Marriage is people's spiritual food. With a home, there is a head. With a home, there is a direction.
Nowadays, in order to start a family, boys are getting more and more involved. When I was in college, I started looking for a partner. If you can enter the palace of marriage, the revolution will be victorious.
But there are also boys who fail. Either I didn't find a partner, or for various reasons, I broke up after graduation. So they went back to their respective homes, looked for their mothers, and became a member of the blind date army.
Recently, a male college student in Shandong went on a blind date for the first time, and the young lady's performance was easy, and the boy was trembling with fright: I can't control it!
The boy is very handsome, on the day of the blind date, he wears glasses, jeans and a brown jacket, he looks refreshed, and he is full of college temperament.
The boy graduated from senior year soon, and originally talked about a girlfriend, but the girlfriend was from Sichuan, and her parents disagreed, so they beat the mandarin ducks, and the boy fell before dawn.
Subsequently, the boy's parents urged him to go on a blind date, and he got married early and was down-to-earth. The boy had the mentality of giving it a try, and went.
The blind date girl is indeed outstanding, tall, and charming. In winter, she is still wearing black long ** and high heels, which has a kind of mature beauty of women.
The girl is a veritable village flower, and many people come to visit her. I went home for a week, and it was the 9th blind date.
When the boy arrived, the girl was sitting at the corner of the street playing. The matchmaker said to the girl, "I got you a child, it's good!."The family is also good, it is a college student, and I have a car and a house!No!”
The girl has been on a blind date many times, and the previous ones she saw were painters, boiler workers and cooks, and she looked unsatisfactory, and this boy was the most handsome one.
But the girl's expression was calm, and her eyes were still scrutinizing. The boy was suddenly a little apprehensive, pretending to be calm and holding the sugar bag and giving candy to the uncle and aunt.
After sending a circle, the boy looked at the girl, and the girl raised the corner of her eye: "Then let's go into the house and talk!."The boy obediently entered the house.
The girl is like a blind date veteran, skillfully pouring water for the boy to drink. The boy quickly stood up and helped pour the water.
The girl did not squirm, leaned over kindly, took the initiative to take the cup with her hand, and touched the boy's hand, which made his ears red.
The two sat down and chatted, and found out that they were the same age, both 21 years old. The girl has a younger brother and the boy has an older sister.
The girl asks the boy straight to the point: "Did you have a girlfriend at school?".The boy was honest and told her that they had broken up.
Then, the boy changed the subject: "What are you doing now?".The girl paused: "I didn't do anything, I just came back from outside, and I haven't found a job yet!."Let's talk about it after the New Year!”
This is a strange statement, if the girl has a serious job outside, after the New Year, she should go back to continue working. She couldn't even tell what she was doing.
The boy didn't know what to say for a while, and smiled awkwardly: "I was a little nervous on the first blind date, and I couldn't speak!."”
The girl was very frank and straightened up: "It's okay, it's okay!."Why don't we add a WeChat and talk about it in the evening!”
If the boy was amnesty, he quickly took out his mobile phone, swept the other party's *** and got up to go out, he looked at the girl's circle of friends and was very worried: This, I can't hold it!
He saw a group photo** of the woman and 3 other girls standing in a row. They wore long colorful hair, ** and leather boots, and heavy makeup.
There was also a greasy handsome guy standing next to him, and a text was remarked underneath: "Look!."I'm fighting!”
The boy was shocked, and he said, "Actually, I still prefer a simple girl who can live." The girl is too beautiful and dressed too a**, I don't think I can hold it!”
A deep reading: not a family, not a door. Everyone's blind date requirements are different, some people value appearance, and some people pay more attention to character and character.
The relationship needs to be run-in, and if you feel that both parties are not suitable, there is no need to force it. In case the chickens fly and the eggs are beaten, wouldn't it be a loss to the lady and the soldiers?
So, the boy's approach was right and wise. Be responsible for both the girl and yourself.
Not too demanding, not too extravagant. Only choose the object that suits you, and the three views of both parties are compatible, so that you can guarantee happiness.