Can you believe it?What people have experienced in their lives and what kind of life they have lived, everything is controlled by themselves.
Emerson said, "The shallow will believe in luck and chance, and the strong will only believe in cause and effect."
Cause and effect here refers to, "Plant one grain of millet in the spring, and harvest ten thousand seeds in the autumn." That is, what you sow, you will reap.
There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching, "If you want to take it, you must first take it." It means that only by knowing how to give can you reap the desired results.
Writer Lu Yao was born in a poor peasant family. Since he was a child, he knew that the opportunity to learn Xi was not easy to come by, so he studied hard and hungrily. From a young age to adulthood, his results were always at the top of his list.
After graduating from junior high school, he could not stay in the city, so he had to return to the countryside to work as a farmer. Those years of farming life made him physically and mentally exhausted. But it also allowed him to obtain a lot of materials, laying a solid foundation for many later works.
A lot of times, life is like that, you think you're on the wrong path and you can't get the results you want.
But in fact, those experiences also paved the way for you to come and make you shine today. There is no road in vain in life, every step counts. Life is like a chain, interlocking. How much effort you put in now will determine what kind of life you will have in 10 years.
In life, many people often only see the "effect" of others, but ignore the "cause" of others. Therefore, it is easy to feel resentful and resentful.
When I see others with houses and cars, promotions and salary increases, I am envious and jealous, but I can't see the overtime and hard work behind others.
Seeing other people's happy families and loving husband and wife, he hated himself for being blind and chose the wrong person at the beginning. But I can't see that husband and wife are considerate of each other and help each other.
Seeing that peers are slender and ageless, they say that people spend money to buy them, but they can't see the self-discipline and careful maintenance of others for decades.
Because we can't see the "cause" of others, we only see the "effect" of others. I am not satisfied with all my "fruits", and think that my "evil results" are unfair to God.
As a philosopher once said, "To complain about others is to be ignorant of cause and effect." ”
A colleague and a friend who have been friends for more than ten years drifted apart because of a trivial matter. I think it's a pity to say that after more than ten years of friendship, I persuaded my colleagues to try their best to keep it.
A colleague said, "When a person alienates you and leaves you, he must feel uncomfortable getting along with you, and he feels that you can no longer bring him happiness and value, so why should he keep it?"”
As long as you believe that there must be a reason for everything, you will not be obsessed with the result, entangled and painful in the result. There is a saying that "fruit" follows fate, and "cause" works hard.
If you want to reap a "fruit" that satisfies you, you must first do a good job of "cause" with your heart, instead of being lazy and clever on the "cause", but delusionally hoping that a miracle can occur in the "effect".
Believing that "cause" is one's own action and "effect" is the result of one's action, one understands the laws of the world's operation. Respecting the relationship between cause and effect means respecting objective facts.
When you understand what "cause" you plant, what "effect" you reap. Understand the ultimate of people'fruit", all by their own usual"Cause"Income. Knowing that everything in the world happens for a reason, there is no need to dwell on it.
If you understand these principles of cause and effect, you will not complain. You will know that everyone has their own karma, and you don't have to envy others. Be in awe of the world, not impatient, not resentful, and calm, and your life will naturally get better and better!