**Period, there was a case in Luan County, Hebei Province ** - Gao Xiaoliu, the youngest son of the rich man's family, committed adultery with his sister-in-law and fifth sister-in-law, suspected that his wife was an eyesore, and conspired to stab his wife and daughter to death with a knife, and lied to his mother's family that he died of illness, and hurriedly buried the person.
Yang Sanjie felt that her sister's death was unknown, so she filed a complaint with the county government and asked for an autopsy. Helplessly, the Gao family bought the government, and Gao Xiaoliu was acquitted. The stubborn Yang Sanjie pretended to reconcile because her family was too poor, and used the silver taels compensated by the Gao family to entangle, sued all the way to Tianjin, and finally avenged her sister's grievances. This true story was made into a movie "Yang Sanjie's Complaint", which became a sensation.
At that time, Sanjie Yang was only 15 years old, and her family was poor and had never seen the world, but she did an earth-shattering event. The 19 women introduced to you today were born in the same era as Yang Sanjie, and the reason why they have become legends is because they do not cling to or settle, and always live the life they want with a pampered and unfazed attitude. Let's open "** Women: They Make 3 Lives and Love" together, and see what they have experienced
The author of this book, Sunny Ni, is a best-selling author and author of the best-selling books "And Live a Life with Elegance: The Biography of Yang Jiang" and "If You Don't Owe Each Other, How Can We Meet". The 19 women told in the book include Lin Huiyin, Zhang Youyi, Dong Zhujun, Zhang Zhaohe, etc., who I am familiar with, as well as Meng Xiaodong, Lu Bicheng, Huang Huilan, etc., whom I have never heard of.
The author, Sunny writes, on the title page, "If you decide to be splendid, the mountains and the sea are unobstructed", which is a summary of all those who have aspirations. For each woman, the author first introduces her birthday, summarizes her life in one sentence, and then introduces her life in a few sentences, so that you can have a general understanding of this legendary woman first.
Let's take a look at the first place - Lu Bicheng.
* Zhang Ailing, a lonely and arrogant talented woman in the period, rarely agreed with the women of the times, only for Bicheng, she wrote with a wonderful pen: "Chinese do not approve of women who are too eye-catching." ”
Lu Bicheng was born in the ninth year of Guangxu in the Qing Dynasty, in a family of Hanyuan, with a collection of 30,000 volumes. His father successively served as the assistant of the National History Museum, the compilation and repair of the Jade Butterfly Museum, and later served as the Shanxi Xuezheng. Mother Yan Shiyu, Tongwen Mo, Gong Shiwen. The four sisters are all famous for their poetry and writing, and most of them hold important positions in the school, and Bicheng is particularly wise and talented. It can be seen how important the influence of the family is, and for the sake of future generations, we must also strive to make ourselves excellent.
She was born in the same era as the heroine Qiu Jin, who once strongly advised Bicheng to "cross Fusang together for the revolutionary movement", but Bicheng "adheres to cosmopolitanism, sympathizes with the reform of the political system, and has no view of the Manchu and Han Dynasty". In the end, "he carried out alone, and gave Ren the battle of words".
Bicheng is the one who founded China's first government-run girls' school. At that time, Yuan Shikai served as the governor of Zhili, and in order to implement educational reform, the imperial court abolished the imperial examination system and established a new school. Bicheng is actively preparing for women's education in order to develop people's wisdom and safeguard women's rights. With the funding and sponsorship of Tianjin Daoyin Tang Shaoyi and other officials, Beiyang Girls' Public School was officially established, and later served as the principal, becoming the first female to hold a senior position in China.
When Yuan Shikai served as the provisional secretary, Bicheng was invited to serve as the confidential secretary of the government of the great **, and later participated in politics. Later, Yuan Shikai vainly tried to restore the feudal imperial system, and Bicheng recklessly left Beijing and went south to live in seclusion with his mother. After that, he set foot in the business world, and his business did well, and he became a wealthy businessman in two or three years. And 100,000 yuan was donated to the Red Cross.
Women all over the world cannot escape the catastrophe of love.
The career is so prosperous, but love has been repeatedly frustrated. When Bicheng was 9 years old, because of the words of the matchmaker, he was proposed to marry the Wang family in Tongyi, and his father died at the age of 12, and the clansmen instigated the bandits to imprison his mother Yan, and Bicheng came forward to ask his father's former friend to rescue his mother, but because of this, the prospective in-laws withdrew from the marriage, which was a great shame at the time. This mark of pain has never faded in Bicheng's life.
By chance, a man walked into her world, her broken heart, under his meticulous warmth, was magically healed, and in front of him she would honestly reveal her heart and those long-lasting pasts. And he has always been listening silently, focusing so much that he never left half a step, and treasured every bit of beauty for her. It's a pity that they have no fate, and this good fate ended without a problem.
Bicheng had a relationship with the second son of the Yuan family when he served in the ** government, and after Bicheng went to Shanghai, the two of them had poems to reciprocate, and then they had no feelings. A friend once talked about her marriage, and she said: "There are not many men in life who can be satisfied. Liang Qichao has already had a family, Wang Jingwei is too young, Wang Rongbao is also married, and the first year of Zhuzong is not confused, and he is not very suitable for ......”
There is no one to match in the world, so she lives freely. I went to Columbia University to sit in on the literature and fine arts that I loved. He moved to Europe, traveled to many countries, and then lived in Switzerland for a long time. became a vegetarian, and also started charity, helping displaced refugees, and once again heard that she had become a Buddha, and died of illness in Hong Kong at the age of 60.
A generation of strange women, encountering changes in life, can still have strong resilience and stand on tiptoe to change a posture to make a living. Even if you can't find someone you love, you firmly believe that you are a sunflower and live your life on your own terms.
Written at the end: The story of every woman in the book has her particularity, and the reason why they have become legends is because they can maintain their arrogance, neither humble nor arrogant, and strive to live their best when they encounter the difficulties of ordinary people.
More than 100 **old** pictures are also inserted in the book, which truly presents the group portrait of **woman. We can transcend a hundred years, look at the old life, and understand where the soul returns. A really good life is one that constantly rebuilds life in the barren years, but never wronged love.