Introduction:Hello everyone, I'm Xiao Wu! "There are more friends, but there are fewer relatives. ”This sentence comes from the Ming Dynasty writer Feng Menglong's "Warning to the World", which speaks of the troubles caused by relatives in interpersonal relationships. In real life, we often meet relatives who are close to each other, and they sometimes cause us a lot of trouble and trouble. 
Someone on Zhihu asked:Why is the phenomenon of young people breaking off their relatives more and more serious? Let's listen to a true story around you!
I have a nephew who is my sister's son. I gave him a shop, told him to look at the shop, slept in the store every day, taught him to do things to earn money, and he said I scolded him. The rent of my store is several thousand yuan a month, and the rent of a single store is not enough for me to give me a few pieces a month, and he also said that he did not take care of him to earn money, and asked me to give him 100,000 yuan a year. The most important thing is that he later told my sister about this matter and instigated my sister to transfer the store directly to him. What's even more annoying is that my sister really came to mention it to me, and said: You are so rich, give this shop to your nephew, everyone is a relative, can't you help us if you are better? 
So I advise everyone, if you are really capable, you must also save your relatives in emergencies and not the poor! Not all relatives are worthy of your sincerity!
Especially these three kinds of relatives, even if they are close to each other, they must stay away, otherwise they will suffer! 1. Relatives who fell into trouble when they fell into troubleRelatives are among the closest people in our lives, and the emotional bond of blood is thicker than water is supposed to allow us to support each other and get through difficult times together. However, some relatives chose to be ruthless when they were in trouble, showing extreme selfishness and indifference. In a random survey, more than 90 percent of respondents said they met relatives who only cared about their own interests and did not care about the plight of others. Some of these relatives even choose to openly ridicule and ridicule those who are in trouble, making their situation even more difficult. Finally, 70% of respondents said they had already made the decision to break their family. They believe that these relatives do not have good moral character and that it is wise to keep a distance from them. 
2. Relatives who borrowed money and did not repay it and beat them upWhen borrowing money, it sounds good, and he will never pay it back after borrowing, if he asks him to turn his face immediately, he touches the kitchen knife and yells: If you want money, you have a life, there is a knife here, you kill me. What can you do in the face of such relatives, if you don't pay back the money, you will be shameless. According to statistics, more than 70% of the cases of relatives borrowing in China fall into this category. In the name of affection, these relatives are always willing to lend us a helping hand, which makes us feel warm and comforted. However, when we really need help, they often shirk it for various reasons. The data shows that the number of cases of family breakdown due to the problem of relatives borrowing money is increasing every year, which has brought a lot of impact to the society. 
3. Relatives who take advantage of everything but don't want to suffer a half-starMoney is like dung, and righteousness is worth a thousand gold. Dogs and cats can't be fed too much, and relatives can't be too good. Dogs and cats will not listen to you when they are full, relatives you have always been good to them, will give them a Xi, once you are no longer good to them, they will treat you as an enemy. They always take advantage of the bond of affection and constantly find excuses in us to seek our unconditional help and support. And when we need them, they always shirk responsibility for various reasons. Statistics show that in China, the number of cases of family tension caused by such problems remains high every year, which has a great impact on people's concept of family affection. Therefore, when faced with the help of relatives, we must not be emotional! It is necessary to maintain a rational and calm mind, and not to be blinded by family affection. When it comes to relatives' loans, we need to learn to refuse them to avoid falling into debt. For those relatives who like to ask for help as an excuse, we need to learn to say "no" so that we can protect our own interests.