My cousin is the daughter of my third uncle's family, born in 1961, with 6 brothers and sisters, she is the eldest, with two younger sisters and three younger brothers.
Because she had to help her parents take care of her younger siblings, her cousin Kaimeng studied very late, and she didn't start entering school until she was 10 years old.
Although he was enlightened very late, his cousin's reading grades have always been good, above average, and although he is not top-notch, he is firmly in the upper reaches.
In 1980, my cousin graduated from high school and was admitted to Yichun Health School.
Three years later, my cousin graduated from health school and was assigned to work in a township health center in a small county town more than 100 kilometers away from his hometown.
The third uncle and the third aunt have been farmers for generations, and there is no relationship in the family, and it is even more difficult to transfer my cousin back to the hospital in his hometown.
My cousin also recognized this, so she worked in the township health center in the small county town with peace of mind.
The male should get married, the female should get married, and the cousin will be 22 years old when she graduates, and she is old enough to find her in-laws.
The enthusiastic eldest sister in the unit introduced a boy to her cousin, who was from the county epidemic prevention station.
The boy had no education, and his cousin was a little entangled at the time, but the boy was really very good to her, which made the cousin who was alone in a foreign land feel very warm.
When people are in a foreign land, they have no relatives around them, and if there is a person who cares and loves them, they will have a sense of intimacy and dependence on this person.
The cousin weighed the pros and cons and felt that the boy was not bad in all respects except that he had no academic qualifications.
Although the boy's parents were ordinary workers, they were more or less in better condition than his own family, and his parents were farmers who worked in the soil.
The cousin decided to give up the idea of finding a boy with an education and concentrated on falling in love with the boy.
Two years later, the boy became my cousin-in-law.
Another year passed, my cousin's daughter was born, and my cousin had a happy family of three.
Not long after the happy days, something happened to my mother's family.
My cousin's second brother gave birth to a second child, and he was afraid that people who were planning to have children would come to his door and move the food.
Early in the morning, as soon as the sky was bright, he hurriedly carried the grain in a tricycle to his mother-in-law's house.
As a result, when he was going uphill, he overturned into the pond on the side of the road with the car and the car, and he was crushed to the bottom by the heavy front of the car.
When it was dawn, a pedestrian passed by and found that a car had overturned in the pond on the side of the road.
By the time the car and people were scooped up, the people had already lost their breath.
At this time, my cousin's daughter-in-law had just given birth to her second son a few days ago.
Originally, my cousin didn't want a second child, because he had already given birth to a son, that is, his cousin's daughter-in-law wanted to live or die, and refused to let it go and hid.
But the cousin's daughter-in-law is a person who can't afford family responsibilities, after the cousin died, the youngest son was just half a year old, and the cousin's daughter-in-law left her two sons, ran out to work, and cut off contact with the family.
The third uncle and his wife were both authentic farmers, and they were in their 60s at the time, and it was very difficult to raise two grandchildren.
Except for my cousin's family conditions, the other brothers and sisters are all in the countryside, and their lives are more difficult.
In order to reduce the burden on his parents, his cousin brought his cousin's youngest son over to raise him.
The original idea was to raise this fatherless nephew as a son, and my cousin-in-law had no opinion, and he couldn't have a job if he couldn't give birth, so he could raise a nephew.
In this way, my cousin and cousin-in-law changed from a family of three to a family of four, and life went on peacefully.
But there were unforeseen circumstances, and when my cousin was 35 years old, she suddenly fell ill.
My cousin had butterfly-shaped red spots on her face, and her whole face was covered with red bumps one by one.
I went to the hospital and the doctor diagnosed it as lupus erythematosus. It is said that it is a disease of the immune system, and the immune system is chaotic, and the immune system attacks its normal cells.
My cousin is a health school student, and she also knows some medical knowledge, so she knows that this disease is more troublesome and difficult to treat.
After being in the hospital for a period of time, she found that the effect was not satisfactory, so she changed to Chinese medicine**.
As long as she heard ** say that the old Chinese medicine doctor could cure her, she went to see it. The herbs eaten, packed in sacks, add up to several carts.
In those years, the money earned by the two husbands and wives was basically lost to medical treatment, and the family did not have a penny of savings.
Later, it was so difficult that she couldn't even support her nephew, so she was sent back to my third uncle's house, but she really had no choice but to afford it financially.
In this way, I kept looking for the old Chinese medicine doctor**, and I ate herbs every day, and I ate it for more than ten years.
I don't know which old Chinese medicine medicine is the right medicine, and my cousin's illness is slowly getting better.
The more I took the medicine, the less I took it, and the area of the red bumps on my face became smaller and smaller.
Last October, I went to my third uncle's house, and my cousin was also there, and I saw that her face was not red at all, just like ours, shiny.
Now she doesn't need to eat herbs anymore, she looks better.
My cousin has been retired for several years now, and the company was still hiring her back some time ago.
Her daughter is also married and has two babies. The mother-in-law is helping to take care of the baby, and she doesn't need to take it.
The daughter and son-in-law worked in the provincial capital, and the cousin also sold the house in the county seat and bought a house near the daughter's house.
My cousin is going to quit working for another two years, and when the time comes, I will go to live with my daughter and enjoy the joy of family.
People who eat whole grains will have all kinds of diseases, and when they are sick, they must actively go to the disease, and at the same time they must maintain a good attitude, believe that their illness can be improved, and believe that they will be able to overcome the disease.
I wish all my friends who are sick can overcome the disease, and I wish everyone good health!