"Can't ask" is one of the eight sufferings of life, many of us have a lifelong wish is: willing to win the heart of a person, hand in hand to the white head, but how many people do not have the courage to love what I love when they can choose and regret for life?The reason is simple, that is, they all chose to bow to reality against their hearts.
From ancient times to the present, the traditional concept of marriage is the important criterion for choosing a marriage, not whether the two people have a heart-to-heart relationship. In today's materialistic world, the popular phrase "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle" is a popular phrase for choosing marriage, and how many people have married a "conditional object" against their hearts and buried their beloved alive in their hearts?I remember when Kai-Fu Lee talked about his life after his victory in fighting cancer, he said, "If I can choose again, I will no longer work so hard, I want to be with the people I love and do what I like." This is the words of a person who has traveled from the Grim Reaper, and it may make people realize that everyone longs for a true heart to accompany them and no longer hesitate at a critical time.
So how do you find true love?
Follow your heart, it has the answer. If you see someone who feels and rejoices in your heart, it means that your magnetic field is the sameOtherwise, you won't like it. If you enter into marriage because of external conditions, compromise, or even pleasing the other party, then the tragedy will begin. Because of the external conditions of marriage, the external conditions disappear, and the marriage comes to an end;If you marry because of power, power is lost, and the marriage is over;Don't blame others for the reality, your own marriage has no support of love, and those things will collapse without marriage, this is simple, right?Therefore, the ancients had clouds, and the husband and wife were the same forest birds, and the best portrayal of the catastrophe was to fly separately.
Only on the basis of love, can the union of two hearts be realized, only the combination of heart and heart can always be loyal to you, I love you, respect you, care for you as I love myself, to achieve two hearts and one body, that is, to the unity of flesh and soul, how to betray?
The threshold for love is actually very high, because I like that you are self-fulfilled, it is you who let me know that I have love, I am love itself;And I love you is the realization of mutual self-improvement through mutual liking, and I am paying for you and interacting with you to achieve the sublimation of spiritual resonance of love.
Boiling Lom once said: Childish love is, I love because I am loved;Mature love is that I am loved because of self-love;Immature love declares, I love you because I need you;Mature love declares, I need you because I want to love you. This is the same as what Zhang Ailing said: I love you and have nothing to do with you, I love you not because of how worthy you are, but because I am love itself, I just want to give you my white and flawless love without desire and without expectation.
Think about it, if I can't follow my heart to choose to love others, I can't even love myself and can't tolerate myself, then how can I love and tolerate my other half?