The old man said, "Don't go to these two places if you're over sixty," and the old man's experience is noteworthy
China is a cultural superpower with a civilization of 5,000 years, and how much history has been preserved from ancient times to the present day and has been accumulated from generation to generation in various forms, some of the teachings of the ancestors or the aphorisms of the hermits are a good example, although these aphorisms are very vulgar, but if you have a careful person, you will find that they cover a lot of life philosophy.
Although many people ridicule them as superstitions, not to mention that in today's society, young people are becoming more and more independent in their minds, and it is natural to question these ideas. But, as the saying goes"If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you"。Although the words of the old people are not necessarily true, and the social experience and life experience of the old people are not necessarily as good as those of young people, and may not be as good as young people in some aspects, as part of their life experience, it is not a good thing to listen to the words of the old people occasionally, just like the elderly!It is often said that"When a person reaches sixty, there are two places where he cannot go", even if someone promises you more benefits, you can't get involved. However, the Aborigines said"Two places"What exactly is it, and is it correct?
The first place: the land of good and evil.
I remember reading such a wise quote when I was a child:'Jianghu, if you think that fighting and killing is Jianghu, then you are wrong. Jianghu is a place for people"。Now think about how philosophical this sentence is, because where there are people, there will be fights, where there are fights, there will be all kinds of contradictions, and where there are contradictions, there will be all kinds of right and wrong, and the first thing the old people say is: don't go to the place where there is right and wrong.
Because of the so-called"The land of right and wrong"It is a place to distinguish between right and wrong, but it is not easy for anyone to do this. This is because there may seem to be only one answer to some things, but if you put yourself in the shoes of others, you will find that the answer is different. Here's one'The common people say that the common people understand, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law understands'This is an era in which neither side is pleased, and both sides are offended.
For example, we know that in the past, large-scale fights often occurred in rural areas because of various problems, such as the ownership of water, a river may be in the middle of two villages, the east is this village, and the west is that village, at this time, both sides will say that the river is their own, and all kinds of rights and wrongs arise in internal strife, and at this time, if you want to solve the problem, you must be a person with high morals. At this time, to solve the problem, it is necessary to be a moral person.
However, it is difficult for officials to solve family affairs, and sometimes it is difficult to do both. If you look to the east, you will offend the West, and if you look to the West, you will offend the East. In the end, you can't please both sides, and in the end you can only complain.
The old people say that this is to make people less involved in this struggle between justice and injustice. In the past, people over the age of 60 were considered elderly, and if they participated in these rights and wrongs, it was easier to cause physical harm.
2nd place: Don't go where the competition is.
In real life, competition exists in all kinds of places, everyone has their own pursuits, everyone tries to fight for their own interests, everyone wants to get these things, and some people often do whatever it takes to get these things, even unscrupulous, or even unscrupulous.
But after people reach the age of sixty, physical strength and energy have declined in all aspects, sixty-year-old people do not have much energy and physical strength to participate in the competition, physical health is the most important thing in a person's life, sixty-year-old people should pay attention to their physical health, the competition is not suitable for sixty-year-old people to participate.
Let's talk about the high risk of competition, we have already said that the high risk of competition means all kinds of doubts and right and wrong, if the fish and the dragon are mixed, it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen, before that, although some things seem to be full of glamour, but behind the high risk is often full of traps. Even if people eventually get their wish, it will come at a great cost. Sometimes, the price paid is even much higher than what is gained.
Therefore, after reaching the age of 60, people should try to maintain a peaceful mind, do what they can do when they are old, worry less about other things, and enjoy happiness.
Therefore, if the elderly want to live longer, they should not go to the above two"place"。For people over 60 years old, physical rest is the king of health, not only physical health, but also to better cope with life, less is wrong, and to remain calm in the face of **, this is undoubtedly the best choice.