Some people say that man is a higher animal, and some people say that man is a reed for thinking, but have you ever thought that the essence of man is actually a collection of various relationships around us?
Come to think of it, we've been dealing with all kinds of people since we were young. There are parents, siblings at home, classmates and teachers at school, and colleagues and bosses at work. Each and every one of us unconsciously influences and shapes us. You may change your decision because of a word from your parents;I may change my mind because of a suggestion from a friend.
Our personalities, attitudes, and even values are slowly formed in these relationships. It's like a mirror, reflecting the shadows of the people around us.
In addition to interpersonal relationships, the social environment is also quietly influencing us. Which country, city, or even neighborhood you live in may determine the perspective from which you see the world. For example, a person who grows up near the sea may have a special affection for the sea, while a person who grows up in a mountainous area may prefer the tranquility of nature.
Our thoughts and behaviors are, to a large extent, a product of the times and circumstances in which we live. We may think that our ideas are independent, but in fact, many times, our thoughts are the result of social environment.
Don't forget, we are also influenced by our cultural background. The food you may like to eat, the food you like, and even your beliefs and values are all related to the cultural background you live in. Culture is the soul of a country and a nation, and it imperceptibly affects each and every one of us.
We may be excited about a certain festival, we may be moved by a certain movie, these are the influences that culture gives us. We don't just live in culture, we continue to pass on and develop these cultures.
Therefore, the essence of human beings is actually the sum total of all social relations. We are the result of all the relationships we have experienced, a product of the social environment and cultural context in which we live. Knowing this, perhaps we can better understand ourselves and the people around us. After all, to understand a person is not just to understand him alone, but to understand the whole world in which he lives. Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge