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Whether a man will marry you or not, the feeling you will give is really different.
When you are with him, can you feel his sincerity and commitment to you? Can you feel his plans and expectations for your future?
These are all very important signals that can tell you if he really wants to spend his life with you.
When you're with a man, if he always avoids talking about plans and expectations for the future or doesn't have clear plans and intentions for your future, then it could mean that he doesn't really want to be with you.
Conversely, if you are with a man who only says he loves you but often exhibits the following three behaviors, then it is likely that he does not intend to marry you.
The first behavior: be self-centered and not consider your feelings
The man who does not intend to marry you always puts himself at the center of the universe and does not care about your feelings at all.
Whenever you are with him, he always talks seriously about his work, friends, hobbies, etc., but never seems to really care about your life and feelings.
His words, like cold arrows, pierce your heart and make you feel lonely and helpless.
His words seem to be the whole of his life, and your presence is only an insignificant supporting role in his life.
When you try to share your life and feelings with him, but he always shirks with various excuses, or simply responds, as if he is not interested in your life.
He shows you cold, uncaring, or impatient, which makes you feel unappreciated and unappreciated.
When you meet such a man, don't continue to entangle, otherwise you will only suffer.
The second behavior: always procrastinating on the topic of marriage, or not mentioning it at all
For a man who doesn't want to marry you, he will always subtly avoid the topic of marriage, or simply not mention it. His rhetoric is full of perfunctory and procrastination techniques, as if he is using silence to evade responsibility and commitment to you.
His attitude seemed to say, "I don't want to enter the palace of marriage, so please don't push me anymore." ”
Such men, deep down, do not really want to spend their lives with you, and they prefer to maintain a relaxed and free relationship rather than take on the responsibilities of the family.
Therefore, they will always find all kinds of excuses to delay the topic of marriage, or simply not mention it, making you feel powerless and helpless.
Even if you take the initiative to talk to him about marriage, he will make all kinds of excuses or procrastinate and will not respond positively.
This is because he is not ready to take on the responsibilities or he does not really intend to enter the palace of marriage with you.
If you are obsessed and want to continue with this kind of man, then you can only be hurt in the end.
The third behavior: not having a clear plan for your future
A man who genuinely intends to marry you will work with you to draw a blueprint for the future, which covers all aspects of life, the ups and downs of your career, and the bits and pieces of your family.
He will work with you to envision every detail, every challenge you may encounter, and every joy you may bring.
He will plan the future with you, just like a painter painting a beautiful picture on canvas, and every stroke is his expectation and commitment to the future.
And a man who has no intention of marrying you, he is just spending the good time with you in the present, and he is not planning for your future.
He may bring you joy and enjoyment, but he will not commit or plan your future married life for you.
Such a man only pursues short-term pleasure and satisfaction, rather than true love and commitment.
So, you need to think hard about whether your relationship is really healthy and long-lasting and decide whether you want to continue to be with him or not.
As a person who has come before, I would like to tell all my female friends that if you are with a man who often exhibits the above three behaviors, then you should seriously think about whether your relationship is really suitable.
Don't be fooled by his sweet words, and don't be deceived by his flashy appearance. Marriage is a major life event that requires careful consideration and choice.
Like picking up seashells on the beach, don't be fooled by the magnificence of the exterior, but take a closer look at the inner texture and value.
Although his sweet words will make you feel intoxicated, don't forget to observe his character and conduct with an intellectual eye.
Marriage is a long-term bridge, and we need to carefully choose the right partner in order to walk more stable and beautiful. Don't be fooled by superficial things, but focus on the inner qualities and values of the other person.
Only by finding the person who is truly compatible with you can you go through the ups and downs of life together and spend your life together.
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