When he was over half a hundred years old, he chose to remarry, despite the opposition of his children and married his husband who was 16 years younger than him, but he never thought that there would be constant contradictions after marriage. I was determined to be with my little husband at the beginning, but now why is I making a big fuss about divorce?The current little husband and the original husband, who is her final belonging?
How can you do this to me, I broke up with my family for you."
I didn't ask you to do this, now blame me for what."
Don't blame you, who do you blame?Now that you are my husband, why do you ignore me. ”
I didn't let you do this for me, so why should I provide for you."
Two days ago in the mall, Aunt Xu accidentally bumped into her husband Mr. Zeng and a strange woman holding hands and shopping, and when she realized that something was wrong, she immediately stepped forward to debate with the woman. The two even fought directly, and Aunt Xu, who was more and more angry after going home, couldn't stand up for a while.
He's just a bad guy, and seeing that I'm old now, he doesn't want to take care of me, and he has found another woman."
Because of the conflict with her husband, Aunt Xu specially found the local township staff and asked her to help mediate at home, hoping to solve the problem.
Aunt Xu, who was born in 1963, is 16 years older than her husband Mr. Zeng, who was born in 1979, and both of them are married for the second time. Is Mr. Zeng really a negative man?
He's just talking nonsense, doubting this and that all day long, "As soon as he appeared here, Mr. Zeng complained impatiently about Aunt Xu.
Different from Aunt Xu's statement, Mr. Zeng explained that Aunt Xu was very insecure, and after menopause, she was often suspicious, and she was very aggrieved in this marriage of "old wife and young husband".
But when Mr. Zeng and Aunt Xu met, Aunt Xu was already over half a hundred years old, why did he still insist on marrying Aunt Xu?Is it really because of love?
He just has other plans, he must have taken a fancy to my money, and now he thinks that I have no use value, and he starts looking for someone else. ”
In Aunt Xu's opinion, the reason why Mr. Zeng was with her at the beginning was because of the savings in her hand, and now that the money is slowly spent, Mr. Zeng has begun to use the same method to deceive others again.
Since they all saw each other's faces clearly, why didn't Aunt Xu say anything?What do the children of both sides think of their parents' second marriage?
She is talking nonsense, I really can't stand it, originally our relationship, I was often talked about, and now she is still looking for trouble all day long, who can bear it."
Mr. Zeng said that his parents did not agree to the two being together, and Aunt Xu's children did not agree, so the two went directly to Changsha to settle down. Now that there is a problem in the marital situation, Aunt Xu does not dare to tell her children, nor does she want to go to the hospital to see her leg.
I couldn't communicate with her, so I asked her to tell her family that she didn't agree, and she didn't want to tell her to go to the hospital first, and I didn't know what to do."
Because Aunt Xu's leg needed to be seen in the hospital, the mediator persuaded her first, no matter what, contact the children first, so that the family knew about the situation, and it was also under the persuasion of the mediator that Aunt Xu finally agreed to give the children a ** first.
Then go to the hospital to see, she doesn't have a husband, in this case, let him take care of her."
got the news that her mother suddenly couldn't stand up, Aunt Xu's second daughter seemed very calm, she said that since her mother had remarried, she should be taken care of by Mr. Zeng, and the daughter didn't care about Aunt Xu during the whole conversation, and it could be seen that the relationship between mother and daughter was really bad.
I'm really disgusted now, because I insisted on marrying him, which caused several children to complain about me, and now he treats me like this."
What's wrong with me, it's you who have been looking for trouble, what does it have to do with me, it's not you who did it yourself. ”
After Aunt Xu's second daughter hung up, Mr. Zeng stood up and said that he had promised to take care of Aunt Xu from the beginning, so he never thought about divorce, but Aunt Xu had been unreasonable and seemed to have an ulterior purpose.
She wasn't like this before, when we first met, she had a very good personality and was very good at taking care of people, but now she is looking for things every day. ”
Mr. Zeng said that he grew up in the countryside, and it was not easy to survive in the big city, but Aunt Xu treated him like a big sister, which made Mr. Zeng always quite moved.
But now that he is middle-aged, Mr. Zeng wanted to live a good life with Aunt Xu, but he found that Aunt Xu's personality had become suspicious and suspicious, and it was really difficult for the two to continue to get along.
Between the two of us, there is no trust at all now, and I now think she is just tossing around, you say she has a leg problem, I take her to the hospital and don't go, it's hard not to suspect that she is pretending."
Mr. Zeng said that he was willing to pay to take his wife, Aunt Xu, to have it checked, but Aunt Xu was unwilling, which made him wonder if Aunt Xu was lying. He felt that Aunt Xu was probably talking about divorce, but she didn't want to really leave, so she pretended to be sick and dragged it out. Is there really a problem with Aunt Xu's legs?
He has another purpose, don't think I don't know, he has wanted to divorce for a long time, and he is still looking for it outside."
I explained to you, that person is a friend of mine, and you also mentioned our divorce, and now you are the one who doesn't want to, what do you let me do."
I'm old now, how can I get divorced, who can take care of me in the future, I have already had a falling out with the children in the family for you."
Aunt Xu said that she felt that Mr. Zeng was very concerned about the age difference between the two, and when they went out together, Mr. Zeng always followed behind her and did not hold hands with her.
And Mr. Zeng is now someone outside, she wants to divorce but can't leave, because she is so old and not accepted by her children, so she can't live in the future.
I just want to divorce now, and I have a lot of concerns, he said before that he would take care of me for the rest of my life, but now this is obviously not the case, he treats me as a burden."
Regarding the problems between herself and Mr. Zeng, Aunt Xu is also very confused now, on the one hand, she knows that her husband has betrayed her, but on the other hand, she can't divorce easily.
Thinking about the fact that she did not hesitate to divorce her husband and abandon her children in order to remarry, Aunt Xu really doesn't know what to do now.
I had put all my hopes on him, but who would have thought that this would be the case now, not only did I lose all my savings, but I also fell ill. ”
For Aunt Xu's life before marriage, in fact, the family lived a very simple and happy life, although the ex-husband is a person who is not good at words, but he does take care of the family very well, and after the two got married, they were basically the ex-husband taking care of the family.
Facing the mediators, Aunt Xu's children couldn't help but reprimand some of their mother's behaviors. Aunt Xu's third daughter said that there were five brothers and sisters in the family, and her mother couldn't help but insist on divorcing her father in order to be with Mr. Zeng, and abandoned their five children, and the family was already heartbroken.
Our family has been disappointed in her for a long time, and if it weren't for her, our family would not be like this."
Just because my mother had to get a divorce in the first place, I don't know how long we, the brothers and sisters, were ridiculed by the neighbors around us."
When she first wanted to get a divorce, we persuaded her many times, and my father didn't want to divorce, and then she made a fuss all day long."
According to Aunt Xu's children, their family did not agree to their mother's divorce at first, because she insisted on going her own way, and even did not hesitate to cut off relations with her family.
We said at the time that if she had to get a divorce, then the family would have nothing to do with her, and she agreed."
That's right, now we can only say that she is self-inflicted, we have long known that this is the result, and it is her own obsession."
Originally, we didn't want to care about this matter, but my father has been persuading, after all, she is her biological mother, and my father has also remembered the relationship between the two for many years, so he is more concerned about this matter."
Ever since he knew that my mother was not doing well, my father mentioned it to his siblings several times, and he said that as long as my mother came to her, we must solve the problem."
In Aunt Xu's original family, the children all know that their mother, who is old and decrepit, and her little husband are not doing well outside. But because the mother didn't contact them much before, the brothers and sisters didn't take the initiative to show up, and this time the mediator came to the door, and they came to discuss the solution.
We can't say anything now, so we can only look at my mother's own thoughts."
After all, it is a family, and if she really divorces, we will definitely have no way to ignore it, but this divorce must be negotiated with good conditions."
Aunt Xu's third daughter revealed that as long as her mother is willing to divorce, not only will their children choose to forgive, but even their father has been waiting for her mother to turn back.
Divorce, I want a divorce, I must divorce. ”
Faced with the current scene, although Aunt Xu said in tears that she would definitely divorce, judging from her expression, she should still be unwilling to divorce.
When we talk about divorce now, we all talk to each other about what we want."
reparation, he must be compensated".
Regarding the divorce, Aunt Xu and her children all said that they needed compensation, Aunt Xu and Mr. Zeng had spent all their savings for more than ten years, and now they were unable to walk on their legs, and if the two divorced, Mr. Zeng should pay a sum of money.
When my mother divorced, she had nearly 200,000 yuan in savings, and now he has to take at least 100,000 yuan."
This money is too much, how can I earn my current job? Regarding the divorce, Mr. Zeng said that he agreed to the divorce, but he couldn't get that much money for a while, and the two sides fell into a dispute about the money.
Then you go and raise money, or we won't take care of it. ”
In the end, Aunt Xu's children said that only if Mr. Zeng raised money, her family would be willing to take over her mother's support. Because they were afraid to accept it now, the mother was so hot that she continued to pounce on her little husband, and nothing fell by then. In this regard, Mr. Zeng also said that he would raise money as soon as possible.