Why do you feel so hard when you study?When we were students, we just thought that we were studying to get good grades and get into a good school, but we didn't think about what these goals actually brought us. From elementary school, junior high school to high school, we have learned countless subjects, there are always one or several courses that we don't want to learn, but teachers and parents say that we are partial subjects, if the grades are not good, they will say that if we don't study hard, we will not be able to get into the ideal university, and if we can't get into the ideal university, we can't find a good job. So in the process of studying, we just think that going to school is to go to a good university and find a good job, and we don't know what the point of doing this is. But the people around me are working hard, and they are doing their best for youth without regrets. The expectations of parents and teachers, the comparison between ourselves and our peers, and the goal of being admitted to a good school are superimposed, which makes us feel a lot of pressure, which also indirectly makes countless students feel that going to school is a very painful thing.
The reason why going to work feels hard is because we know the rewards of work, but we gradually feel bored. If you are engaged in a cyclical job, the content of the work every day, the nature is similar, after getting used to this rhythm of work, you will feel bored, because we see what we will do in the next few decades, every day at work in front of a group of colleagues who can only pat the leader's sycophants and intrigues, they will feel very bored, always want to escape from such an environment, and look forward to the day of salary every month, but there is little left after paying the car loan and housing loan, and slowly accumulate all kinds of negative emotions. The hardships of the working period are more about the state of our responsibility for life. We have to face all kinds of life situations and life pressures, deal with all kinds of complex things, and assume all kinds of social and family responsibilities.
So if you want to get rid of the feeling of being tired from school or work, the most important thing is to know what we really want. We must know that whether it is the struggle of the school era or the choices we are facing now, it will have an impact on us in the next few years. If you work to make money, then you shouldn't make excuses for yourself, try every means to understand the channels and models of making money, give yourself a few years to desperately get rich, and I believe that the result will be as you wish. Or if you study or go to work just to get a sense of accomplishment, then as long as you stick to a major or field, there will always be gains in the end. With a firm goal, all the hard work is worth it, no matter what you do. There is a sentence in "Time as a Friend": "The best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now." "If the seeds we plant now can be planted in 10 years' time, it will be worth it no matter how hard it is now.