One, I arrived in Guangzhou yesterday.
Yesterday afternoon, I went to Guangzhou and stayed to rest. Today, I am going to go around my alma mater. After leaving for so long, I have long seen the earth-shaking changes in my alma mater from the Internet. It should not be a thing, and it is even more wrong for people.
Then play in Guangzhou for a few days and go back.
When I arrived in Guangzhou, I didn't post a circle of friends, nor did I send a group of classmates. Although there are many classmates in Guangzhou, the friendship is general. lest others pretend not to see it, and be even more embarrassed by themselves. It's better to come quietly and go quietly.
After all, it's been so many years since graduation and breakup. Although everyone chatted warmly in the group of classmates, they all revealed a tacit indifference.
Also, after graduation, I have been mixed in society for decades, and everyone's identity and status are different, and each has its own circle. The people in Zhumen who mix well naturally don't have any friendship with passers-by who don't mix well. This is called the gathering of things by like, and the division of people by groups. Since it is not in this group, it is necessary to have self-knowledge, don't make it in, don't get close, and talk about friendship.
There are really not many classmates who can get along with each other, and forgetting each other in the rivers and lakes is the most practical.
Second, leave Guangzhou today.
After 10 days in Guangzhou, it can be said that I was lonely to browse the footprints left in the old days.
It is said that it is a footprint, but in fact it has long been annihilated.
When I returned to the gate of my alma mater, I just stood outside the door and looked, the gate had not changed, it was still the same as it was back then, but it was retracted dozens of meters inside. The road should be expanded, and the gate should be facing the street, and of course it should be retracted.
The teaching building that was facing the gate back then is still retained, but the appearance has been renovated, and I can't find out the impression of that year.
As for why you don't go in, one is to be asked by the soul three times, you come from **?Where are you going?What are you going to do?The second is even more fatal, because it has to be brought in by the school personnel.
There are a few students who stay in school, and now they are all professors and experts, and they don't bother them. Although, they may welcome you, but trouble is always trouble.
Friendship is no longer what it used to be. As Su Dongpo said, the geometry of the sun and the moon is no longer recognizable.
The same is true of the alma mater, the sky is still the same sky, the earth is no longer the same place, and all the impressions of the past have been wiped out.
The old has a new look. My alma mater has become unrecognizable. The so-called nostalgia, since there is no nostalgia to be nostalgic, it is okay not to go in.
When I came to Guangzhou, I had relatives and classmates. It's just that I don't post to the circle of friends, I don't send the group of classmates, I came quietly, it's good. Now it's okay to leave quietly.
It can avoid the embarrassing situation of looking at each other and hating each other, or the enthusiasm that is insincere.
In this way, it is better for you and me to meet, and the friendship between classmates can still be kept in the bottom of my heart.