In the melody of love, a man's manners and demeanor are essential for a woman. However, some behaviors may make women feel uncomfortable, and even cause disgust, and now the words that men are most afraid of being evaluated outside are no longer "soil" and "dick", but "greasy".
These behaviors are often classified as "greasy".
Falling in love, 10 greasy behaviors of boys in the eyes of girls, have you ever committed it?
01: The image is greasy.
If a person gives up his image management, he is not far from being greasy, unkempt, and narcissistic. What's even more terrifying is that not only do they not know it, but they are even proud that "people like me who have a man's taste are the most handsome", "a man has to be manly". If a boy does not pay attention to his or her image, such as dressing casually, unkemptly, and with poor oral hygiene, it may make the girl feel uncomfortable or disgusted.
02: Greasy personality.
Some boys don't know how to chat, and they have to be forcibly flirting, often using some outdated jokes, especially some particularly earthy routines, thinking that they are very humorous, but in fact, this is very boring in the eyes of girls, and they naturally feel very greasy.
03: Good teacher.
Some people say that the three major hobbies of middle-aged men: forcing good people to be prostitutes, persuading prostitutes to be good, and being a good teacher is just the first two, and being a good teacher is not the same Some middle-aged men, regardless of whether they succeed or not, think they have deep experience, like to preach to others, and they are proud and smart, and this kind of person once he puts on the posture of "teaching you to be a man", it seems that every pore of the whole body is shining and greasy. This kind of greasy type is slowly prejudiced against girls and their own superiority that comes from nowhere.
04: Disrespectful to girls.
Some boys may be disrespectful to a girl's opinions, decisions, or actions, such as denying or ridiculing a girl's choices, opinions, or decisions, or disrespecting a girl's personal space and time. This kind of behavior can make girls feel unvalued and disrespected, which can damage trust and relationships with each other.
05: Lack of humor.
A sense of humor is an important spice in a romantic relationship and can increase interaction and fun with each other. However, some boys may lack a sense of humor or use inappropriate humor that makes the girl feel unpleasant or uncomfortable. For example, it is not advisable to make overly offensive or vulgar jokes, ridicule or belittle girls.
06: Irresponsible.
In a relationship, the boy should take responsibility for his own responsibilities and obligations, be responsible for the girl and fulfill his commitments. If a boy lacks a sense of responsibility or doesn't keep his promises, this can lead to disappointment and distrust among girls. Always fantasizing about pie in the sky, always looking forward to a windfall, year after year, wasted time and missed the best opportunities.
It is actually very simple for a man to live a life that is not "greasy" and wants women to look up to you.
The first is to have a preliminary understanding and evaluation of one's own behavior.
Talk less, do more, and constantly improve your abilities. Read more, learn more Xi, constantly improve yourself, and improve your inner cultivation. When a man's ability is stronger, he will become mature and more stable. As a result, he gradually got rid of "greasy" and gradually lived a temperamental and cultivated life. Therefore, the key to improving staying away from greasy is to respect women, not to objectify women, and to chat with superior words.