Before his son went to college, the old drama bone Liao Jingsheng heard him say something like this:
Dad, I've grown up, you don't have to feel sorry for me, you can go and pursue your own happiness!
The breakdown of a marriage has caused a lot of damage to children, and it has caused no less damage to parents.
When Liao Jingsheng is mentioned, whether it is in front of the "old cadre" Jin Dong or Huo Jianhua.
I'm afraid that the first two will stand up and wave their hands to give up the title of "old cadre".
Liao Jingsheng has been engaged in acting for 39 years, because of his righteous face, he has always wanted to play the role of a bad guy, and even has to find someone to help him say good things.
With the status of "cadre professional household", he obtained the national first-class actor qualification.
The emotional story is unusually bumpy behind the scenes, even though it seems to be smooth sailing along the way.
For years, he was plagued by a failed marriage, believing that he was sorry for his son and would rather be alone for the rest of his life.
With the encouragement of the child, he took a difficult step, but he did not expect his lover He Qing to be diagnosed with a brain tumor.
Liao Jingsheng, 53, who met love again, vowed to hold on to it tightly and not let it slip through his fingers.
The two took care of each other in front of each other's beds and spent 14 springs, summers, autumns and winters together.
Do you believe that there will be a moment in life when there will be ups and downs?
Liao Jingsheng used the emotional journey of his life to interpret the meaning ...... of these four words
Liao Jingsheng, a native of Beijing, was born in 1955.
His father had a high school education and later became an accountant in a grain factory, while his mother worked in the same grain factory.
It was supposed to enjoy a privileged living environment.
The income of the elders in the family is only half that of the same worker, which is due to the composition of the father.
For this reason, Liao Jingsheng's path to study was even more bumpy.
After graduating from junior high school in 1971, Liao Jingsheng did not choose to go to high school, but chose to work as a boiler worker in a radiator factory under the Agricultural Machinery Bureau.
Every day, coal is constantly being added to a red-hot boiler, whether it is cold or hot.
The working environment is dirty, tiring and hot, which is a great test of people's psychological quality.
Liao Jingsheng has always become the target of bullying by his colleagues due to his youth and his father's background.
Although every day there are a thousand reasons not to want to get out of bed and go to work.
As long as Liao Jingsheng receives his salary every month, he feels that he still has the strength to continue to persevere.
For 7 years, this is the persistence.
His frequent lower back pain was due to long hours of heavy physical labor, and his frequent standing also caused the blood vessels in his legs to dilate.
Liao Jingsheng never thought of being a boilermaker for the rest of his life, and he silently planned his future amid laughter.
Tens of thousands of students cheered for the reopening of the gaokao in 1978.
Liao Jingsheng saw this opportunity, and also inspired unlimited ambition.
Realizing that his knowledge was limited, he decided to apply to art school to make up for it.
In order to pursue the goals of Nortel and Chinese opera, I had to stay up all night to revise desperately before the exam.
After memorizing a few texts, Liao Jingsheng hurriedly walked into the examination room.
He did not pass the cultural class exam, so he was disqualified from taking the art exam, and naturally the answer was not satisfactory.
After returning to the factory, I heard people around me saying "whimsical" and "leper ** still wants to go to heaven".
Liao Jingsheng's cheeks gradually flushed until it spread to the base of his neck.
He rushed out of the gate and walked down the street when he learned that the ** Experimental Drama Theater was recruiting student classes.
Liao Jingsheng seized every opportunity this time and successfully entered the art examination room.
Although the examiner was not satisfied with the young man's results, he felt his daring spirit and that he had the image, temperament and appearance of an actor.
With a wave of his hand, Liao Jingsheng's "boiler life" has been changed.
Even as a student, Xiaobai directly joined the professional team, and Liao Jingsheng could see the gap between him and others.
Follow along, word by word, and practice the contagiousness of facial expressions by looking in the mirror.
The teacher pointed out that "there is a lack of empathy and a slower speed to enter the role".
He spends his days in the rehearsal room, watching other people's performances, and then silently rehearsing himself in his mind.
After two years of study, Liao Jingsheng has enough skills and experience to be a substitute for professional actors, or to take on stage in some small roles.
Some of the trainees in the same group complained that studying and working too hard.
Although Liao Jingsheng never agreed, he often felt that he was really lucky in his heart.
This is easier than when I burned the furnace before, I don't know how many times. After all.
The people around him noticed that he was no longer dressed in black coal, he was no longer dressed in black coal, his whole temperament had improved, and he walked more aura.
So he began to think about communicating with relatives and introducing him to a girlfriend.
At this moment, Liao Jingsheng's eyes were attracted by Dai Ke.
Her face gives a pleasant feeling, and her temperament is gentle and supple.
Liao Jingsheng himself gave in to Dai Ke without hesitation, without the intervention of others at all.
I haven't seen each other for a day, like the love every other three autumns, and the two came hand in hand after walking through shy love and ignorance.
Eventually, this document is logically passed to you, for the sake of the couple.
Until Liao Jingsheng officially entered the film and television industry, the two always paid attention to taking care of each other after marriage.
I don't know if it's because of the help of love, or if the hard work of the career has paid off.
The 27-year-old Liao Jingsheng was selected by the director of "A Corner of the City" in 1982.
He plans to work with Li Ling, who is in the limelight in the theater, to play the leading role.
In order to make his image more in line with the identity of the character "shoemaker" in the play.
Whenever after work, he always goes to the shoe factory** masters to make shoes by hand.
Once you've learned something, you can't wait to ask the other person to give it a try.
After 20 days of hard study, he has reached the level of an apprentice who can be a teacher.
The director was very satisfied with Liao Jingsheng's attitude of using his own brains for the role.
In front of a group of theater leaders, after the filming, Liao Jingsheng was fully praised.
The benefit of being noticed by leaders is that opportunities will be more likely to prioritize you.
In 1983, the leader recommended Liao Jingsheng to join the filming team of the TV series "Qiao Buddies".
After many rounds of selection, he finally succeeded in getting the opportunity to play the leading actor "Jiang Erzhu".
By playing this role, Liao Jing successfully created a character image that the audience will never forget.
With his career on track, Liao Jingsheng didn't have enough time and energy to care about his family and his wife's feelings.
In 1986, he collaborated with Hong Xuemin on "Li Xin and the Red Lady", and then participated in "Ms. Pingmei" with Liu Dong and Li Yizhe.
Dai Ke is still in the crew, but ushered in the news that he is about to give birth.
Director Yu Zhimin sensed Liao Jingsheng's sense of urgency, so everyone accelerated the filming speed.
When Liao Jingsheng returned home, he found that Dai Ke had welcomed a son for them.
Dai Ke can comfort herself that even if she can't meet Liao Jingsheng, she knows that her husband has been working hard outside the home for the sake of the family.
As soon as she met Liao Jingsheng, the grievances in her heart could no longer be concealed.
I don't think I should be so impatient.
Dai Ke's mood is still unstable, and Liao Jingsheng is already going out to work.
Dai Ke became more and more silent, guarding the elderly and children in the family.
She understands that her husband is working outside the home to provide better security for the family.
My husband loves and desires acting very much, so I should support and understand him, not complain.
A long separation can have the worst effect on a relationship.
As time passed, Dai Ke's feelings for Liao Jingsheng gradually faded.
In the end, the family is seen only as a duty that must be fulfilled.
co-starred with Sun Changjiang and others in "Sword Roaring Great Wall", and then in 95 years "The Sky is Above" and "The Story of My Family", he experienced such an artistic career.
Liao Jingsheng's appearances on the TV screen are becoming more and more frequent, but he has also missed more and more moments of his son's growth.
The exact location and class information of my son's kindergarten attendance is completely unclear.
Dai Ke attends every parent exchange meeting.
Mother and son snuggle up to each other for every birthday.
Gradually, Dai Ke realized that she no longer needed the role of husband in her life.
In her son's heart, she is a gentle mother;And in the eyes of her son, she is an all-powerful husband.
After Liao Jingsheng starred in "The Sky is Up", he found the direction to shape his role - to become an upright cadre.
He doesn't spend much time at home, but even then he shows the demeanor of a "cadre".
Dai Ke sat on the balcony, listening to ** and reading the script, and at the same time prepared hot water and tea for when needed.
When you are not at home, your child always wants to play with you, can you find time to play with him for a while?
He asked me if I wanted to accompany him, and I refused.
Dai Ke woke up instantly, when she saw Liao Jingsheng's expression of indifference.
As a father, it never occurred to him that his children also needed companionship, because his son always deliberately did not express his love for him.
Will such a family have an impact on the growth of children?What's the point of keeping a marriage?
Dai Ke calmly said the word divorce, which shocked Liao Jingsheng.
was originally full of emotion, but when Dai Ke made a decision, he felt relaxed all over.
Liao Jingsheng is someone I really can't accept.
He believes that there have been no major conflicts between the husband and wife, and there has not been much quarrel.
Everything is going on normally, how can a divorce suddenly be mentioned and there is nothing left to talk about.
One sentence made Dai Ke let Liao Jingsheng have to let go.
Please forgive me, I just want to have an easier life and not be like a resentful woman. Without you, I think I would have lived 10 more years!
Unbeknownst to herself, the wife was already extremely disappointed in her marriage.
It was then that Liao Jingsheng realized.
Because some people are willing to bear grievances, I live a happy life as a matter of course.
It had been too long for him to remember who he was as a "husband and father" in the family.
The division of property did not cause any unpleasant quarrels, and there was no mutual hatred after the separation.
Dai Ke and Liao Jingsheng got together and dispersed, and left with the child.
After the family was broken and his loved ones left, Liao Jingsheng fell into a long silence.
The parents of the Liao family saw everything in their eyes, but they couldn't say the words that blamed their daughter-in-law for being ruthless.
The two old men could only advise their son, encouraging him to do his best to mend the relationship between his ex-wife and son.
Liao Jingsheng began to pay attention to the details of his son's life in order to reduce the harm caused by his parents' divorce to his children.
Attend your son's activities at school and attend parent-teacher conferences.
Wholeheartedly pay attention to your child's learning and life, and do everything you can to meet his wishes and needs.
Before Liao Jingsheng wants to join the crew, he will take the child to his home for a few days.
After completing the filming task of "New Overlord Flower", he also gave his son a small gift.
After more than two years of hard work, Liao Jingsheng finally succeeded in opening his son's heart knot, and their relationship became very close, like a "father and son friend" who talked about everything.
He understands that it is not easy for his ex-wife to take care of the children alone, and he also knows that in addition to paying child support to his son, Dai Ke will not ask him for money.
He often buys supplements, and will also send his son physiotherapy machinery to pass on to Dai Ke.
Liao Jingsheng and Dai Ke hold the same concept of starting a new relationship.
This is because the child is too young to think about it.
He always hopes that he can grow up quickly and see all this in his eyes.
In 2004, with his satisfactory results, he stepped into the college entrance examination room.
Before stepping onto the college campus, this high-spirited young man.
I solemnly said to my parents: "Now that I have grown up, you can let go of your responsibilities to me and live your own life, preferably with someone." ”
Liao Jingsheng and Dai Ke were very happy, but they didn't pay much attention to the child's words.
After the filming of "The Right Way in the World" was completed in 1998, Liao Jingsheng's "cadre style" was unanimously recognized by directors and audiences in the film and television industry.
In dramas such as "Very Contact", "Kangxi Dynasty", "Beloved Relatives and Friends" and "Citizen Conscience".
Liao Jingsheng's positive image has been continuously improved.
In 2006, he starred in "Who Is My Dad" with You Yong, He Qing and Wang Ziwen.
Wang Ziwen's first TV series is about to be released on the screen, which also marks the beginning of the fate between Liao Jingsheng and actor He Qing.
He Qing, who is 9 years younger than Liao Jingsheng, has a more complicated love history.
At the age of 25, she started a relationship with 32-year-old actor Liu Wei for starring in "Women's Rangers".
He Qing and Xu Yajun have been in love for 5 years, but she has feelings for this married man because of a "Wind and Lotus Resentment".
One doesn't care if he already has a boyfriend, and the other doesn't care if he has a family.
As a result, he had another heart attack and almost caused Xu Yajun's ex-wife to pass away.
The two would rather be scolded than choose to be together, even if they are called "Peach-colored Demon Girl" and "Chen Shimei".
He Qing gave birth to her son Xu He in 2001, but broke up with Xu Yajun in 2003.
After becoming a single mother, she put aside her personal light and devoted herself to her career and taking care of her son.
Liao Jingsheng and He Qing have a good tacit understanding of conversation.
He Qing believes that Liao Jingsheng is a different man.
He knows how to be considerate and careful, good at caring for the emotional needs of others, and also knows how to get along with others in moderation and not make others feel uncomfortable.
Liao Jingsheng's indifferent attitude towards He Qing and the lifestyle of raising children alone made him admire it very much, because it showed her sincere attitude towards life.
The interaction between the two gradually increased, but no one dared to take any further risks.
The son of the Liao family learned that his father had a good relationship with an aunt, so he began to knock on the side.
He was shocked when he heard Liao Jingsheng say, "I'll introduce you when you come back, and I'll see your attitude before deciding."
The young man, who had not yet graduated, realized that his father was still very concerned about his feelings.
In the summer vacation of that year, the Liao family did not go home, but constantly encouraged his father to pursue love bravely.
He Qing's birthday was in January 2008.
With the encouragement of his son, Liao Jingsheng decided to take the initiative.
He Qing once said that he liked his words, so he wrote a love letter with a brush, and this letter was like piercing the window paper between the two.
He Qing received a letter, she was very happy, and read it several times.
She also had some doubts in her mind.
He Qing brought her son Xu He to dinner with Liao Jingsheng.
Liao Jingsheng seemed to understand Xu Qing's concern, so he began to take the initiative to approach Xu He.
How my son and Xu He met, and how they care for each other in their daily lives.
Liao Jingsheng was highly recognized by Xu He, which also made He Qing let go of his worries.
Just when things were developing in a good direction, He Qing suddenly fell seriously ill.
Someone broke the news that she had a brain tumor.
There is some speculation that Liao Jingsheng will choose to leave her at this time.
Liao Jingsheng responded to the remarks on the Internet with practical actions.
Take time out of your day to take a break from your work and go to the hospital to accompany you.
Liao Jingsheng deeply realized that the first period of marriage made him understand that only companionship is the preservative of love.
In order to whet He Qing's appetite, he began to try to cook various soups and change the way he cooked.
In the process of He Qing's passage through the dangerous period, he accompanied her while taking on the responsibilities of daily life.
Liao Jingsheng gave He Qing great encouragement and psychological support when she needed it most.
After their condition improved, they quietly received their marriage certificate and started a new life.
Xu He and Liao Jingsheng's son have a close relationship, and often follow them as "brother, brother".
He Qing and Liao Jingsheng have a stable relationship, not only after work, but also know how to coordinate the family.
He Qing's illness broke out again in 2015.
Liao Jingsheng once again started a new round of thoughtful care and companionship, just like before.
Their love has been rumored to be a good story in the circle, proving that even halfway couples can be so inseparable.
Liao Jingsheng once felt sorry for his ex-wife and son, and he decided to use the rest of his life to make up for his past regrets as much as possible.
He was fortunate to be forgiven, and he no longer had to endure the torment in his heart.
The 67-year-old Liao Jingsheng has now re-experienced a love relationship.
After 14 years of companionship with He Qing, the emotional gap between them has been repaired, and I believe that they will be happier in the future.