Xiaobai, who has no experience in love, has a relationship with a woman, and the problems are mainly reflected in:
1. Ambiguous timing.
Advancing the relationship too quickly, being too purposeful, makes the woman uncomfortable;Advancing the relationship too slowly, missing the window, and stagnation in the relationship.
2. The ambiguous scale is too large, and it is easy to talk about it;The scale is too small to have much effect.
In response to the first point, ambiguous timing, I would like to give 3 suggestions to the brothers.
1. When a woman is happy and in a good mood.
The main manifestations are, for example, that women respond positively to you and have a good atmosphere to chat with you. For example, she replied to you, haha, you are so funny.
You can just go back like this: yes?My ex-girlfriend said the same thing.
This is not a direct ambiguity, but with some hints and rubbing edges, the advantage is that it can be attacked, and retreat can be defended.
The woman reacted well, she was curious about your sentence, and then your words could be further ambiguous.
If she denies, disdains, or doesn't answer your topic, she can also pull the conversation back, such as teasing you, joking, etc. 2. When a woman takes the initiative to provide information value.
Pay attention to this premise: take the initiative. Take the initiative to provide information value, for example, she said: I am so happy today, my salary has increased Wanda has a newly opened restaurant, which is said to be good, and you can check in and take pictures.
It's not that you ask her, but that she's willing to take the initiative to tell you.
This illustrates a situation where she is willing to talk to you and trust you, and the relationship between the two of you is currently good.
You can say this: If you have money, don't eat too much, otherwise I won't be able to hold you Unfortunately, I can't take a picture of you, and you're not my girlfriend.
3. At the end of the chat high.
You had a good chat with a girl, and when this chat is about to end, it can be ambiguous.
However, the premise is that the overall atmosphere is pleasant when you want to end the chat. For example, you can tell her: I have a meeting tomorrow, I have to go to bed early, it's all your fault, I forgot the time, you abrasive little goblin.
And the girl, she may not remember the content of this chat the next time she chats, but she will definitely be impressed by this sentence.
So that your purpose has been achieved. For the second point, the degree of ambiguity 1, it depends on the woman's reaction.
For example, you want to have an affair with a woman.
Female: Really cold Man: Come, hug Female: Hate, you are so bad Man: Dead ghost, the woman who is in a hurry reacts well, then add weight.
Another example. F: It's cold.
M: Here, hug.
F: ......M: Tease you, I'm afraid you'll take advantage of me.
F: Narcissistic. If the woman doesn't react well, then retreat and balance the relationship through ridicule.
2. Accumulate gradually, stretch to a degree.
Most of the ambiguity follows the law from low to high. The ambiguity of high energy is a process of gradual accumulation, from quantitative change to qualitative change. For example, holding hands-hugging-kissing, the same is true when it comes to words. As for stretching, it's actually similar to a spring, you can't pull it all the time, and you can't close it all the time.
For example, one of my students sent him a chat.
Him: Hug. F: And then he: Throw it out again.
F: Why?
Him: I feel like you're not a good girl: Is that a loss?
Him: Then don't lose it, hold it tight.
What's the problem?In fact, it is over-lifted, which is the same as pulling a spring. If you pull it too hard, it will break.
My reply: Yes, it's a bit of a pity to lose it, you're still a little well-behaved. The ambiguity with the girl is focused on retracting freely and gradually. Do you understand all of the above?
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