In 2015, I doubted my life in a rented house with four white walls.
As soon as I met my parents with my girlfriend, I was notified when I came back: my parents were against it.
It is also understandable that the monthly salary of a social worker is 4,000, there is no house or car, how to talk about marriage, and how to support a family.
So, I made up my mind to change careers and look for a job right away.
In 2016, I once again doubted my life in a rented house with four white walls.
Although he has changed careers, he still has a monthly salary of 4000.
It can be seen that I can't make money, and it's not a problem with the industry. It's just that I always want to dump the pot on the industry.
After much consideration, I decided to go back to working as a social worker. Here's why:
Due to my academic qualifications and hearing limitations, there are not many positions I can choose from.
After self-assessment, I am still suitable for professional things. Without him, the world is too poor.
In this way, I have an advantage when I return to the home field of social work.
Seeing others making money, I thought that I could make money by changing careers, but I was slapped by reality.
When you have no other options, the rest is the best.
I don't want to, when I go back to the social work industry again, I actually make money.
There are many reasons for this.
For example, in the year I changed careers, I read and Xi like crazy.
If I don't have any other choice when I come back, I won't think about it and focus on doing a good job.
If I encounter a problem again, I only think about how to solve it, and there is no way, so I go to the Xi and find a way.
To put it simply, I realized.
When you have no other way out, you are likely to succeed if you are staring in one direction and breaking through.
When you're hesitant to change careers, see how many options you have.
To talk about development without putting aside one's own conditions is to play hooligan.
Don't complain about the social work industry "less money and more things", every industry is so complained about.
If there's a better option, go out and give it a try. Even if you fail, you still have a chance to come back.
You say you don't have a choice for the time being, so don't be led astray by "emotions". Sink down and study, and then find a breakthrough.
The truth is simple, life is difficult, but it also has to be endured.
This year, the social work industry has been rectified, and I have been laid off and my salary has been cut, and I am also panicking and anxious.
I'm more *** so diligent, which is to share, not to find a way out.
After writing for a few months and staying up countless nights, it is only a few hundred yuan, which is not as good as the income of a lecture.
But, no matter how difficult it is, tell yourself.
If you think it's good for growth, if it's good for development, don't think about it, just do it.
When you don't have a choice, it's better to stare in one direction to break through than to be cranky.
Helping others to help themselves, I believe it has another meaning: helping others, helping others.
Since childhood, he has been hearing impaired, and he has not dared to face it for 20 years, avoiding too much communication with others.
"As long as you don't get discovered by others, you won't be seen as a crippled person. ”
This inner voice led me to a certain extreme loneliness and breeds more shortcomings.
Influenced by the values of the concept, social work is a simple and tolerant profession.
There will be no involution between colleagues, there will be no complicated workplace struggles, and they will accept each other.
To serve the disadvantaged, we maintain enough patience, respect and empathy.
It was in this process that I felt a sense of healing.
Patiently chatting with the child who stole and guiding her.
In front of an adult who can't find a job, plan with him to find a new job.
For the disabled with defects, guide them out of the inferiority self.
Looking back on life with the elderly who "wait for death", and he reviews his life, the positive value.
In these vulnerable people, I felt something in my heart being filled.
Mistakes can be changed, imperfections also have advantages, you can find a way out when you are low, and you can look for value when you are negative.
So I realized it again.
If I can accept the client, why won't I accept myself?
How to help others, how to help yourself.
The process of helping others is the process of accepting the humble self little by little.
This process has allowed me to slowly become a better version of myself.
The one who started his own family and didn't know how to take responsibility.
In ** family counseling, learn how to take due responsibility.
The first time to be a father, I don't know how to educate my children.
In the ** parent-child service, I saw the pits to be avoided and learned the posture I should have.
The self who watched his parents grow old and was overwhelmed.
In the study of elderly care services, know the needs of the elderly stage and understand what they should pay attention to.
"I've never been a good person, but I can be better. ”
This voice in my heart made me believe that it was still a good choice to continue working as a social worker.