She is the "Golden Phoenix" who came out of the ravine, and has been on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for 24 consecutive years, and every song "Hot Girl" and "Good Day" are deeply loved by people, and she is a famous singer in my country
In 1978, my father died of illness, and my grandmother passed away with it.
The family is destitute, and there is a deaf and dumb younger brother to take care of.
***, who was only 12 years old, resolutely shouldered the burden of supporting his family and became the "pillar" of the family.
**Behind the success is inseparable from her talent and hard work, and we can't ignore the man Luo Hao who silently supports her.
From Xiangxi"Village girl"to the Spring Festival Gala"Nail household", which is what she has achieved through talent and hard work.
At the age of 39, she ushered in the advanced age of giving birth, and at the age of 57, she and her husband are still in love.
However, behind the happy marriage, she has been separated from her husband for 8 years.
Why did she make such a choice?After 10 years of disappearance, how is her current life?
In the memory of ***, childhood was happy and beautiful.
She was born in 1966 in a poor family in the mountains of Xiangxi, where her parents and grandmother barely lived in a dilapidated house.
Despite her family's financial constraints, she is fortunate to have loving parents and a well-behaved and lovely younger siblings, and the family is happy.
She is the eldest daughter in the family and is very sensible. Mom and Dad are busy farming to support the family, so *** took the initiative to take care of their younger siblings and never let Mom and Dad worry about it.
Despite the hardships of life, the family is connected by heart, which can be described as joy and suffering. As our younger siblings grew up, our lives gradually became better.
However, the unexpected came suddenly.
When my father was diagnosed with tuberculosis, I was 12 years old, and his body was getting weaker and weaker, and the "pillar" of the family collapsed overnight.
Although my mother scattered all her family wealth just to save my father's life, since I came home from school that day, I have never been able to see the dying figure on the floor.
He couldn't help but redden, as if he understood something, as he looked at his mother's swollen eyes from crying.
** And her mother felt even more devastated, not long after her father's death, her grandmother also chose to end her life because she couldn't stand the hurt of other people's words.
What a devastating blow it is for a family to lose two loved ones in just a few days?
**When I was just admitted to junior high school, I was left with only my weak mother and two younger siblings who needed to be taken care of. She gritted her teeth and said to her mother, "Mother, I don't go to school anymore, I want to go out to work to support you." ”
Although Song's mother firmly disagreed, she was busy with farm work during the day and had to do handicrafts at night to make money. In order to borrow money, I almost broke my leg, and I worked hard to raise enough money to pay for *** tuition.
In order to live up to my mother's hard work, ** studied hard at school.
In those days when she was forced to grow up by life, she could always recall the mountain songs her grandmother sang to her when she was a child.
After the death of my father and grandmother, singing became the only solace in my life.
At that time, she had only one thought in her heart: study hard, start a business and make a lot of money in the future, and then let her mother and younger siblings say goodbye to the hard life forever.
However, her life is turned upside down by an unexpected event.
Fate is always very critical of those who are unfortunate, and before he and his mother can get out of the shadow of the death of their loved ones, they suffer from a sudden high fever in their young brother, which causes him to lose both ears and vocal cords, and can no longer enjoy beautiful sounds.
The younger brother's former lively and cute appearance disappeared overnight, and he became a deaf and mute man. This made it unacceptable to both *** and her mother, and to make matters worse, the family was already unable to pay ***'s tuition fees because of the treatment.
** In the midst of misfortune, he was fortunate that fate left him a glimmer of life.
At that time, the county's song and dance troupe happened to come to the school to enroll, and the homeroom teacher did not hesitate to recommend ***, who was good at singing and dancing
However, ** didn't actually have any professional training, and she thought to herself that if she failed, she would go and find a job.
As soon as she opened her mouth, the leaders of the song and dance troupe were completely attracted by her pure voice, which was really unexpected.
The ordinary and even somewhat rustic mountain song she sang was so beautiful that the leader immediately decided to sign this little girl.
**After dropping out of school and joining the song and dance troupe, this is not only a turning point in her life, but also brings a glimmer of hope to this stormy little family.
At the age of 15, he left home and began a life touring with a song and dance troupe.
The income from each performance is meager, but she always sends money home as soon as possible, and she can only barely eat pickles and steamed buns.
It's been four years of hard work.
In the past 4 years, he has not revealed any bad news to his family, but has devoted himself to learning all kinds of ** theoretical knowledge in the song and dance troupe.
Until the age of 19, she successfully passed the examination of ** National College, making up for her regret that she failed to complete junior high school.
In the same year, ** was selected by the Xiangxi Song and Dance Troupe with his excellent singing voice, and walked out of the depths of the mountains and had the opportunity to explore a broader world.
It was at this time that she met the destined "him".
Luo Hao is not only my husband, but also the benefactor in my life.
**, a sophomore at the time, was recommended by her teacher to participate in the National Young Singer Contest in 1987, but due to poor performance, she unfortunately failed to stand out, and this experience brought a heavy blow to her.
From joining the song and dance troupe to being admitted to Minzu University, he has always relied on his natural singing talent and unremitting efforts, although the road is difficult, but it is also smooth.
Never before in her life had she suffered such a huge setback.
**Began to doubt himself, could it be that in Xiangxi, his level was still outstanding, but when he arrived in a big city, he was not known to everyone?
Her thoughts made her feel a little frustrated, but her tenacious character was cultivated in a difficult childhood, so *** would not give up on herself easily.
She wakes up at dawn every day, persistently practices basic skills, and constantly asks teachers and classmates for advice. A year has passed, and when she stood on the stage of the singer contest again, she was full of apprehension.
After the song ended, the audience was silent, looking at the audience's indifferent reactions, thinking that this time it was going to fail again, so he left the stage full of loss.
At that moment, a boy sitting in the front row of the audience quietly walked up to her and whispered to her, "Your performance just now is really good." ”
Luo Hao, who was the director and producer of Hunan TV at that time, was deeply attracted by her when he saw *** for the first time. When *** sang emotionally on stage, he was completely intoxicated by her beautiful singing voice and couldn't extricate himself.
** hesitated in his heart, but Luo Hao knew it. The silence in the audience just now was not because ***'s singing was not good, but because her performance was so good, the audience was intoxicated by her singing and didn't have time to react.
With Luo Hao's encouragement and comfort, ** gradually calmed down and quietly waited for the final result of the game.
She originally thought that Luo Hao was just comforting her, but what she didn't expect was that she actually won the first place in the competition!
**Happily, Luo Hao, who admires her very much, also introduced her to an extremely important person - the well-known singer Jin Tielin!
Jin Tielin was undoubtedly a radiant palace-level master for *** at that time.
If it weren't for Luo Hao's introduction, she would never have had the opportunity to meet such a "big man".
Jin Tielin and Luo Hao have the same opinion, and also think that *** is a rare talent, so he decided to personally take her as an apprentice and teach her singing skills.
Under the careful guidance of the mentor, the strength of ** has improved by leaps and bounds, successfully won the "Golden Dragon Cup" championship, and appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala in 1990!
The playful and lovely song "Little Back Basket" started her 24-year journey to the Spring Festival Gala, and the singing voice of ** also warmed the hearts of people across the country, and has been widely spread since then.
Her career is booming, and at the same time, her love is quietly coming.
** Deeply grateful to Luo Hao, he regards Luo Hao as a noble person who introduced his mentor.
As a result, the two naturally became close friends and maintained a long correspondence.
I don't know when other emotions began to emerge in this friendship.
For ***, it may be that when I received the letters written by Luo Hao continuously, I fell in love for a long time;As for Luo Hao, when he saw *** at a glance, his heart only beat for her.
Once the carriage traveled slowly, but he hated the short-term love of paper. Two years have passed in a hurry, and the two people on opposite sides of the world rarely see each other, but their hearts are closely connected.
Luo Hao endured the pain of unrequited love for two years, and finally expressed his feelings for *** in a letter two years later. This lovesick suffering is expressed in words.
How can you not understand your attitude towards feelings if you are so smart?However, when faced with the confession of his beloved, ** fell into hesitation.
Luo Hao is an enviable son of heaven, and his family background is very different from hers. Her father died young, and her younger brother was deaf and dumb. Is it really worth her to be with Luo Hao?
**After struggling for a long time, he finally confessed his tragic childhood and original family to Luo Hao in a letter full of sadness, and told him: "Although I also have you in my heart, we are not suitable, let's let it go." ”
**After sending the reply, I didn't hear from Luo Hao for a long time.
Although her heart was already in turmoil, she still forced herself to forget Luo Hao and devote herself to her singing career.
But Luo Hao will never give up easily. After receiving the reply, he immediately rushed from Hunan to Beijing, just to be able to give *** an answer in person.
Very surprised by Luo Hao's indifferent attitude, she couldn't help but shed tears when she heard him say that he didn't care about her family. When she said goodbye, she was filled with all kinds of emotions.
The two have been in love for two years and finally entered the palace of marriage in 1992, and they are surrounded by flowers and blessings.
However, they never imagined that what would follow would be an eight-year separation.
Never thought of giving up on your career, despite being married and starting a family. She has a love for singing and is determined not to compromise with anyone.
As a husband, Luo Hao understands and supports her;As a lover, Luo Hao is deeply infatuated with her independent charm and can't extricate himself.
The two hit it off and decided to stay in Hunan and Beijing respectively.
Despite 8 years of separation, their relationship is still deep, and it has strengthened their love for each other.
After 12 years of marriage, an unexpected love crystallization appeared, forcing *** to pause the pace of struggle. Before that, Luo Hao was ready to spend the rest of his life with ***.
Luo Hao was particularly pleasantly surprised by the arrival of the child, but at the same time, his heart was full of hesitation.
** is 39 years old, considered an "older mother", and he hopes that she can be safe and healthy, which is more important than the child.
The level of obsession with having children is surprising.
In 2004, ** successfully ushered in the birth of his son, and everyone is looking forward to this moment.
Mother and son are safe, and when she looks at the reunited family of three, her heart is filled with unprecedented happiness and satisfaction.
After giving birth to a child, she did not choose to return to her family, but continued to focus on her singing career.
She has been on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala for 24 consecutive years, and her singing voice has resounded all over the world, and it was not until 2016 that she stopped her unremitting efforts.
**The reason why she can sing so wholeheartedly is inseparable from the silent support and companionship of her husband Luo Hao.
Luo Hao not only took on the responsibility of taking care of the children alone, but also took his mother and deaf-mute brother to take care of him, and did his best.
After going through a lot of hardships, ** suddenly looked back at her husband and children around her, and realized that she owed them too much.
But it's still too late, and she can spend the rest of her life making up for this wish.
She is 57 years old and rarely appears in public, instead spending her whole time with her husband and children. After 30 years of married life, her relationship with her husband is still deep, and they love each other.