The parents ordered the 11-year-old boy to make up his homework for three weeks in a row, and called the police to report a "collapse".
Parental Anxiety: How to Reconcile Students' Illness with Academic Progress.
Since the beginning of winter, there has been a high incidence of respiratory infections, and schools have borne the brunt of the problem, and students have been sick from time to time. This has caused anxiety among parents, who are worried not only about their children's health, but also about their children's lost Xi progress during the school year. Parents know that it is very difficult to make up for lost Xi time and that it can have a negative impact on their child's future development. Therefore, in order to balance the health and Xi of their children, many parents have to ask their children to learn Xi during treatment.
However, some parents may be too demanding of their children in order to make up for their children's Xi. They may ask their child to study for long periods of time during Xi or even to complete homework for several weeks in a day. These requirements are undoubtedly a big burden for children who have just come out of the hospital**, which may trigger their resistance and even lead to a psychological breakdown.
Elementary school student loses control of his emotions: An 11-year-old boy asks ** for help.
In Hangzhou, an 11-year-old elementary school student was hospitalized for two weeks due to illness and did not finish his homework for almost three weeks. When he was about to be discharged from the hospital and ready to go back to school, his parents asked him to complete three weeks of homework in two days. In the face of this excessive request, the child felt unacceptable, so he chose to call the police ** to his uncle**, crying to ** about his broken mood.
The police came to the student's home and learned what happened. First of all, they communicated with the child's parents, explaining that the child did not deliberately get sick and did not study Xi, but could not withstand too much pressure Xi school during the ** period. Secondly, the police contacted the student's homeroom teacher and explained the situation. The head teacher said that in order to go to school, primary school students do not need to do homework before resuming classes, which gradually calms the emotions of primary school students.
Employee appeal: health first, no mandatory homework during illness.
In response to this incident, the official also expressed its own opinion. The education department said that when a student is sick, parents and teachers should not be strict with homework and should put the child's health first. The education department calls on teachers and students to pay attention to rest during illness, accept formal **, and should not study while Xi**, so as not to prolong the course of illness and delay **. The person in charge clarified that there is no mandatory requirement for students to do homework during their illness.
At the same time, the relevant person in charge also reminded parents and students that doing homework is not all that learning Xi, completing homework is not the ultimate goal, and the real thing is to master knowledge. The school does not require children to complete all their homework before they can go to school, so parents do not need to be too anxious and put pressure on their children. Teachers are also encouraged to communicate with parents and guide students to use online education resources to learn at home.
Causes of Parental Anxiety: Educational Stress and Educational Anxiety.
Parents often assign a lot of homework and Xi plans to their children, hoping to improve their Xi performance for their future development. However, parents forget an important point: not all Xi programs are suitable for all students. Each student has different abilities and characteristics, and the degree of adaptation to the curriculum is also different.
Therefore, some parents are too demanding of their children's academic Xi and expect their children to complete a large amount of homework in a short period of time. Children are even required to complete not only the homework assigned by the teacher, but also the additional homework assigned by the parents. This kind of excessive anxiety and harsh requirements will bring a lot of psychological pressure to children, and will have a negative impact on children's academic Xi and physical and mental health.
However, parents' anxiety is also due to worries and concerns about their children's future development. Delaying the progress of Xi due to absenteeism has a certain impact on students' learning Xi. Therefore, parents can try to contact the school teacher to find a solution. Schools can guide students to use online education resources for independent Xi, and ask teachers for advice when they encounter problems. Parents can also relax their requirements for their children and give them enough time and space to adapt physically and emotionally, which is more conducive to their learning Xi and development.
Students will inevitably encounter some setbacks and difficulties in the process of learning and Xi, but it is also an opportunity for them to grow and develop. Parents can guide their children to cope with setbacks, solve problems with a positive attitude, and learn to adapt and deal with difficult situations, which will have a positive impact on the child's life.
Finally, it's important to emphasize that learning Xi isn't just done by doing homework. What really matters is the development of students' interest and ability to learn Xi, acquire and understand knowledge. Therefore, parents and schools must work together to provide students with a variety of learning and Xi opportunities and methods to develop their learning Xi and literacy skills.