For women, a good relationship between men and women can not only bring happiness to themselves and nourish their souls, but also have the potential to change a person's life. On the contrary, a bad relationship between a man and a woman can easily lead to pain and unhappiness. Not only will there be a loss of material things, but it can also lead to endless internal friction.
A harmonious relationship becomes especially important when we meet someone who is worth entrusting the rest of our lives with. Men and women get along, if they can achieve "three not excessive", they can always get along amicably.
1.Don't get overly entangled.
If two people love each other, they will give to each other, you and me. But once one party has compassion or an ambiguous relationship with a third party, even if you are unwilling to send messages to bombard the other party every day, the other party will not care. Eventually, you may push him into a corner, and he will answer you with just a few words.
Taking a step back, in order to make the other person change his mind, you choose to compromise or continue to entangle. Such a result may not necessarily save the other party's heart. Instead, it will fuel his desire to control you and allow him to control you better.
Such a man is not sincere to you. The barely earned relationship, even if it is temporarily maintained, will only be repeatedly entangled, allowing itself to be constantly hurt. Until finally the last hope is lost, and then lonely ** wounds.
2.Don't overdo it.
In a man's heart, you don't need to be overthought at all. Men will know how to be nice to you. He will tell you anything he wants you to know and will never hide it from you. It won't disappear suddenly, making you worry about not finding him.
For those who love you, it is superfluous for you to worry about it. He will take the initiative to share his daily life with you. Because sharing is one of the ways he loves you.
If a man doesn't have you in his heart at all, you ask him why he doesn't contact youWhy run away?What's the point of asking hard?No matter how hard you try, you won't get an answer. Your efforts will only bring more troubles.
3.Don't over-rely on it.
When a man is willing to share with you, you respond positively. He doesn't want to share it with you, so you don't need to bother to find out too much, let alone ask about it. He cares about you and is naturally willing to communicate with you and share with you. If he doesn't want to share with you and he doesn't have a place for you in his heart, then why should you care how he spends his life?
Whether you're happy or not, it's not something you need to worry about. What you need to care about is yourself and how to live better. He is so ruthless to you, why should you be so affectionate?In relationships, we often go through some ups and downs. But this does not mean that for the sake of love, you must persevere in the wind and rain.
Any relationship can only last if two people work together. It's hard to sustain one-sided efforts. Feelings are like this, being too proactive may not be useful. Feelings are created by two people, you are just right, and I am also suitable.