In family education, if a mother's love is like a harbor, then a father's love is like a warship. The mother allows the child to feel the softness and discover the clarity and warmth of the heart;The father leads the child to understand the turbulent waves of the world, and pours strength and faith into the child's heart.
No matter how perfect a mother's love is, the role of a father is irreplaceable. A good dad can brighten up a child's life
1.The father's words hide the child's future.
Every child has an innate instinct to identify with their parents, and children will imitate what their parents are. Compared with the amiability of the mother, the image of the father is more like the first superhero that the child meets, his strength and broad vision can become the pride of the child and become a model for his own growth. Good fathers know how to manage their own speech, describe a magnificent life blueprint for their children through the content of the dialogue, or become the spiritual backbone of their children.
2.The father's three views shape the child's life.
For a child, motherly love and fatherly love are two very different kinds of love. Mother's love is unconditional, that is, "no matter what, I love you";And paternal love is conditional, "I love you only if you become good enough". And the "good enough" mentioned here is actually the father's discipline function in family education, that is, to tell the child what can be done and what cannot be done. Only by following the rules can you get the love and approval of your father.
Discipline is not scolding and preaching, but the inheritance of values. If you blindly indulge and do not discipline and educate, it is easy to raise a child who lacks a sense of boundaries. A good father is never using his authority to scold his children, but knows how to use his own values to guide and shape his children, just like the movie "Let's Wrestle!".Like the father in "Daddy", he used his firm belief to train his daughter to become an excellent wrestler, he helped his daughter win not only medals and honors, but more importantly, his daughter saw her own strength on the road to future growth, she believed that gender does not define who she is, and choice, perseverance and hard work are the real bargaining chips to win in life.
3.A father's love is an important part of a sense of security.
This sense of security comes from the father's company, but also from the father's always standing with the child, and always respecting "let the child be himself". The father's bravery and wisdom will shield the child from a lot**, and will make the child feel safe and powerful in his heart.
A good father will always be a strong backing for his children. It doesn't matter if the father is fat or lean;Whether he is stern or silent, he is like a lighthouse, illuminating the way forward in the child's life.