daughters became mothers, they gradually began to reflect on their childhood experiences and realized the harm and tragedy Xie Hongtao had done to them. They are determined to stay away from him and work with their husbands to protect their families. Xie Hongtao was also coldly ridiculed when he visited his daughters' house. And Xie Hongtao himself began to realize his mistakes and was envious of the filial piety of his cousin's children, but he finally realized that if he had a bad life, he should reflect on what he had done back then.
Patriarchal ideology still exists in Chinese society, although in modern society, people are rich enough to no longer face existential threats, and women are able to live independently. But in some poor areas, this thinking still exists. Young people should reflect on this, abandon the idea of preference for sons over women, and pursue equality between men and women and the development of social harmony. We should respect the rights and dignity of each person, strive to work hard for our own lives, and become independent individuals. Patriarchal thinking not only harms women, but also restricts men's development and freedom. Only by rejecting this kind of thinking can we achieve true freedom and respect.
In society, there are many similar incidents of patriarchal preference. In some regions, men are still considered the breadwinners of the family, while women are considered to be the water to marry. This perception causes a lot of stress and distress for women, who are often defined as tools for housework, childcare, and childbearing. While the emphasis on gender equality has increased in modern society, the influence of this thinking remains.
However, with the development of society, more and more people have begun to reflect on the rationality of this concept. They realize that patriarchal thinking is irrational and unjust, contrary to the values and morals of modern society. More and more people are beginning to emphasize the equality of men and women, and support the development of women and the protection of their rights and interests. This change in mindset will have a positive impact on society as a whole.
In short, the idea of patriarchy is an outdated and irrational concept, which restricts the development and rights of women and undermines social harmony. We should abandon this thinking, respect the rights and dignity of every person, and promote gender equality and social progress and development. Only in this way can we achieve a truly equal and inclusive society.