Every mom has the experience that when she is not at home, her child becomes difficult to manage. Sometimes, family members will say, "It's all because you spoiled the child, and when you were away, the child became obedient!".Many mothers may be confused by this. In fact, this is a way for the child to release his emotions. The child will miss his mother very much, but missing does not change reality, so from the age of two, the child gradually understands that there are times when he is separated from his mother. However, understanding intellectually does not mean that you can be emotionally independent. The child still longs for his mother to be by his side, so that he can rely on her without reservation. For children who have a sense of security, they are able to keep this "dependence" and "longing" in their hearts and "hold it" in their hearts. It's a continuation of love, because they feel enough love and security in normal times that they don't feel uneasy when their mom leaves, but can temporarily put aside their thoughts to play, explore, and stay curious about what interests them. But when my mother is back, this "strong" psychological state is no longer necessary, because I have my mother by my side!The following article, which has been read by millions, is a very true expression of infants and young childrenInner world: Mom, it's not that I'm not good, it's just that you're there!So, the child is "very good", ".People are going crazyIt's all about proving that you're a loved child and a cute child!Once they confirm these two points, they feel at ease.
Every child has their own unique personality and way of expressing themselves, some children will behave very aggressively when they miss their mother, while others will become extremely active. For example, Xiao Ming is a very active child, and when his mother leaves the house, he will start running around the house, as if full of infinite energy. This is not because Xiao Ming is not well-behaved or mischievous, but because he wants to attract his mother's attention in this way. For Xiao Ming, only when his mother sees his presence and cares about his activities, he will feel close and at ease.
Xiaohua, on the other hand, is a more introverted child, and when her mother is not at home, she becomes extremely clingy, and often holds her mother's clothes and smells them, as if in this way she is looking for her mother's breath. At the same time, Xiaohua will also become very dependent on her father, often holding her father's legs, expressing her dependence and need for her father.
A child's behaviour is always reflectedHomeschoolingimpact. One focusesHomeschoolingFamilies are able to give their children enough love and security to make them feel calm and content when their mother is not at home. Therefore, we need to pay attention to our children's emotional needs at all times and give them enough companionship and care. In addition, it is important to develop children's independence and self-confidence. Children are happier and more confident when they are able to remain calm while their mom is away, to explore the world on their own, and to pursue their interests.
InHomeschooling, the role of the dad is also crucial. Dad should be actively involved in the child's development process and establish a good relationship with the childParent-child relationship。When mom is not at home, dad can play the role of mom and give the child enough love and warmth. At the same time, dads can also guide their children to learn to think independently and solve problems, and nurture themlifeSelf-care skills.
As a mom andParentingExpert, I know how important the emotional bond between mother and child is. Mothers are the spiritual pillars and emotional sustenance of children, and they crave the companionship and love of their mothers. Therefore, as mothers, we need to keep in touch with our children at all times and pay attention to themInner world。When the mother is not at home, we can keep in touch with the child through **, etc., so that they can feel that we care and care.
At the same time, we should also give children enough autonomy to give them the opportunity to explore, learn and grow on their own. Such an experience will promote the development of independence and self-confidence, allowing them to learn to accept challenges and solve problems as they grow up.
Finally, I would like to say that every child is unique, and they have different personalities and ways of expressing themselves. Therefore, we should treat children's behavior with tolerance and understanding, and give them enough respect and care. Only in a loving and caring family environment can children grow up healthy and happy. Let's work together to create a warm and livable environment for children to grow up!
After thinking and observing in this way, I came to the following conclusions: the child's "doing" and "".People are going crazy"It's not that they're deliberately trying to cause trouble for their parents, it's a way to express their thoughts and dependence. This is a manifestation of their desire for their parents' attention and love, and at the same time a continuation and proof of their love for their parents. InHomeschoolingThe companionship and care of parents undoubtedly play a vital role. By understanding their children's inner world and cultivating their independence and self-confidence, we can help them better cope with their mother's emotional changes when they are not at home, so that they can grow up healthy and happy. Let's work together to create a loving and caring environment for our children!