"There are two people in the family, and tolerance becomes a sea of suffering, and rational guidance is the light of happiness. "
In the family, sometimes the presence of two people can make life unbearable.
This is not because they are inherently bad, but because we tend to be too indulgent to them and cause unnecessary distress when we get along.
In the family corridor, we often meet those two kinds of people, who are either lazy or willful.
This kind of existence seems to have become a norm in our family life, making life a little unbearable.
However, have we ever thought that this may not be their bad nature, but that we are too indulgent to these two types of people, so that they gradually form a kind of "willful" inertia in the family.
There are two people in the family, don't get used to it, maybe it's an attitude we need to re-examine and adjust.
In the final analysis, "there are two people in the family, and life is difficult": there are two kinds of people in the family, don't get used to it.
1. People who are lazy and habitual
At home, there is a group of people who are accustomed to enjoying comfort and do not like to work. Their attitude towards life tends to be"Too lazy to move"Whether it's housework, responsibility or giving, they always shirk it with ease. And as family members, we often pamper them because of love, and over time, laziness becomes a habit in the family.
The nature of these people is not bad, it's just that they are too indulgent and lose their motivation to take responsibility. However, the result of overindulgence is often a mountain of housework and increasing responsibilities. In such an environment, the relationship between family members will gradually become estranged, and the harmonious and comfortable living environment of the family will also be seriously affected.
To change this, we need to be brave enough to say goodbye to indulgence. Everyone has a responsibility for the family and works together to create a more harmonious and comfortable living environment. Only in this way can we make home a harbor in everyone's heart and a strength to rely on each other.
2. People who are willful and habitual
The other type of family life that makes it difficult is the wayward person. They are always accustomed to acting according to their own ideas and not taking into account the feelings of others, while we tolerate their willfulness because of their closeness. Over time, this willfulness has become a kind of family cancer, making life more and more troublesome.
Such people may be overindulged and form a kind of dependence, and we may choose to remain silent because we love them deeply. However, this does not mean that we should blindly indulge, but we need to make them understand that a family needs respect and tolerance from every member, not willfulness and willfulness.
Emotional Message:
In the family, indulgence is a trap that can be easily fallen into. We often tolerate it because we love our family deeply, but in the long run, such indulgence often becomes unbearable for the family.
Saying goodbye to indulgence means being responsible for your family and letting everyone work for the happiness of your family.
On the family stage, we often meet those two kinds of people who make life unbearable. However, family is the hotbed of our growth, the sustenance of emotions, and the source of happiness.
In order to create a harmonious and happy family, we need to say goodbye to excessive indulgence and guide each other with reason and love. There are two people in the family, don't get used to it, let's work together, respect each other, and write a happy family story together.
In this warm little world, every member is a happy creator, let us move forward hand in hand to create a better future.
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