Wen Xiamo. Life is like a play, and everyone's script is different.
Walking in the world, what you have experienced, what you have learned, your background, your background, your personality, your IQ and your emotional intelligence, etc., will all affect your level.
People at different levels cannot reach a consensus, and it is difficult for them to integrate into each other's lives.
Whether a person's level is high or not can be seen at a glance. People with low levels will have several performances.
My mother was chatting with a friend's daughter and knew that she was not highly educated and worked as a shopping guide in a cake shop. The salary is not high, but it is not very tiring, she has been working for two or three years, and it is quite stable.
Mother said a few words casually, which means that she should learn more about how to make cakes, pay attention to how to promote and plan some ** activities, pay attention to the operation mode of the cake shop, and save some money to try to open her own store.
After hearing this, my friend's daughter retorted, "It's so tiring, and you have to worry so much." It's good now, I can get paid every month, I don't have any responsibilities, I don't have any work pressure, and I'm still so comfortable. ”
Mother shook her head and said nothing.
People at a low level do not have lofty ideals and patterns, and only care about the current life.
Gide wrote in Food on Earth: "The key is your gaze, not what you see." ”Most people with low levels have the Xi of short-sightedness.
If a person looks at the problem too simply, only looks at the present, and without long-term planning, there will be no greater progress, and it is difficult to have better development.
If you don't have any requirements for yourself, and you just want to live comfortably, you won't have too high a level.
Qiao Yicheng and Xiang Nannan in "Children of the Qiao Family" married and lived in the Xiang family's small villa.
He was very face-saving, and when he had dinner with his younger siblings, he told them that they had something to do with him, and that they should try not to go to the house, and that they could call him out and go back to the old house to solve it.
Erqiang and Sanli can understand, and all they want in their hearts is to try not to cause trouble to their brother.
Only Simei was very angry when she heard her brother say this, and felt that her brother disliked them and was ashamed, and she didn't want to care about them anymore. For this reason, he also lost his temper with his brother.
Yicheng was very helpless, Erqiang and Sanli both felt that their brother was right to say this, because they could both consider the problem from the perspective of their brother.
After such a comparison, it can be seen that Simei only thinks that her brother wants to love her, and she never thinks that she often asks for help, and what her sister-in-law's family will think of her brother.
People with low levels do not have the spirit of "altruism". He wanted everyone to help him, but he didn't want to give.
People who always think about problems from their own perspective are more selfish and have great limitations in looking at problems.
Working with others, always the one who drags behind, often the one who is helped, it is difficult to solve problems independently, and it is impossible to take care of oneself.
When getting along with others, everything is only based on one's own interests, and he has never really been kind to the people around him.
Whether a person's level is high or not can be seen from his words and deeds.
People of low level have vulgar words and deeds, and have no manners. If you scold people, you will come as soon as you open your mouth, and there is no standard in doing things, which makes people always want to stay away.
There is no etiquette in talking and doing things, and there is no manners. When encountering a little thing, he will be careful, and he will not be relentless.
In everything, I like to fight for right and wrong, and I like to fight for winning and losing.
When encountering problems, he likes to rely on his temper and make nonsense with his throat, but he can't make any sense.
People can see at a glance that there is no cultivation and no knowledge.
The people around him, when they get along with him, will feel uncomfortable, and they will lower their level, so they will choose to stay away.
People with low levels can't control their emotions and can easily offend people when they speak.
People who are emotionally unstable have poor self-control, live in negative emotions for a long time.
Bad interpersonal relationships, basically no friends.
Rob White said, "At no time should one be a slave to one's own emotions, one should not subject all actions to one's own emotions, but should control them in turn." ”Those who have a short personality and like to lose their temper, no matter what happens, Xi habitually put the blame on others.
If there is no one to blame for him, he will blame his bad life and attribute all his problems to bad luck.
If a person can't control his emotions, even if he has a certain ability, he will be affected by emotional instability.
The level is low, there is no way to do things, and the pattern is too small. When getting along with others, I always think about my own needs and have no sense of unity.
Low emotional intelligence, does not know the art of speaking, and is unable to communicate effectively. Having a tantrum beforehand can only make things worse.
When you get along with someone at a low level, the probability of problems is very high, and the closer you get to him, the more trouble you have.
Stay away from low-level people, make friends with high-level people, and your life path will be wider and wider.
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