Workplace Skills Competition
Netizens asked:I am 35 years old, married, my daughter-in-law is pregnant and wants to give birth to a child, the house has a mortgage, an ordinary family, and it has been two years since I was at the department level, and I am currently assigned to work in the township. I saw that the provincial discipline inspection department was recruiting people and wanted to try it. But considering some circumstances, such as if you are admitted, you will have to be in a different place, and the daughter-in-law's work cannot be transferred for the time being, and the daughter-in-law is not too supportive. Another example is that after being admitted, you start from scratch as a clerk. It's confusing.
There are many points that need to be made in life and work, and we must be cautious. 35 years old, the substantive position and selection of the township deputy section, how to choose?1.Recognize a factAt present, no choice can be perfect, no regrets. If you do not participate in the selection this time, it will be difficult for you to have the opportunity to participate in the selection after the age of 35, and you will inevitably regret it when you see news in the future, such as "a certain person who is not as good as himself was selected to a provincial unit" and "a certain provincial unit was not difficult to be selected in that year." If you participate in the selection this time and go ashore successfully, you will inevitably regret it when you face problems such as being in a different place, difficult to adapt to the new environment, and starting from scratch. If you participate in the selection this time but fail to go ashore due to various reasons, regret is inevitable. So,In the current situation, no matter how you choose, you will inevitably have regrets. 2.Know what you wantThere is no perfect option though, butAfter all, there is a trade-offof, of trade-offsThe key is to grasp the main contradictions, see what you want most and what you can give up. If you don't want to stay in the township or county all the time, and want to go to a higher platform, feel a different working and living environment, and enjoy better social resources such as medical care and education, then decisively go for the selection. If you really don't have the idea to overcome those "unknown and difficult on the road", such as the sense of disparity caused by the separation of two places, the decline in job rank and salary, etc., then decisively give up the selection. Whatever choice you make, make your own choice and try not to be influenced by the opinions of those around you (take it into account but don't listen too much). Only in this way will there be no blame and regret afterwards. The most important thing is to choose your own path. 
3.Let's talk about the exam firstAlthough it is said that people who have no long-term concerns must have near-term worries. But everything must have a degree, too much, not grasp the degree, will lead to the emergence of unfounded worry. In fact, many of your "problems" are actually imagined by yourself, and the reality may not exist, or it may not be as serious as you think. At the age of 35, if you do not have the advantages of education, position, etc., it will be the last year for you to participate in the selection. There are many cases of choosing to go ashore once, but there are also many examples of not going ashore many times. In other words, whether you can go ashore this time is not certain. If you don't get ashore, you will only have to worry and think about "why didn't you get in", and the pressure will naturally be much less. Therefore, be less anxious about the unknown, and first complete the things that you can grasp and determine. At present, if you are sure that you want to take the exam, then prepare for the exam well first, and then talk about it when you pass the exam. 4.It is necessary to look at problems in a long-term and dialectical mannerIn the long run, some problems will no longer be problems, and some new problems will arise, such as the separation of the two places due to the transfer of work between townships and towns or cross-county posts, and the development prospects of provincial units are better, among which there are advantages and disadvantages, and cannot be generalized. Therefore,It is necessary to take a long-term and dialectical view of the current problems. In addition, both individually and collectively, they all develop and progress in solving problems, and whether they participate in the selection or not, or the difficulties they face, there is no difficulty to the point where you are powerless. As long as we conscientiously overcome it, the day will come when the problem will be solved. For example, the problem of separation between the two places can be solved through selection, examination, secondment, business investigation, etc., which is a "problem" for you now, but if you go to a higher platform in the future, it will no longer be a problem. In a word, the contradictions and difficulties are only temporary, and some of the difficulties you have described are still only in your imagination and have not appeared. Good luck!