People have to go through many stages in their lives, and marriage is the most important life stage and choice in everyone's life, only married couples will always be by their side, two people reflect each other, take care of each other. Therefore, a good marriage relationship is especially important.
However, in 2020, there is a 60-year-old couple, after their children passed away one after another, they resolutely came to the court to sue for divorce
Things have to start from Xisheng Village, Liangqing District, Nanning City, Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region in 2020.
You stinky bitch, don't come into my house, don't steal my things!I saw an old man about 60 years old scolding in a bad tone to an old lady who was also 60 years old.
The old man scolded the old lady on the one hand, and on the other hand, he was about to beat her, driving the old lady away from his residence.
If you see this kind of scene for the first time, you will mistakenly think that the two have been enemies for decades, and they often fight to the death openly and secretly. However, the people in the village have long been surprised by this, and it seems that this is not the first time.
In fact, the two people who quarreled were not long-standing enemies as we imagined, on the contrary, the two used to be a couple living under the same roof, the man's name was Zhang Yuanguo, and the woman's name was Wu Yufen.
Not long ago, the 60-year-old couple actually went to the court for divorce, which became known to everyone and spread the word.
People in the same village have a lot of doubts about this, it stands to reason that the two have lived for so long, everyone looks up every day and doesn't look down, and they never thought that the old couple had such an irreconcilable contradiction, and they actually had a lawsuit for divorce.
Even if there are really serious contradictions, they are all old husbands and wives, they have been together for so many years, there is no credit and hard work, not to mention that there may be children at home, how can there be things that cannot be solved, and it has reached such a point?
After gradually understanding, I learned that the two in their 60s did not have an irreconcilable conflict that broke out recently, and there was another hidden story behind it.
During the duration of their marriage, the two were in a state of nominal and non-existent. The root cause of his unhappy marriage is still a remnant of feudal tradition - "arranged marriage".
When she was young, Wu Yufen was also the yellow flower girl in the village, which girl did not conceive spring, for the future marriage partner, Wu Yufen longed for a lot of fantasies, she hoped that her future husband was an excellent person, able to treat herself wholeheartedly, and live honestly.
Reality gave her a blow to the head, and before she met her sweetheart, her parents married her to Zhang Yuanguo in the same village. The order of her parents, the words of the matchmaker, Wu Yufen didn't like the man her parents found for herself, the two had never even met, let alone know and understand.
It's a pity that in Wu Yufen's era, girls could only obey the arrangements of their families, even if they were unwilling, Wu Yufen could only marry this husband who had never met.
Zhang Yuanguo is also dissatisfied with this wife who is promised to him, Zhang Yuanguo is a very money-loving person, commonly known as miser and iron rooster. He felt that Wu Yufen's family was too poor, and marrying him would only divide his own family property, so he excluded Wu Yufen very much.
The marriage of the two stumbled, until by chance, Wu Yufen was pregnant, which eased the relationship between the two, after all, the child is common to the two, do not look at the face of the monk to see the face of the Buddha, even for the sake of the child, the two can settle with each other.
The hemp rope is broken in detail, and the bad luck is looking for the miserable. Wu Yufen was pregnant twice, the eldest daughter was physically disabled, and the younger son had intellectual problems. If it is only unsound, under the pull of the husband and wife, the family can barely survive even if it is a difficult time.
Sadly, both children died in an accident and passed away early. The departure of the child became the last straw that crushed the hearts of Wu Yufen and Zhang Yuanguo.
After losing their children, the two were like strangers, and they were dissatisfied with each other, and finally the two broke up unhappily, and Wu Yufen resolutely divorced and went to court with her former husband. The court heard the case and ruled that the two were divorced, and Wu Yufen was given a utility room and 200,000 yuan in cash.
After the court's verdict came down, the scene at the beginning of the article occurred, Zhang Yuanguo always prevented Wu Yufen from using the utility room, and Wu Yufen specially stopped Zhang Yuanguo's medical insurance card for this reason, and the two parties were deadlocked with each other.
In the end, with the intervention of the mediator, the two reached a reconciliation and retracted each other's prejudices.