Li Min was bullied by her stepmother, why didn t she go to her father to reason?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-30

After the founding of the People's Republic of China, Li Min has been living with ***, and he is under the same roof as Jiang, so naturally there are many contradictions.

Li Min knew his situation, so in order not to embarrass his father, he kept putting up with it, but once, Li Min still couldn't bear it anymore and had a fierce conflict with Jiang.

Once, Li Min took an art class and drew a large and round watermelon, and next to it also drew a piece of cut watermelon, with green watermelon skin, bright red watermelon pulp, and black watermelon seeds dotted on it, which was bright and very attractive.

The teacher also spoke highly of the painting, giving it the highest possible score - 5 points.

After Li Min returned home, he wrote a letter to his mother He Zizhen, who was far away in Shanghai, and put the painting in it for her mother to enjoy it too.

Unexpectedly, it was this painting that brought a storm to Li Min and He Zizhen.

A few days later, Jiang suddenly broke into Li Min's room and questioned her loudly"I ask you, what line do you use watermelon poems to pull?What the hell is it all about?Don't you think this home is messy!”

Li Min listened inexplicably, what "watermelon poem"?Who wrote the "watermelon poem"?

Jiang continued to shout:"Your mother wrote poems on your watermelon painting to satirize me, laugh at me, insult me, and turn against you!It's not over!I'm going to organize to deal with this, I have to deal with your mother!”

After Jiang finished speaking, he was just about to leave, but he turned around and continued:"Not only your mother, but also your uncle, and your aunt, they are all making plans, and they are doing ghosts!”

Li Min heard what was going on, it must have been her mother who wrote a poem on it after receiving the painting, and after sending it back, Jiang saw it, thinking that she was satirizing her, so she came to vent her anger.

After Li Min understood, he didn't quarrel with her, but said sternly"I know, my mother has a letter to me, correspondence is my freedom, you don't have my permission, you don't have the right to open the letter my mother gave me, it's a crime!”

Jiang didn't expect Li Min to seize this point to fight back against her, and he was a little stunned for a while, but he quickly recovered his state and said loudly"This is not over, you must punish your mother, see if you dare to jump around!".”

After saying that, Jiang left in a huff.

So, what is the content of the "watermelon poem" written by He Zizhen?

Later, when Li Min went to Shanghai to visit her mother, she specially asked about it, but He Zizhen was silent for a long time and finally didn't tell her. Maybe in her opinion, this matter has passed, and it is a good thing that her daughter knows a little less, so don't make trouble with Jiang for this matter anymore.

As for whether Jiang was embarrassed by He Zizhen, He Zizhen kept saying that he didn't, he was living a good life, and he was naturally afraid that Li Min would be worried.

Since then, Li Min has written to her mother again, and He Zizhen will send her some things, but she has never replied to her, just for fear that she will say the wrong thing and make Li Min feel wronged.

As for the reply letter and the "watermelon poem", Jiang never gave it to Li Min, and Li Min didn't dare to ask for it, so it became a mystery.

Some people may ask: Jiang bullied Li Min so much, doesn't he care?

Li Min later explained this problem in the book "My Father***", which is like this:"Sometimes, I really want to run to my dad and tell my father about my anger and grievances, but I can't help it when I want to go several times. I still abide by my principle, that is, I will never go to my father to complain if I am greatly wronged, and I will never add trouble and distress to my father because of my trivial matters. For the sake of my father, I can endure everything, and I can endure it all. ”

This is Li Min's attitude, she knows that her father is also very difficult, if she makes the decision for her, she will definitely offend Jiang and make the family more nervous, so Li Min chose to endure all this by herself and not add trouble to her father.

Moreover, my father is the leader of the country, and I have to deal with so many important things every day, and I can't trouble my father with my own small things anymore.

Later, Li Min also said:"I also know that it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs, and no one has right or wrong, and they can't tell clearly. As long as I don't make my father angry, don't add trouble and trouble to my father, I tolerate my grievances, and I am willing to be a peacemaker. ”

Reference: "My Father's *** True Feelings").

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