3. No academic qualifications. Lao Ji does not have a high degree of education, but only a new level of Chinese, which is difficult to be regarded as a superior group of people in today's society. 4. The personality is too honest. Lao Ji has a relatively honest personality, does not know how to struggle, and does not have a background like Wang Shiqing, which makes him too weak in the eyes of Wang Shiqing's mother. These points may be some of Wang Shiqing's mother's prejudices and dissatisfaction with Lao Ji. After all, in the eyes of Wang Shiqing's mother, Lao Ji did not meet her expectations of her son-in-law very well. She may want a young, educated, backgrounded, and wealthy son-in-law, but Lao Ji obviously can't meet such expectations. Of course, this does not completely justify Wang Shiqing's mother's behavior. After all, as an adult, she should learn to treat everyone fairly and not just value her daughter's feelings. However, we also cannot ignore her psychology as a mother.
If we look at her point of view, her love for her daughter is selfless, and she will protect her child unconditionally, even if it will attract some accusations and abuse. In addition, we must also pay attention to the relationship between Wang Shiqing and Lao Ji. After all, in the process of getting along, the two will also have differences and contradictions. We have no way of knowing exactly what happened, but we can tell some clues from their interactions. For example, Wang Shiqing's mother's attitude towards Lao Ji may reflect Wang Shiqing's attitude towards Lao Ji to some extent. If Wang Shiqing is dissatisfied with Lao Ji, then her mother will naturally have corresponding prejudices. To sum up, although Wang Shiqing's mother's behavior of protecting her shortcomings makes many people feel uncomfortable, there are also reasons for it. We can't simply characterize her as "brainless", nor can we completely ignore her emotional and emotional factors.
On this issue, we should think more rationally and respect everyone's feelings and positions. Recently, the quarrel between Wang Shiqing and Lao Ji in the reality show has attracted widespread public attention. In this quarrel, Lao Ji's words and deeds made people feel very uncomfortable, and even a little contemptible. So, what made Lao Ji lose so many points in this quarrel?Let's take a look. First of all, Lao Ji is older than Wang Shiqing, and his earning ability is not as good as his daughter. This made him look a little "short" in the eyes of Wang Shiqing's mother. In the traditional concept, a man should be the pillar of the family and the main person in charge of supporting the family, but Lao Ji is obviously inferior to Wang Shiqing in this regard, which makes him seem a little "at a loss" in the quarrel. Secondly, Lao Ji's temper is not very good. In the quarrel with Wang Shiqing, he even tried to judge Wang Shiqing's mother by patting **.
This is really speechless. No matter who is right or wrong, when there is a conflict, if a man can't let his wife, then his image in the woman's heart will definitely be greatly reduced. Again, Lao Ji's emotional intelligence doesn't seem to be very high. During the quarrel, Wang Shiqing's mother tried to help them resolve the conflict, but Lao Ji didn't seem to understand this truth. If he can praise Wang Shiqing according to Wang Shiqing's mother's words, then this contradiction may be resolved quickly. However, Lao Ji only wants to distinguish between right and wrong, which makes him seem a little lonely in the quarrel. In the end, Lao Ji seems to be more calculating. In the quarrel with Wang Shiqing, he always likes to calculate things clearly, which makes people feel very uncomfortable. In marriage, some things are not black and white, and sometimes it takes a step to be appropriately conceded. However, Lao Ji doesn't seem to realize this, which makes him seem difficult to get along with in the quarrel.
Overall, Lao Ji did drop a lot of points in this quarrel. In marriage, the man should play his role well and be an important part of the family. If a man is not able to do this, then his image in the hearts of women will be very bad.