A review of bullying incidents in the education sector, Liu Xiaoyan told the truth
From being sought after to being despised, after two years of silence, Liu Xiaoyan told the truth about being bullied in New Oriental.
Life is changing rapidly, one second you are still frowning, the next second you may fall into an incompatible confrontation. Even if you are in a high position, you can't escape this ruthless law.
Under the impact of the Internet wave, many high-level Internet teachers such as Dai Jianye, Chen Guo, Luo Xiang, and Zhang Xuefeng have emerged. With his talent and hard work, Liu Xiaoyan has also become the focus of everyone's attention.
Famous teachers such as Dai Jianye, Chen Guo, and Luo Xiang have solid academic backgrounds to support, and Zhang Xuefeng is a respected teacher and businessman, and they all have the necessary capital for self-confidence. In contrast, Liu Xiaoyan is just an ordinary migrant worker. However, it is this identity that brings their stories closer to our hearts.
From a smash hit to being criticized, the flamboyant mouth has caused two years of loneliness. Liu Xiaoyan used to work at New Oriental, where she was responsible for the English exam, and her flexible teaching style and relaxed classroom atmosphere were well received, and her reputation quickly spread throughout the industry.
Liu Xiaoyan was able to find his place in the huge New Oriental education system and quickly became famous, so he received more and more attention.
People are afraid of being famous, pigs are afraid of being strong, but their words are direct but reasonable. Soon after, Liu Xiaoyan's words and deeds sparked many inappropriate controversies. She ridiculed heroes and martyrs and belittled southerners, even though she herself was from Henan.
These words, if communicated to friends in private, may not cause much of a sensation, after all, they are personal opinions. However, as a teacher, being so outspoken in class naturally invites harsh criticism.
In the blink of an eye, the once-highly regarded Hong Kong Diploma of Secondary Education (HKDSE) teacher has become the target of accusation, like a rotten and smelly tomato, which makes people unhappy at first sight. Received by New Oriental"Double minus"During the period of policy influence, postgraduate English continued to flourish.
Coupled with the trend of exam-taking in recent years, if Liu Xiaoyan can avoid this mistake or continue to stay at New Oriental, her career may have a brighter future. Especially in the case of the prevalence of New Oriental live broadcast, she could have made a qualitative leap.
Instead, she chose to keep a low profile, and although she continued to teach, she was significantly less popular than before. And every appearance always raises some different opinions.
Recently, Liu Xiaoyan spoke for the first time about why she left the company. Her current situation seems to have been threatened by her dedication and her talkative mouth.
Liu Xiaoyan revealed the truth about being bullied in New Oriental. According to his description, when he first started working, he was an unhurried person. He always trusted the people around him unreservedly.
On one occasion, she complained with a good colleague about another colleague's unsightly clothes, even though she had a good relationship with the colleague she was criticizing and would not feel offended even if she said it in front of the other person. Still, on impulse, she shared the complaint with other colleagues on another occasion.
After these remarks spread, Liu Xiaoyan seemed to accuse her of dressing inappropriately and looking ugly, which is an inexplicable misunderstanding. She was always ranked first and her grades remained the same, which made her colleagues bully her at work.
They expressed their encouragement to her in groups, for example, at a party, when others gathered together, they sat alone in one place. When she was pregnant and about to give birth, no one wanted to speak for her.
Even when the leaders asked other teachers to give lectures, the teachers all laughed at us, questioning whether it was because Liu Xiaoyan was unhappy that they wanted to find us.
This kind of professional life in which hidden arrows hurt people and open guns and hidden arrows made Liu Xiaoyan feel cold. When she wanted to leave, the director said:"Whoever wants to leave will be let go, it is Liu Xiaoyan who chooses to leave.
He advises colleagues that work is work and never expect to be friends with colleagues. Sometimes, expressions that we think are our true personality can be misinterpreted and even disgusted.
Author's note: Liu Xiaoyan's experience is a wake-up call for contemporary college students. Like Zhang Xuefeng, she made two mistakes, and the lessons were slowly summed up.
When you're in a high position, especially if you have a high position among your peers, you need to know what is appropriate and what not to say. It is also a wisdom to learn to remain silent when self-protection is insufficient.
If you show too much of your ability to outperform your peers and expose too much of your personal shortcomings, you will quickly become the target of public criticism. At the end of the day, it's hard to pinpoint what an attack will come from.
Students, especially recent graduates, must learn to be cautious, observe more, and talk less in their new work environment. Sometimes, people who fall in love with you at first sight and seem to be kind-hearted may not be sincere to you. On the other hand, people who seem unapproachable are not necessarily bad people. Waiting to reveal oneself is the safest and most certain thing to do before you have an accurate judgment about your surroundings, and these are the lessons of previous people.
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