When you love someone, all difficulties are not a problem, and true love will have the courage to give up everything.
However, when a person is discouraged, he really can't take the initiative, he is tired, he doesn't want to wronged himself anymore, and he doesn't want to be that person anymore, who pays but is not seen.
Everything becomes indifferent.
In the final analysis, it's not that I don't care anymore, it's not that I don't let it go, but I want to resign myself to fate, and I don't want to toss anymore.
In the relationship, what I am most afraid of is that I am not loved by the person I like, but I am dragged on, and what is even more afraid is that I feel powerless for a relationship.
Repeated cold wars, disconnection, little by little consumption, all enthusiasm, until only a dilapidated body remained, so tired that I didn't want to support it anymore.
When the last patience is exhausted, and then the cold war, the woman chooses to cut off all contact, does not respond, and does not think cranky, her thoughts at the moment are nothing more than these 3.
1. Test you one last time
This last time, she no longer took the initiative, no longer forgave easily, and if she couldn't see the attitude, she resolutely didn't give you a chance again.
It's a big gamble, it's a gamble, bet on yourself, the weight in your heart, how much is there, whether you are still the same as always, care about her.
If she no longer takes the initiative, she no longer compromises and accommodating, will you panic because you are missing her in your life, take the initiative to find her, and talk to your heart.
After I can't find you, will I try all my best to contact you, will I have introspection and make changes because of this dispute?
Will it be because of this complete disconnection that he will have it, and he will lose your fear and cherish her more.
If you don't look for her, and you don't have the consciousness of introspection, but let it go and let it develop freely, then this time, you will really lose her completely.
2. I can't let go of my feelings and want to be quiet
Women, for feelings, are basically emotional and soft-hearted.
Once you are emotional, even if you know that you have been deceived, you still can't be ruthless and choose to give up, but heal yourself while hurting.
She may want to give up, or she may want to try to separate, but her mind has always been thinking of this person's kindness to her.
She couldn't let go, the other party deceived her, but she had to admit that she couldn't let him go.
In the midst of pain and entanglement, in this dilemma, choose a person to be quiet, see how things develop, and decide according to the attitude of the other party.
At this time, the disconnection is to see how much the other party values her, give him time to fight for it, and get her forgiveness.
At the same time, it is also to give herself time to consider whether this relationship is worth continuing.
If she can't figure it out, she'll keep torturing herself;If at this time, the other party keeps coming to show goodwill and ask for forgiveness.
She will choose to forgive and start over because of the love that exists in her heart.
3. I want it to be over
No longer contact, no longer responding, my heart is as hard as a stone, I am no longer moved by the other party, I just want to leave.
I saw it clearly, I saw it through, and I knew that if I continued, there was no need and there would be no result;
It will only be repeated over and over again, and the cold war for no reason needs to bow its head again and again in exchange for the other party's stay.
The last time, she chose not to bear it, not to talk about it, and to live as happy as she wanted.
Perhaps, it will be difficult to endure that time of separation, but time is the best antidote, and she will always be relieved of everything.
Silence is not golden, not crying or making trouble is not sensible, and being silent is not because of maturity, everything is just, forget it.
In this world, there is no kind of suffering that can overcome the torment of a woman's heart.
Therefore, if you love someone, please cherish it with your heart, don't wait for her to be disappointed, leave, and regret it.