Backstage, a fan friend sent a private message, saying that he likes a friend of the opposite sex around him, but he doesn't know if the other party likes him or not, he can't feel his heart, and he doesn't understand his mind, so whenever he gets along with his crush, he always wants to test his attitude towards himself and what his mind is. Think about yourself.
Yes, because we can't read minds, there is no way to know if a person likes themselves and if they are sincere with themselves, just like in real life, some people always like to observe whether the person likes themselves or not through the chat between two people, after all, sometimes chat is one of the most direct expressions. At the same time, it is also the most direct way to feel your inner thoughts.
Some people may think that the relationship between men and women is a very complicated thing, how to say it, just like two people playing a game, if you can understand the heart of the person you like and can accurately grasp the true psychology of ta, you will not let yourself love the wrong person, all the time and effort you have put in are in vain, but in the end, you still get nothing. I'm sure no one wants that kind of outcome.
On the road of affection, no matter who wants to love, you must leave your feelings to someone who is truly worthy of love, you must spend your precious time on something truly meaningful, and you must be able to finally reap the love and happiness you want. When chatting with the opposite sex, you send "what are you busy with", and when you receive these "3 words", you can directly block it, and it may be a waste of your time to talk again, so why bother yourself?
In the process of going forward, if a person likes himself, is interested in himself, and is interested in the idea of wanting to be with himself, then he will care about his own views and opinions, and everything is about himself, he will want to know, he will want to understand clearly, no matter what, he will show special interest, and never indifferently say to himself "use your tube", or "it's none of your business".
When he chats with himself, he never feels nosy, tired of himself, hates to ask, and feels very happy about his care, and is especially willing to tell himself everything about him. If every time you talk to the other person, or ask the other person any question, only the other person answers coldly, take advantage of you.
Then you should understand that if you have rejected yourself like this, it is still so obvious, you can also choose to give up directly, even if the person you like is good, it is good to spend more money, how good this person is, but the teaching assistant doesn't like yourself, you can't go into each other's hearts, and then every time you take the initiative to find the teaching assistant to chat, it means that it is an interruption, if this person always treats yourself like this, then you still know that it is useless, and slowly learn to use your time and mind on other more useful things, or block it directly as soon as possible, so as not to fall too deep。
Maybe in real life, some people always like to use the phrase "what" to chat with others, in fact, they don't really want to know what this person is doing, maybe most of them are not worth talking about, using the phrase "what" as an opening line, more because they miss this person, care about this person, or want to chat with this person. That's why you use this opening line to ask the other person so that you can know what the person is doing right now.
If the person has himself in his heart, or wants to talk to himself, then he will definitely reply to himself, tell himself what he is doing, and also ask what you are doing, so that you have a chance to chat, have a topic to talk about, and then the two of you can talk all the time. Only in this way can two people communicate more and understand each other more. Feelings can be developed and the relationship will become closer, but if every time you chat with the other person and ask them what they are doing, they always answer that they are not doing it, then it can only prove that either the person is not doing any good to themselves, or they just don't want to talk to themselves, or it may be because the person hates themselves, is not interested in them, and is not even willing to be ordinary friends with them. I don't even want to chat with myself, let alone have further contact with myself, so it's best to let go of it early, don't continue to entangle, and it's best to block it directly, so as not to get hurt often.
It is said that the person who really loves you, on the road to the southeast and northwest, is free all year round, never has to be busy, there is no empty reason to commit suicide, even if he is really busy with work for a while, he will find time to reply to his messages, or explain what they are busy, because the heart is to equip itself, worry about itself, and care about itself, therefore, whenever he receives his message, his heart will be especially happy and excited, he cannot control this joy, he wants to talk to himself as soon as possible.
If the person you like or want to chat with has no ego in his heart and will not regard himself as a thing, even if he is too lazy to reply to his messages, he will say to himself that he is very busy, and not once, but every time, he always likes to stifle himself with being busy with work. I want to stop messaging them because they don't want to reply to my messages.
Maybe everyone will have a very busy time, but every day is busy every day is not free, and then you don't understand without self-knowledge, if someone always treats themselves like this, then you don't deceive, probably no matter how hard you try to get into his heart, it is useless, it is better to directly protect the other party to remove it and put yourself from wasting your feelings and your time.
When someone sends a message saying "busy", in fact, does not answer the question "yes", but when this answer appears between lovers, it is very problematic, especially **, like talking to a stranger about work, if your significant other always answers yourself like this, in fact, it may be equivalent to telling yourself that you don't want to talk to yourself, or don't want to answer your question, if you have something to say directly, if you really can't stop small talk, then don't waste their time.
Just imagine, if you find this person with joy and anticipation, and want to talk to this person, but since you get such an answer, you may feel bad at the moment, like being splashed from head to toe by a basin of ice water, and suddenly losing interest in chatting with two people, maybe the reason why this person talks to himself like this is to make himself understand. They don't like themselves and don't want to talk to themselves, don't go back to them unless something is important.
In fact, in the process of going to different places, if you receive an answer like the above, and more than once, many times, then you may have to recognize yourself, don't go to the hot face and cold ass, let alone hard entanglement, after all, there may be no result for both of you.