Women who don t marry are like this

Recently, I have been chasing "Flowers and Boys". Silk Road Season", attracted by Qin Lan's free and easy mental state.

A woman in her 40s, with a figure that is not inferior to a 20-year-old girl, has a lively personality and loves to talk, with the voice of "electronic Dora", she can always twitter and enliven the atmosphere.

No matter who has troubles, when they come to her, they can easily resolve and enlighten.

Regarding the non-professional background, but devoting herself to the profession of an actor, she said confidently:

"Actors must have concentration, that is, the kind of certainty in their hearts, not being disturbed by the outside world, and having a sense of self-trust. ”

Because she lived out herself, she was able to be self-consistent.

I hope that all women who are not married can believe that the current state is a normal choice.

In this world, some people are happy to get married, and naturally some people are happy to be single.

If you're scared that you're not married, take a look at the woman's story below.

She was Diana. Asir, who never married and had no children, never married.

At the age of 70, I was still doing my favorite editing job.

80 years old, still driving, going out on his own.

When he was 89 years old, he wrote the book "Twilight is Approaching", and calmly communicated with everyone with the wisdom of his solitary life.

At the age of 101, she died peacefully without regrets.

If you judge her life from a worldly perspective, she may be unlucky.

But when you understand her lifestyle and attitude, you will be in awe of her.

In the face of love, she said:

"Men are prone to being unfaithful to women, so they can actually not talk about love, and they can burn just because of sex. ”

"I really don't mind if I don't become a mother because I can't get close to my children.

"Never in my life have I been able to enjoy myself so comfortably and for so long. ”

When a woman gets married, she should meet the light that illuminates herself, and then walk together.

There is no age to get married, only people who are fit to get married.

Any hasty or hasty marriage for the sake of marriage is a blasphemy of marriage and irresponsibility to oneself.

If you aspire to marriage, then you have to have this belief:

Everyone will meet the right person, and when you run to him, he is actually looking for you.

In the book "Blue Castle", Hua Lanxi is called an "old girl" by her family, because she is 29 years old and has never been in a relationship with a man.

When she had a routine physical check-up one day, she was mistakenly diagnosed and might not live for more than a year.

At that moment, she woke up, and she thought of a sentence she saw in her book:

"Fear is an original sin. ”

I'm afraid that my family will be unhappy, so I don't dare to have my own opinions, and I've always been submissive and low.

Afraid of being ridiculed for not getting married, he rarely has a social life, and spends more time every day alone.

The moment she awakened, she decided to be brave enough to be herself, and she started to do the things that scared her.

It was only after she met Barney, who had a similar experience as her, that she realized her charm and finally lived happily.

There is no doubt that Barney became her light.

As long as a woman dares to be herself in her heart and faces marriage bravely, then there is no need to have any fear and fear, and she will naturally meet the right person.

In the movie "The Leftover is King", there is such a passage about a woman's marriage:

"She shouldn't get married for her parents, and she shouldn't listen to any gossip outside, and she thinks about getting married when she hears too much.

She should think about getting married with the person she likes, holding her head high, especially hard, longing, as if she had won. ”

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