Jin Yuelin Xu Zhimo pursued Lin Huiyin after the divorce, and he was unable to do his best in 1922

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-01-29

In 1922, Xu Zhimo was 25 years old and decisively chose to divorce. He had a love for Lin Huiyin, but was opposed by his friend Jin Yuelin: "I can't do it!."Jin Yuelin is a highly respected philosopher and has a deep friendship with Xu Zhimo. When he was in London, Xu Zhimo introduced Jin Yuelin to Lin Huiyin.

In Jin Yuelin's opinion, Xu Zhimo was too naïve, and in order to pursue Lin Huiyin, he was desperate to divorce his wife Zhang Youyi. Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo's wife, is 3 years younger than him, from a wealthy family, and is not a traditional old-fashioned woman. In 1915, arranged by his parents, 15-year-old Zhang Youyi married 18-year-old Xu Zhimo. After marriage, she gave birth to two sons for Xu Zhimo. However, in Xu Zhimo's eyes, Zhang Youyi has become the "original sin" in his mind, a "soil bun", a "shackle", and a tumor of feudal society. Xu Zhimo even handed over the divorce agreement less than a month after his wife gave birth to a young son after his wife worked hard for him and forced Zhang Youyi to sign it.

The reason why Xu Zhimo was in such a hurry was because Lin Huiyin's parents and aunt were strongly opposed to him pursuing her. He was in a hurry to get a divorce so that he could pursue the love of his heart. Zhang Youyi tearfully signed the divorce agreement. After the divorce, she worked hard to improve herself, went to Germany to study Xi, returned to China after 4 years, served as a professor of German at Soochow University, and also became the president of the "Shanghai Women's Commercial Bank", founded the "Yunshang Garment Company", and lived a full and energetic life.

At the same time, Xu Zhimo did not pursue Lin Huiyin as she wished, and she firmly rejected him. Jin Yuelin's evaluation of Xu Zhimo's feelings is very good, thinking that he "is full of Lin Huiyin, I think he is not self-conscious." Lin Hui has known Liang Sicheng for a long time, they are two little guesses, two little guesses. ”

Although Jin Yuelin disagreed with Xu Zhimo's feelings, he "lived in the forest" all his life. Before meeting Lin Huiyin, Jin Yuelin had been living a life of peace and tranquility. However, since he met Lin Huiyin, he has always been neighbors with her. Although some people think that this is because Jin Yuelin loves Lin Huiyin, in fact, before meeting Lin Huiyin, Jin Yuelin already had a girlfriend named Qin Lilin. Due to family reasons, Qin Lilin does not trust marriage, so she and Jin Yuelin have been living together in a cohabitation manner. Jin Yuelin has a good relationship with Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng, and often eats together, asking the chef to cook at Jin Yuelin's house at noon, and preparing dinner by Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin in the evening.

During the Anti-Japanese War, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin took refuge in Kunming, while Jin Yuelin taught at Southwest Associated University, and Qin Lilin was also there. Lin Hui was in poor health, and Jin Yuelin even raised chickens to make up for her. The details of Jin Yuelin's life show his deep friendship with Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin.

After Lin Huiyin's death, Jin Yuelin and Liang Sicheng remained close. Although during the special period, both of them were subjected to inhuman torture and gradually lost contact. Jin Yuelin has always been envious of the love of Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin. He even made fun of them for watching them climb on ancient buildings for a piece of data: "The gentleman on the beam, the beauty under the forest." ”

Jin Yuelin wrote to Lin Huiyin's elegy: "A poetic dry waterfall, April day in the ancient world." There is another author of this elegy, that is, Deng Yisting, that is, Deng Jiaxian's father. He is also a frequent visitor to Lin Huiyin's salon. In the memoirs of many people, it is mentioned that Lin Huiyin, who became friends with these people, must not be what the rumors say. For this history, we can see a real, strong and energetic Lin Huiyin, who is not the "green tea" of the "water-based poplar" that has been distorted by rumors.

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