As people grow older and accumulate experience, they will gradually understand the meaning and value of life, will be more aware of their goals and pursuits, and will cherish the people and things around them more. At the same time, people will also be more aware of their own pain and difficulties and those of others, more respectful and tolerant of others, and more grateful and cherishing what they have. In this process of continuous exploration, learning, Xi and growth, people understand when they are alive.
Maturity refers to a person's psychological, emotional, and behavioral stability and development. A mature person is usually better able to control their emotions, deal with complex issues and relationships, and take responsibility. In addition, maturity also means that a person has a higher self-awareness and ability to reflect on their actions and decisions.
Those friends before graduation, I feel that they have always been there, but they have never been there, because after graduation, they have never seen each other. Especially the students who were admitted to the civil service and went ashore that year, as soon as they graduated, it was like the world had evaporated!
Recently, a netizen also posted with deep sympathy: The students who were admitted to the civil service have not been heard from since, and they feel that they have disappeared from the Internet. The WeChat avatar has changed, and the circle of friends is no longer posting. The working status is only sent once every six months, and the information given can only be guessed about the city.
Sometimes, you leave them a message, some don't reply, and some reply ** contact. When you really call them, they talk the same as when they graduate, just a few words of greeting.
Seeing the above post, I was deeply moved!
In fact, life is like a journey, we will meet all kinds of people in this journey, some will become our friends, some will become our lovers, and some will become our family. However, as time goes on, we will find that some people slowly disappear from our lives, the feelings gradually fade, the relationship gradually drifts away, and finally they stop connecting.
Time and distance are one of the main factors that lead to weak feelings and estranged relationships. With the changes in people's lives, various factors such as work, Xi, and family will gradually increase the distance between friends. The long-term separation makes the life circles, hobbies, and values of the two parties different, which makes communication difficult and the relationship gradually fades. In addition, the fast-paced and stressful nature of modern society also leaves people with little time and energy to maintain estranged relationships.
There is no feast in the world. Life is a process of constant encounters and farewells. In the process, we will experience all kinds of changes in feelings and relationships, and we will experience all kinds of partings and reunions. However, no matter what we have been through, no matter what we have lost, we have to learn to accept and face it.
Because that's life, that's life. We can't be afraid to love because we're afraid of losing, and we can't be afraid to pursue because we're afraid of change. We must be brave enough to love, to pursue, to embrace all that life has to offer. Only in this way can we truly live our own lives and truly realize our own value.
Everyone has their own path to follow.
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