Life isn't always the icing on the cake, but there are certainly things that make it worse. You may make a lot of money today, but that doesn't guarantee that you will be able to make more money tomorrow, and you may even face a loss. Once you start to go downhill, it's hard to recover the decline.
As the old saying goes, "Blessings are incomparable, but disasters are not singular". Good luck doesn't always happen to you, and bad things happen one after another. Some people don't start suffering until later in life, but in reality, their suffering begins in middle age and continues into old age. This kind of suffering makes people wonder if a lifetime's hard work really makes sense
If we don't grasp the present well, if something goes wrong, it can sow the seeds of misfortune for our future lives.
1. Early life, middle age and old age, these three stages of life are all linked one by one.
At the age of 30, if you are not yet financially independent, you will be in a difficult situation. At the age of forty, you may not have many opportunities to make money, because modern people generally face a "midlife crisis".
The so-called "midlife crisis", occupational risks, health risks, and the risk of declining fortunes. In the face of one challenge after another, who can withstand it?
If you don't have a good time in middle age, you don't have much savings, and you're sick, then when you retire, it's a luxury to live a stable life, let alone enjoy family fun.
These three phases are not separate, but closely linked. As we age, as our body functions decline, all kinds of stress accumulate, indicating that the plight of middle-aged people will continue in their later years. Therefore, the misfortune of retirement does not appear suddenly, but begins to emerge in middle age.
2. The tragedy of ordinary people's old age is already doomed at the age of 40.
Whenever we mention middle-aged people, we always think of "35-year-old workplace crisis" and "40-year-old workplace crisis". That is, when a person is over 35 or 40 years old, they are likely to be eliminated by the business.
You've been working hard in a business for more than a decade, however, when your boss thinks you're less productive and you're paid more than younger employees, he may not hesitate to fire you without mercy.
For middle-aged people, losing their jobs means they will face a lot of stress. They need to take care of their elderly parents, pay for their children's school fees, and maintain the family's daily expenses. In this case, midlife stress comes into being.
If a midlife crisis is not addressed in a timely manner, it may gradually deteriorate and eventually evolve into a "mid-life crisis". If your life in middle age is not satisfactory, then your life in later life will most likely be affected, and it will be difficult to live a stable and happy life.
3. What makes middle-aged people embarrassed is most likely these 4 problems.
First of all, midlife workplace crises are a widespread problem. Many companies prefer younger employees when hiring, while middle-aged employees often lose their jobs due to so-called "age discrimination." It is a heavy blow to middle-aged people.
Secondly, the physical health of middle-aged people cannot be ignored. From the age of 40, people's physical functions and energy gradually decline, and the number of visits to the hospital is increasing. Sometimes, the increase in income does not cover the medical expenses, and people feel hopeless in life.
Third, middle age is a stage when marital relationships are prone to conflicts. The relationship between husband and wife is becoming more and more complicated. People often sigh that a kiss from a middle-aged couple can make a nightmare for several nights.
Fourth, middle-aged people have difficulty saving money and may even be in debt. The cost of children's education is high, prices are constantly rising, and people find it more and more difficult to save money, but they are more and more in debt. The stress of middle-aged life has doubled.
Imagine how a middle-aged person can be happy in their future life if they lack wealth, competitiveness, background, and healthy body, as well as people who understand and care
4. Is it really inevitable that the misfortune of old age will be unavoidable?It can be avoided, but it's tough.
If you have money, then you can balance your work, and instead of working hard, you can focus on your health to stay healthy and enjoy life for a long time。However, for most people, once they stop working, living financially** becomes a problem.
If your family is harmonious and your family supports each other, then you may not have to face the stresses of life alone. However, the reality is not always like this, and the marriage relationship and family relationship of middle-aged people are not much better.
If you are in good physical condition and free of diseases, you can save a portion of your medical expenses. However, in this day and age, with the increase in environmental pollution and food safety, which middle-aged person can guarantee that he will never get sick?
In the face of uncertainty about the future, we should go with the flow and not worry too much;We should not be nostalgic for the past;We should put our hearts and souls into it.