Flying Fish 01 Someone asked: "What does love taste like?".I replied that the taste of love is like a cup of rich coffee, bitter and sweet, with both the bitterness of acacia and the mellow sweetness, and finally leaves a long aftertaste. Dr. Hai Lan of Fudan University once said: "Among the 7 billion people in the world, for whatever reason, it is an amazing thing that you meet someone." "In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet a person who loves each other, and it is a great luck to be able to love each other together. Everyone longs to be able to get a partner with whom they can spend their inseparable years. However, fate is predestined, and some people can't make it to the end despite all their efforts. Some people walk and walk and disperse, because the fate between people cannot be controlled. Life needs to learn to follow fate, after all, being able to meet that special person is a sign in itself. Two people who truly love each other, even if they can't be together in the end, the time they have spent together is still sweet, with no regrets, only the gift of gratitude and encounter. As the English poet Tennyson said, "As long as a man and a woman truly love each other, even if they end up married, it is still sweet." ”
Some people, after spending their whole lives, only meet one person they really like. Qingqing Zijin, leisurely my heart. In a limited life, if you can meet someone who is attracted to each other and have a good impression of each other, then don't ask too much about the ending, but enjoy the happiness of the moment. We strive for perfection, but we often ignore that love is not perfect, and feelings are not perfect. Everything is determined by fate, and the length of fate is beyond our control. Life needs to learn to cherish the fate you have, even if one day you come to the end of fate, you must say goodbye with a smile and not let the resentment leave traces. Some beautiful loves, as elegant as Li Qingzhao and Zhao Mingcheng, seem to be fairy couples. And some love, after experiencing the vicissitudes of the sea, is not a cloud, except for Wushan. If you really love someone, it is difficult for that person's position to be replaced by others, but the person you love may not be able to go to the end, so you can only let go and let go. Some people, who happen to be passers-by, take us through a period of time and teach us how to love and become a special part of our lives. When we are together, although it is noisy and noisy, we will still find many beautiful moments when we look back on the past. Because no matter what kind of love it is, there are bitter and sweet, laughter, and tears. If you really love each other, it's enough, and you don't have to worry about the ending.
There is a kind of love, being together because of love, and being separated is not necessarily because of not loving. In life, there are many couples who like each other but end up apart. Because sometimes, not just because two people like each other have to be together for a lifetime. Everyone's pursuit and desire for life are different, and even if they love each other, they may not be able to spend a lifetime together. There may still be many conflicts after getting married. Separation is not necessarily a regret, because they were once deeply in love, so they do not regret it. Xu Yan and Shen Zichang in the movie "I'm Good in Another Country" are such a couple, but they didn't come together in the end. Some people find it difficult to settle, and some people think it is expected. In my opinion, their breakup is the best option for each other. At first, it was Shen Zichang who proposed to break up, because she couldn't see the future of this relationship, felt that she couldn't give Xu Yan the life she wanted, and she didn't want to delay Xu Yan anymore. Since they were students, they have experienced separation and integration, noisy and noisy, and they have also reached the age when it is time to get married. But when the trivial and practical problems of life are in front of them, many people lose to reality, and Xu Yan and Shen Zichang are no exception. Their salaries are average, and it is not easy to buy a house in Beijing, in order to get married and buy a house, they are frugal, and their lives are beyond the normal range, so Shen Zichang feels tired, this is not the life she wants. Instead, Xu Yan took the savings of the two and invested them in order to make more money, but was cheated out of all his savings. The contradiction intensified, and Shen Zichang didn't want to buy a house anymore, let alone get married. The two did not reach a consensus and finally chose to break up.
In fact, they really love each other. Shen Zichang may be more sensible, while Xu Yan is more emotional. Xu Yan knows her abilities, even if she loves Xu Yan again, she can't give her the life she wants. So, he made the decision to break up, deliberately rather than impulsively. After the breakup, Xu Yan calmed down for a while and began to admit his mistakes and apologize to Shen Zichang. She also gave Shen Zichang a special "breakup gift" - wearing the doll costume that Shen Zichang used to please her and coax her every time, and danced in front of Shen Zichang. This scene is very touching, and Xu Yan wants to tell Shen Zichang in this way that the efforts of these years are not in vain, but have been affirmed. Xu Yan said to Shen Zichang: "Liking you is the least regrettable thing I have ever done in my life." Even if they are separated, they will leave each other with a good memory. I know you'll fall in love with someone else in the future, so it's okay to forget about me later. These words expressed Xu Yan's intentions, but Shen Zichang did not keep it, and the relationship between the two ended.
Xu Yan and Shen Zichang's breakup did not mean sorry for anyone, but the two found that they were no longer suitable for each other. Because they all understood what the other party wanted, the life Xu Yan wanted, Shen Zichang couldn't give it, and she also found that Beijing was not suitable for her, so she chose to return to her hometown. Shen Zichang is used to a carefree life, accustomed to being at ease, and is unwilling to devote the rest of his life to the pressure of the house. She couldn't give Xu Yan the so-called "good life", so she finally chose to live for herself. Between lovers, love is genuine, love is voluntary, no one has failed anyone, and there is no need to feel indebted, because two people spend the same time together, and their youth is passing the same. We are all passers-by in love, and there is no right or wrong in love. Lovers who have truly loved each other are all participants in this love, and the two have worked hard, tried their best, and paid for love together, even if they didn't come together in the end, it doesn't matter, because the process of participation itself is sweet. Lover's love, go with the flow, don't have to ask too much about the ending.