In fact, it is a very strong ability to understand the true intentions and interests of others from their superficial words and actions, and bind their own actions to the interests of others, and find solutions for the common interests of both parties. Do you think that if you don't lick for so many years, you chose not to lick?It's just that it's not good to lick it, it's uncomfortable to lick the leader hard, and the cost is very high. It's not a no-do, it's really not a no-no.
The truth is that we can't learn at all, and we don't have the ability to see.
Netizens said that my husband has been in his 20s step by step, from being stunned to doing his own career to the head. He will be capable, hardworking, and willing to work with high emotional intelligence and be low-key, and give the other party's leadership every time the emotional value and action value benefit. My observation is not that it will be added at all, it is really the ability to control the overall situation.
If you have a strong ability to lick again, isn't it invincible?Licking is actually to give the leader emotional value, and to accurately understand the needs of the other party, it does take effort and ability.
It's too real, I've worked for so many years, I've never licked the leader, and I'm afraid of instinct when I stay away. And then I don't want to lick it, I can't be so hypocritical, and I can't do it, why can't I do it?It should be the point you said that looking at words and colors provides value.
I realized that motivation is really a difficult ability.
It is an ability to lick a dog, especially in the workplace, just like a sycophant, from the other side, he provides a good emotional value to the boss or the other party, and the thick skin is thick, this kind of person is easier to succeed or things are done more smoothly. And yes, I hate to define this as licking, which is really hard and hard to move forward steadily in the unit.
Empathy is the king, it is the essence!
If only it was as simple as licking, would you do those dirty things, bad things, or even illegal things?Do you carry those pots?Let's take a look at how many catties and taels I have, see if I can walk by the river without getting my shoes wet, and then consider whether I want to go to this troubled water.
Your strengths, only you know, class A is not tactful if you don't report, and you can't shine gold in class B.
Nothing else is evaluated, it is normal and very necessary to report work actively and with the leader, this is not licking. It is impossible for the attention of the leaders above to keep on your mess, if you don't report and show yourself, how can others find out your strengths?Not to mention taking the initiative to dig out the strengths, I have never seen a leader who is responsible to the people below to such a degree.
Yes, so Zhang Jiayan who saw "News Queen" felt the same way, when she was young, she felt that she was highly educated and capable, and she disdained to pat the leaders on the back and take the credit of others on herself. Now I understand that licking the dog as a leader is also a skill, and I just didn't have this ability by nature.
I've always admired this kind of person who will manage upwards, and often the reality is that I know that I should do this and that, but I have strong self-esteem or a strong sense of morality, so I won't really do it, and I am still at the bottom in middle age.
I think that's how society works, at least as far as I can see from my own experience, and all we can do is reconcile with ourselves.
When anything is not swayed by emotions, seriously thinking about other people's intentions, not harming their own interests, and letting everyone coexist peacefully on the surface, this is a kind of ability, the kind of Qinggao who wrongs himself and persuades himself to lie flat is really useless except for making himself more troubled.