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There is such a plot in the movie "Let the Bullets Fly":
Liuzi obviously ate a bowl of cold noodles, but he was framed by the boss for eating two bowls, saying that he only gave money for one bowl.
Obviously, Liuzi was made a game, and in the face of everyone's slander and ridicule, Liuzi was angry and kept explaining.
But the more he explained, the more coaxed the people next to him became, and in order to prove his innocence, the sixth son, regardless of the price, actually cut his stomach with a knife in public.
In the end, because of the money for a bowl of cold noodles, he was calculated, couldn't explain clearly, and lost his life.
Haruki Murakami once said:
"What you can't understand without explanation, you can't understand even if you explain it. ”
In fact, in life, if you don't understand something, no matter how much you pay, others won't listen.
At the same time, you must also know that some people obviously know the truth, but they deliberately make things difficult, and even want to destroy you, which will stimulate you, provoke you, and make you jump into the pit.
If you are more serious and compete, you will be the only one who loses in the end. On the contrary, don't explain, don't deal with the other party at all, or even disdain him, so as not to let yourself suffer in vain.
Sometimes when you live, just take care of yourself, don't fall for the villain, let alone be calculated by rotten people.
Alive, no need to explain
People who live with a pattern never like to explain.
There is such a bridge in the TV series "Tiandao":
* Ying asked for a bowl of wontons for breakfast, and when he was leaving, the proprietress stopped him and said that he hadn't paid.
*Ying was stunned for a second, and then paid for it.
An old customer next to him told the proprietress that he saw with his own eyes that **Ying had already paid.
Before the proprietress came to her senses, ** Ying, who had paid the bill twice, had already walked away.
People with patterns never waste time on small things and broken things, and there is no need to explain.
Even if you are right, in the face of the entanglement of people with a small pattern, the more you want to explain right and wrong, the more you waste time and mood.
The general hurried away, did not chase the rabbit, did not argue, and even took the initiative to admit cowardice and leave lightly, even if he suffered a loss, he would suffer a small loss.
Therefore, the ancients said well, suffering is a blessing.
Sometimes, if you don't explain and suffer a little loss, you can avoid more trouble and avoid greater disasters.
When others misunderstand you, you don't need to explain it at all, and you don't need to explain it.
Because at this time, you try your best to explain clearly, but the other party is indifferent, and even sneers and mocks you in your heart.
People who believe in you, since they don't need your explanation, people who don't believe in you, no matter how much they explain and talk about it, others will think it's a joke.
On the contrary, when you let yourself have the confidence, courage, and courage to choose not to explain, the other party has nothing to do with you.
Live, don't explain
To live, don't always explain this and explain that.
First of all, this will make others feel that they are cheap, in fact, they will also feel very wronged in their hearts, and in the end they will only deny themselves and look down on themselves.
You have to believe that you would rather choose to be misunderstood and harmed in silence than to choose to explain easily.
Just like Han Han said:
"Do what I can to create things to those who care about me, and never explain what it is to those who hate me. ”
Smart people must cherish more and more those who understand themselves and understand themselves.
Because only by putting the focus of our lives and the kindness of our hearts on worthy people can we play a better value and win-win for each other.
We don't need to please anyone, let alone those who don't deserve to be treated well, and we shouldn't take care of those who have bad hearts.
Choose a clean circle, be a pure person, let each other live more honestly in life, trust each other, and cherish your precious time, this is the person who lives transparently.
In this world, it is the norm to be misunderstood, and it is normal to be calculated.
Because there will always be people who will envy you, envy you, and then want to destroy you.
What we can do is to be ourselves, free up more time and energy, and build a stronger and more independent self.
Then, in the face of bad people and bad things, don't explain, don't explain, choose to be silent, then the other party can't hurt you.
Life, not explained
The maturity of adults lies in joys and sorrows.
To live, there is neither a need to complain nor to explain.
If you complain, you will only lose your fighting spirit and fall into mediocrity, and if you explain, you will only encourage others to be arrogant and make yourself stupid.
The real strong are like wild wolves, who are alone and self-reliant.
is like a sentence once said by the painter Chen Danqing:
"There's no need to let everybody know who you really are, or you don't have to keep telling people because people will only want to see what they want to see. ”
When you encounter a problem, learn to carry it yourself;When encountering difficulties, know how to survive by yourself;When you meet a bad person, be brave and don't explain.
In this way, live your truest self, never please anyone, and never explain anything for no reason.
Live, don't explain, only in this way, learn to be silent, stay calm, show confidence, and have courage, can you live this life according to what you think, think, and wish.