Children's "Poison" Picture Book] —
The word "sex" must be a headache for many parents, who have the impression that talking about sex too early will lead to their childrenExcessive precociousness, losing the original immaturity and innocence.
If you don't talk about sex with your children at all, and you're worried that they're about to face the bad guysalso mistook the other party for a good person
Many feudal parents think that their children are still very young and can wait until they are adolescent to talk about it, but "vulgar" sexual knowledge is like a surging dark tide that hits their children fiercely, and the parents are caught off guard.
Some time ago, a ** was uploaded to the Internet by a parent, which caused heated discussions among countless netizens.
*, two little boys are sweating beads left on the arms of ** children, one of whom has the caption "Sister, you are so beautiful." What does your sweat smell like?The other boy quickly chimed in, "It's also salty."
In the face of the "indecent" behavior of the two boys, the girl in ** did not feel ashamed or angry at all, but raised her head, as if she was enjoying and proud.
After reading this **, netizens were angry at this reading material that ruined the three views:
Why are there these books, in the long run, children still want to try it even though they know that it is impossible to do it. ”
Every time I tell a story to my child, when I feel that something is wrong, I will follow the story to the child first, and then throw the book away when the child is asleep. ”
We have this picture book in kindergarten, and at that time I complained to my colleagues about how the little boy on this ** was so obscene. ”
Just when everyone was discussing fiercely, some careful netizens pointed out the "lifeblood" of the incident at once:Why did the publisher allow this to be included in the children's book?Did they make a mistake in the approval or did they not review it at all?
But the response given by Jiangsu Juvenile and Children's Publishing House was: remove from the shelves, ** the batch of picture books and remake them.
Did the publisher make this perfunctory decision because it felt that the changes would eliminate its negative impact on children?No, instead of thinking about how to make up for the mistake, it is better to strangle it in the cradle in the first place.
However, similar "poisonous" picture book incidents are being staged all over the country, which can't help but make people feel extremely frightened and ask the soul question: When did "sexual innuendo" corrode children's spiritual world?
Books are one of the ways for children to understand the world, and they are as important as clothes to protect them from the cold.
Good books are the ladder of human progress, while those bad books are the highway to hell, and once you set foot on it, there is no room for regret.
In addition to the dangers caused by drug picture books, parents must also be wary of the "sexually suggestive" items in the ubiquitous commissary.
Sexually suggestive products] —
Recently, Ms. Yu, who lives in Nanning, Guangxi, stumbled upon a keychain when she was rummaging through the Xi materials in her 10-year-old daughter's schoolbag, but she didn't pay attention to it at the time, so this little thing was quickly left behind by her.
When Ms. Yu returned from school one afternoon, the smile on her face instantly froze when she saw the keychain on the zipper of her daughter's school bag, and she finally realized the importance of the matter.
The front and back of the keychain are printed with vulgar and explicit sexually suggestive patterns, the front is a scene of naked men and women being intimate, and the reverse side is the four big characters "kneeling and begging for a second wife", and the words "million-dollar villa sports car and spending money" stimulate the hearts of young and ignorant children.
Ms. Yu questioned her daughter where the keychain came from, and her daughter told her that this keychain is now a trend in the class, almost every child has it, and it only costs 3 yuan to buy it at the stationery store at the school gate.
After holding back her anger and criticizing her daughter, Ms. Yu hurried to the stationery store that her daughter said.
She saw a row of keychains hanging at the door of the stationery store from a long distance, and Ms. Yu picked up one of the keychains, which was written with more revealing and vulgar words such as "spring heart rippling".
Where's this sexual innuendo?This is clearly a naked sexual manifestation. But the boss who sells these bad products disagrees, and treats the angry Ms. Yu as a parent who likes to make a big fuss.
Your heart is black and dirty, and everything is dirty naturally!However, is this really Ms. Yu's heart too sensitive?I don't think so.
Ms. Yu saw that the other party was obsessedI had to choose to use the Internet to try to get these unscrupulous merchants to stop.
As soon as this ** was released, it quickly attracted the attention of the major ** in the society, and the local market supervision bureau immediately attacked these small traders and destroyed all the prohibited items in the store.
Afterwards, the reporter went to the stationery store to inquire about the whole thing, but Ms. Li, the owner of the stationery store, denied it completely, saying that this batch of goods was packaged before it was delivered, and she did not know what was inside.
Once this batch of goods is sold, there will be no refund, so she can only eat this dumb loss and sell it in the store normally.
It sounds like a reason, but when the reporter asked for the specific news of its supplier, Ms. Li said that she had too many channels to buy the goods and forgot where to buy the goods, but after this experience, she would definitely not sell related products anymore.
At the same time, some netizens pointed out that they had seen similar products sell well in the market in 2010, and were later reported by parents, so they changed the packaging and continued to sell.
I have to say that it is really shameful that unscrupulous shops do not hesitate to gamble on children's mental health in order to make profits.
It takes a lifetime for minors to become good people, and it only takes 3 days for them to learn badly, and no matter how much parents contribute and work hard to protect children, they still can't resist people's inner greed on their own.
In order to make huge profits, those who are the best people at heart not only sexually suggest children in books and stationery, but even spend all their efforts on children's clothing.
Vulgar children's clothing]—
Since 2016, Chen Li from Zhoushan, Zhejiang Province, has insisted on buying children's clothing under Jiangnan Buyi for her children, buying an average of one or two pieces a month, and more than 20 pieces a year.
Buying so many clothes is nothing else, Chen Li's patriotic spirit in her bones made her choose to support domestic products.
But as people's aesthetics became more and more critical, Chen Li faintly found that the patterns on this brand were extremely uncomfortable and frightening.
In 2018, when Chen Li took her son to Hangzhou for a trip, she happened to pass by a Jiangnan cloth store.
On the day of the beginning of winter, the son wore this down jacket for the first time, and the relatives wondered: "What is the pattern on the clothes?".What does the English in the upper right corner mean?”
It was only then that Chen Li realized the person on the patternHe suffered from the pain of ten thousand arrows piercing his heart, and the English next to it is asking for help from parents.
That night, Chen Li was absent-minded, and sometimes her relatives called her several times in a row, and she reacted in hindsight.
After returning home, Chen Li wanted to throw away the down jacket directly, but then she remembered that it was expensive and the quality was okay, so she received it under the bed and never let her son see this dress again.
Chen Li put aside the kind reminders of her relatives, and only thought that she was unlucky to buy the fake and shoddy products of this batch of clothes, how to buy them.
In 2020, when Chen Li browsed reviews on the brand's official website, she stumbled upon one of the negative reviews that said: This dress is printed"Welcome to Hell".My son was taken aback.
Chen Li only then felt that something was wrong, so she looked through the clothes she had recently purchased and found that the patterns on them were generally horrific death methods such as hanging and splitting the corpses of five horses.
However, in the face of this question, the customer service downplayed it, believing that it was the designer's unique creation, and if you don't like it, you can not buy it.
Chen Li, who was about to be crushed by the back molars of anger, applied for a refund from the brand's after-sales service, but the other party said, "You can't return it if you remove the tag, dear, I hope you can understand!."”
Chen Li, who couldn't bear it, complained about the matter to the official blog, the official live broadcast room or the official comment area, but the news was like a stone sinking into the sea, and Chen Li never received an apology or reply from the brand.
On the evening of September 19, Chen Li uploaded the matter to her personal social platform, and netizens occupied the comment area of the brand, asking the other party to give an explanation.
On September 23, the tardiness of the Jiangnan cloth brand was belated, with the text sayingThe relevant products will be removed from the shelves as soon as possible, and customers who have purchased the products will be supported to apply for returns.
What makes people angry is that this apology statement vividly shows the nonsense literature, saying that those negative energy patterns and sentences are artistic techniques with the help of art, and the purpose is to create more childlike fun.
However, the release of this statement failed to calm the anger of netizens, but also received enthusiastic resistance from netizens.
Summary]—
When it comes to the question of whether or not their children receive sex education, enlightened parents believe that it is better to let their children be hurt by some vulgar sexual innuendoIt is better to take the initiative to popularize sex education for children and teach them how to protect themselves.
Indeed, sexual innuendo is a business that uses children's curiosity to sell edging items under the guise of "not knowing" and "what children know", which is also illegal profit-making in a sense.
Today's parents mistakenly think that their children are still young and don't understand anything, but they don't know that children have developed gender consciousness as early as 2-3 years old, and they are still a blank slate for "sexual" knowledge, and they are easy to become the target of mad demons.
If a child is abused by demons at an early age, the psychological trauma will make them unable to hold their heads up for the rest of their lives, and they will be prone to inferiority complex and physical cruelty.
Therefore, parents should teach girls to love themselves, even the closest fathers should not touch their bodies at will, and teach them how to deal with puberty and menarche.
As for parents with boys at home, you need to tell them what to pay attention to when the Adam's apple is bulging and a mustache grows on the lips.
After being familiar with sex education, parents also need to teach them to establish correct values and a view of love, so that they can understand that it is normal for adolescents to have an inexplicable affection for the opposite sex.
But before both parties are not fully mature, this relationship is best hidden in the bottom of the heart, and then develop free love after completing school, then parents are most worried about the scale of men and women when they interact with each other.
As parents, we can't anticipate the dangers our children are about to encounter, and we can't always be there for them to protect them. Therefore,It is important to help your child learn the right way to avoid danger as soon as possible.
So how exactly do we teach children to reconcile with their bodies?Parents can protect their ignorant and throbbing hearts through books and related ** when accompanying their children.
Sex education should be done sooner rather than later, and only by letting children know the right knowledge about sexuality can we prevent children from using the wrong way to try and understand this matter, so as to extinguish the signs of tragedy at the root.
It is the duty of every parent to protect the innocence of their children, and only by stifling sexual innuendo in the cradle can we make these "blank sheets" go further and embrace the truth, goodness and beauty of new things.
Finally, I hope that all parents can rememberEducation is no trivial matter, everything must be done carefully. At the same time, it is also hoped that the relevant departments can strictly investigate and punish similar dark industries, and create a green and healthy Xi environment for children.