On the day Mr. Luo went to work, he suddenly remembered that there were still some things at home that he had forgotten to take with him, so he decided to go home. When he came to the door of the house, he took out the key and was about to open the door, only to find that the door was locked. He knew that his wife was at home at this time, and the door was locked from the inside, and through the crack in the door, he could see that the light was on inside, so he was even more convinced that there was someone inside.
Mr. Luo's heart began to feel uneasy, and he stood outside the door and began to knock hard, but there was no response for a long time. His knock grew louder and louder, and after a few more moments, his wife opened the door hesitantly.
When he saw his wife's concealed face and her hair was a little messy, fine beads of sweat appeared on Mr. Luo's forehead. Mr. Luo, who couldn't knock on the door for a long time, felt that things were not good, and now he saw that his wife's face was still flushed, and he couldn't tell the feeling in his heart. He always felt that his wife was not doing anything good at home, so without saying a word, he plunged into the kitchen, grabbed the knife on the stove, and opened the Mac machine to record the video by the way, and then began to frantically search for clues at home. Seeing this, his wife was so frightened that she asked Mr. Luo loudly what he wanted to do.
Mr. Law rummaged through the bathroom and found water on the floor, which strengthened his belief that someone was lurking in his home. So, in a rage, he rummaged through the bedrooms. At this time, the wife became more nervous, and her eyes were full of fear. Mr. Luo tightened his grip on his phone, set up the video, and opened the wardrobe door.
With heartache and remorse, Mr. Luo couldn't believe his eyes. In his closet, there were piles of clothes, and there was a big man, and this man was his downstairs neighbor, a middle-aged man doing business. The man was not only soaked with clothes, but also barefoot.
Mr. Luo couldn't control his anger at all, he had heard rumors about his wife and neighbors, and he happened to be arrested today. At this time, the man looked at Mr. Luo holding the knife in his hand, and he was also very scared, and he tried his best to explain to Mr. Luo, saying that he had not done anything, but was just here to repair the faucet.
The man said that he was repairing the faucet at the time, and when he heard Mr. Luo coming back, he was afraid of causing a misunderstanding, so he had to hide in the closet, which was not at all what Mr. Luo thought.
The wife standing at the door hugged Mr. Luo's child tightly, and at this time her expression was calm, and calmly told Mr. Luo that the male neighbor had indeed come to repair the faucet. However, Mr. Luo could not believe the words of his wife and male neighbor. Do I need to reverse lock the door when repairing the faucet?Need to hide in the closet?Mr. Luo was furious, punched and kicked the man in the closet, and scolded him for daring to cheat in his own home.
Aunt Yi's point of view:
1.Mr. Law has reason to suspect his wife's cheating. Considering the gossip between the wife and the neighbors, as well as the wife's behavior of locking the door and hiding in the closet, these actions seem to imply the wife's infidelity. Mr. Law's anger and suspicion are a natural reaction, and his violent behavior after finding his male neighbor can also be understood as an angry vent against his wife's betrayal.
2.Mr. Law's suspicion and anger reflect the importance he attaches to marriage. Despite his roughness and lack of communication, after discovering his wife's suspicious behavior, he immediately sprang into action to try to uncover the truth. By leaving no stone unturned in holding each other accountable and beating each other, he expressed his attitude of fidelity and respect for marriage.
Uncle Chung's point of view:
1.Mr. Law's actions were too impulsive and violent. Although he had reason to be suspicious, he did not calmly talk to his wife and neighbors in order to get to the bottom of the facts. Instead, he directly used violence, which not only harmed his wife and children, but also violated the personal rights of the other party. He should have handled the matter in a more sane and mature way.
2.The evidence of Mr. Law's testimony is insufficient to support his suspicions. Locking the door and hiding in the closet did not prove that his wife was having an affair with a neighbor, and his suspicions were based on his own speculation. He treated his wife and neighbors with excessive violence without providing them with authoritative evidence, which was irresponsible and irrational. He should be more dispassionate in investigating and verifying the facts before making a judgment.
In the end, Mr. Luo's wife came forward to settle with the male neighbor on behalf of Mr. Luo and paid 3,000 yuan in compensation. In such a situation, I, as a lawyer, give the following legal advice in accordance with the relevant legal provisions:
1.I strongly disapprove or support domestic violence in a conjugal relationship. Family relations are based on respect and trust, and disputes should be resolved in a rational and peaceful manner, rather than by violence. In accordance with the Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China, we encourage husbands and wives to resolve disputes through reasonable communication, negotiate and pursue legal protections to safeguard family harmony and the rights and interests of each member.
2.In this case, although Mr. Luo's wife's behavior with a neighbor aroused Mr. Luo's suspicion and anger, there was no conclusive evidence of an extramarital affair. Therefore, in the case of personal subjective speculation, we cannot arbitrarily give accusations and take private revenge. According to article 32 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, a husband and wife should remain faithful and may apply for divorce if there is infidelity. However, when it comes to legal procedures such as divorce, we recommend that the parties should consider carefully to ensure their legitimate rights and interests.
3.When settling such family disputes, we recommend that the parties should not agree to mediate and resolve them through legal means, rather than through private means. If the parties have no confidence in the marital relationship, they can file a divorce lawsuit with the court and prepare sufficient evidence to prove that the marital relationship has indeed irretrievably broken down, so as to protect their legitimate rights and interests. According to articles 32 and 37 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, if there is infidelity, abuse or other harmful acts in the marital relationship, the injured party may file a divorce lawsuit with the court and demand compensation in terms of morality and property.
In short, in the process of defending rights, I strongly advise the parties to remain calm and rational, respect the legal process, and refrain from taking private retaliation to ensure that their rights and interests are protected. At the same time, we also call on all sectors of society to pay attention to family relations, advocate the peaceful settlement of family disputes, and provide a healthier and more harmonious living environment for family members.