These two real life cases tell us that you better know these four unspoken rules of the workplace

Mondo Workplace Updated on 2024-01-31

2023 Post Sprint Race 1. I always have to admit that this December is more lively than ever, and the hot searches that remain high are staged in turn. Such as:

1. Dongfang Zhenxuan borrowed Dong Yuhui's small essay incident to achieve de-glorification;

2. The market value of New Oriental has shrunk by more than 20%;

3, Dongfang Xiaosun held a meeting for fans and dropped his mobile phone during the live broadcast;

4. Jingdong executives went to Dong Yuhui's hometown of Shaanxi, intending to poach people;

5, Luo Yonghao shouted to Dong Yuhui, stop working. He is willing to provide support if he starts a business;

6. Yu Minhong was dismissed from the position of CEO of Dongfang Xiaosun;

7, Yu Minhong and Dong Yuhui combined for live broadcast to dispel the rumors that Dong Yuhui was expelled;

8. New Oriental set up a sole proprietorship studio for Dong Yuhui;

9. Zhu Ling, a Tsinghua University student who was deeply affected by T poison, passed away.

Dong Yuhui and Zhu Ling were originally people who couldn't be beaten by eight poles, but looking at this series of things, it seems that they are not completely unconnected. Let's first talk about Dong Yuhui's popular history:

In July 2021, the state officially released the double reduction policy, and the education and training industry represented by New Oriental has seen an unprecedented large-scale policy, and many well-known education and training institutions have laid off employees.

New Oriental is no exception, affected by the double reduction policy, the stock price has shrunk significantly. In May 2022, New Oriental's share price even fell to 2$8. On May 29, New Oriental conducted its first live broadcast, but the effect was not ideal, and the number of people in the live broadcast was less than 100.

The turning point occurred one day in June, Dong Yuhui began to talk about Nietzsche, Hegel, and some of the content, love, and values in the live broadcast room. The number of ** people has gradually increased from the initial 100 to 1,000 or 3,000, and later there are more and more people, and the number of people in the live broadcast room has even exceeded 10,000.

On June 10, the number of fans of Oriental Reserve exceeded 1.5 million. On June 16, New Oriental's share price returned to 28 yuan. And Dong Yuhui also became the most popular salesman that summer. Oriental Reserve also has its own characteristics because of Dong Yuhui. Different from other live broadcast rooms, Dong Yuhui's live broadcast brings more cultural flavor, so there are countless fans.

Many fans have also placed orders because of Dong Yuhui, but this is not necessarily a good thing for the company. Because he is responsible for more than half of the company's business, if he leaves, it will become the most unstable factor in the entire company. Whether Dong Yuhui starts his own business or jumps to the opposite home, he will undoubtedly become the strongest opponent of Dongfang Zhenxuan.

After more than a year of ministry, the two sub-brands of Oriental Reserve and Oriental Cultural Tourism have basically taken shape, and other anchors except Dong Yuhui have also formed their own fan groups. During their trip to Liaoning in December, Dongfang Zhenxuan started their various small actions on the grounds of internal contradictions, in order to weaken the influence of the head.

This series of hot searches all confirms the sentence "The birds are all gone, and the good bow is hidden;."The cunning rabbit dies, and the lackeys cook;The enemy country is broken, and the ministers are killed. "There are many events like this in history, and the literature assisted the king of Yue Goujian to help him destroy the state of Wu, so that the country of Yue flourished for a while, but in the end he did not escape the fate of death.

Han Xin killed Zhang Han and other three Qin kings, broke Xiang Yu's army, helped Liu Bang dominate the world, and established the Han Dynasty, but finally died at the hands of Empress Lü.

Gao Changgong defeated the Turkic army, and in the Battle of Bishan, he led 500 cavalry to break through the encirclement of the Northern Zhou Dynasty and successfully relieve the siege of Kim Yong City. After this battle, Gao Changgong became famous and made many military exploits, but was finally killed by the queen Gao Wei because of the jealousy of the monarch and the ministers.

However, this history, which has been repeated for thousands of years, seems to confirm only one thing: the only lesson that history has left to the people is that the people have never learned any lessons from history.

The same is true of literature, such is Han Xin, and so is Gao Changgong.

However, in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Sima Yi made the best example for future generations. Sima Yi led an army of 150,000 to the city, and it could be seen that Zhuge Liang was leisurely playing the qin on the city tower, and he hesitated.

He knew that Zhuge Liang was an empty city behind him, but he did not lead his troops to attack. Because he knows a truth, the enemy country is broken, and the ministers are destroyed. This is also an important reason why he was able to get out of the way.

Second, the husband is not guilty, but he is guilty.

Jealousy refers to a negative psychology or attitude of rejection or hostility that arises when others are stronger than oneself, mainly referring to the competitive relationship in the same field.

During the Warring States Period, Pang Juan and Sun Bin once studied the art of war with Guiguzi together, and they had a very close relationship. After Pang Juan completed his studies, he went out of the Wei State and became a general. Later, he recommended Sun Bin to King Wei Hui.

However, it didn't take long for Pang Juan to discover that Sun Bin's talent was far above his own, and he was worried that Sun Bin would be appreciated by the King of Wei and take away his position, so he fabricated charges and sentenced Sun Bin to Bin (cutting off his kneecaps) and stabbing (writing tattoos on the sinner's face). From then on, Sun Bin could not walk, but could only crawl on the ground.

Doesn't that sound familiar?The past of Sun Bin and Pang Juan was constantly remembered after Zhu Ling's death. Perhaps, Zhu Ling's case is another copy of Sun Binbin's punishment. It's just that the results are very different.

The husband is not guilty, but he is guilty. Sun Bin is like this, and so is Zhu Ling. Because of excellence, in the eyes of the envious, it has become an original sin. Therefore, we must not only hide our clumsiness, but also show that we are not easy to provoke, and we must also stay away from those who are psychologically dark. The details are as follows:

1. It is better to keep the middle than to talk too much. If you say too much and make it too wrong, it is easy to get yourself into trouble, so it is better to remain quiet and silent. If you can live in a group dormitory, try not to live, not a group activity that you must participate in, try not to go, there are many people, so as not to be hated by someone for a certain sentence.

2. Focus on learning and make fewer friends during school. Be cautious in making friends and stay away from the powerful and privileged. If you don't quarrel or quarrel, you can avoid becoming cannon fodder with a high probability if you don't have contradictions.

3. Don't think that being good-looking and getting good grades is an advantage, it may bring you disaster. Therefore, you must be low-key in dressing up, and you must be good at hiding clumsiness.

4. Don't be too self-conscious. As the old saying goes, follow the crowd and don't get beaten. Don't be alone with classmates and colleagues you don't understand, after all, people's hearts are not ancient, and you still have to have the heart to defend against others.

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