In the evening, Yichun walked with her husband in the community with a big belly and returned home. She wiped some of the sweat from her forehead on the couch. She said: "Husband, my due date is approaching, and the obstetrician and gynecologist asked me to be hospitalized for observation in advance, I don't know if my mother can take care of me."”
My husband said: "Wife, I discussed this matter with my mother, my mother has not retired yet, and she is an engineer in the department, so she can't leave her job for a long time." However, I have to discuss with my mother to see what arrangements she has, my mother has long been looking forward to being a grandmother, and she is going crazy with joy at this time. I'll talk to my mom about it.
As the husband spoke, he dialed his mother's **. Soon, ** was connected, and my husband pressed the hands-free button. The voices of her husband and his mother rang out in the room
Mom, my wife's due date is approaching, why didn't you make a sound?My wife gave birth to a child, and you will be a grandmother. How to take care of my wife hospitalized to give birth to a child, what do you think?”
Son, this is a great thing, your wife is finally about to give birth, I have been looking forward to it for so long, I just discussed this matter with your father, and I was about to ask you. Your wife is in confinement, you must take care of it, and you can't let her be wronged. However, I couldn't take care of her for a long time, and I wasn't in good health. I'm not at ease to ask someone else to take care of it. I thought about it, can you ask your mother-in-law to take care of your wife?Only your mother-in-law will take care of your wife. Your mother-in-law is younger than me and in good health, and she loves your wife very much. It was only natural that she would come to take care of her daughter. ”
Mom, what you said makes sense, I also think that only my mother-in-law comes to take care of my wife, is ***. My wife had to be hospitalized early and then wait in the hospital for delivery. My mother-in-law is going to come over early and take care of my wife. Wife's confinement, Mom, I want to tell you some things in place, mother-in-law to be a confinement sister-in-law, according to the nanny market **, to pay the mother-in-law, what do you think?”
Son, don't talk so much about it first, first take care of your wife who is hospitalized and give birth to a child, and then talk about the treatment of the confinement sister-in-law, according to the market. I understand that the confinement lady is 7,000 yuan a month. I and your mother-in-law are half responsible, each responsible for 3500, I don't contribute money, I'm generous, just give 4000. In the future, I will take care of your wife and children, and your mother-in-law and I will be responsible for half of each. Do you think this will work?”
Mom, it's not good that you say this to divide the responsibility, I'm worried that my mother-in-law has an opinion. ”
Son, why do you talk like that?What else would your mother-in-law say?You married her daughter, I bought the house and car for you with your father, your wife is from the countryside, I understand very well, her family has no money, we don't dislike it. However, taking care of your wife's confinement is half the responsibility of each parent's family, which is what it should be. In this matter, you should communicate with your mother-in-law and explain this clearly. This is not a bad word, people say that if you say ugly things first, you won't mess up, not to mention it's not an ugly thing, you have to make it clear, and you won't blame each other in the future. ”
Okay, Mom, I know, I'll call my mother-in-law in a while, no matter what, I have to implement this matter clearly in advance. ”
Husband hung up on his mother's **. Yichun listened to her husband and mother-in-law's **, and suddenly felt mixed feelings. This mother-in-law did not choose to speak, completely ignoring the feelings of her daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law may not know what she said at all, and the daughter-in-law heard it.
The husband said: "Wife, you have heard what my mother said, my mother wants to let my mother-in-law take care of you, and only when my mother-in-law takes care of you, can I rest assured." The care of confinement is calculated at 7,000 yuan, which is half of the responsibility of my mother's family. My mother didn't give 4000, how was my mother-in-law's attitude?”
Yichun said: "Okay, this is also reasonable, you can call my mother, communicate, and make things clear, so that the problem can be solved." ”
The husband said, "Okay, I'll call my mother-in-law."
My husband called my mother-in-law's ** and was quickly connected.
The husband also pressed the hands-free button, and the voices of the husband and mother-in-law sounded in the room again:
Mom, I have something to discuss with you, my wife is about to give birth, if you are hospitalized in advance for observation in the next few days, can you come and take care of my wife?I can only rest assured if you take care of it. ”
Son-in-law, at this time, it should be the mother-in-law who takes care of the daughter-in-law. ”
Mom, my mom is not in good health, and he has to go to work, so he can't take care of my wife for a long time. So, my mom suggested that you take care of your daughter, that is, take care of my wife. In this way, I can rest assured, my mother said that taking care of my wife is the responsibility of my parents' family. If you invite a confinement lady, the treatment is 7,000 yuan a month, and now you don't invite a confinement lady, and the old people on both sides are responsible for themselves, so the price is half each. My mom is willing to give you 4,000 dollars. What do you think?”
Son-in-law, my daughter gives birth to a child, my daughter is your wife, your mother's daughter-in-law, taking care of your wife and giving birth to a child is mainly your mother's responsibility and you. You put this responsibility on me, let me take half of the responsibility, and I can't say anything about you. Saying that my daughter has a baby, I should take care of her as her mother. In this way, I am responsible for taking care of my daughter's confinement and don't take a penny. ”
Mom, my mother's speech is straightforward, and there is nothing to hide between the in-laws, so I will say it all. Don't be surprised. Whatever it is, you see you'll be here tomorrow, and you'll be there in two hours from your hometown. Then my wife was admitted to the hospital in advance to observe the ...... of delivery”
Yichun's husband hung up the call with his mother-in-law, and he finally breathed a sigh of relief. Yichun said to her husband: "Husband, my mother came to take care of me, we will respect her and don't have to give money." My mom came to take care of me, and I'm the ***
My husband said, "Let's talk about this when the time comes." ”
Yichun suddenly felt that it was really hurtful to open his mouth and shut up about money. She was pregnant in October, how hard it was, how can it be calculated with money.
Yuechun finally couldn't help it, and said to her husband: "I am your wife, I am going to have children, whether I have money or not, you have to take care of me." It's really sad to talk about money at this time. ”
The husband said, "Wife, that's just what I said, I'm your husband, I take care of you." Between them and the elderly, it doesn't matter if they make their words clear. ”
Yichun didn't want to say anything, she only felt that there was a gap between her mother-in-law and her mother, and even hidden contradictions.
Yichun obviously felt that after she married her husband, she still maintained the practice of giving her mother 2,000 yuan a month before marriage, and somehow let her mother-in-law know, and her mother-in-law had some opinions. Yichun is also helpless, her parents are in the countryside, and it is not easy to train her to go to college, so she has to support her family.
At noon the next day, Yichun's mother came to the city from the countryside, and in the afternoon, Yichun was hospitalized in the Women's and Children's Hospital.
After 3 days, Yichun produced a 38kg fat boy. My parents-in-law and mother-in-law both went to the hospital to visit Yichun, not to mention how happy they were.
Yichun returned home after 11 days in the hospital. During the confinement, it was all her mother who took care of Yichun, and her mother was almost sick. My mother-in-law came to see Yichun morning and night, but she couldn't help much.
Yichun's baby is full moon, and her parents-in-law have made a full moon wine for her grandson. The mother-in-law gave Yichun a red envelope of 50,000 yuan, thanking her for giving birth to a grandson. The mother-in-law sealed a red envelope of 10,000 yuan to her mother-in-law as a hardship fee during the confinement.
However, Yichun's mother did not receive the red envelope from her mother-in-law, and she said that she should take care of her daughter.
After Yichun gave birth to the baby for the full moon, the mother was going back to her hometown. However, Yichun asked her mother to continue to help take care of the baby, her husband begged her mother-in-law for help, and her mother-in-law and father-in-law also asked her mother-in-law to help take care of her grandson. It's just that they no longer dare to talk about taking money with their children.
Yichun secretly said to her mother: "Mom, you can take your grandson and give you 5,000 yuan a month." ”
The mother said, "Daughter, since you have all asked me to bring my grandson, I will bring it." It's just that the hard money you give, is it your and your husband's money, or your parents-in-law's money?”
Yichun said: "Mom, it's the nanny fee given by my parents-in-law, and my husband and I don't have any money for you." ”
The mother said, "Daughter, if you pay for hardship out of your own pocket, I only need 2,000, and if it is given by my in-laws, I will take 5,000, this is their grandson, it is their family name, and they should pay the price." ”