Recently, news of corporal punishment by teachers for poor academic performance has been frequently exposed on the Internet, which has aroused widespread attention and deep reflection from all walks of life. As parents, what can we do in the face of our children's scars and tears besides anger and distress?This article will take a look at this problem from multiple angles and give strategies to deal with it.
When it is found that their child's academic performance is not good, the first reaction of many parents is to blame and punish. However, doing so often ignores the root cause of the problem. A child's poor learning may be caused by a variety of factors, such as improper learning methods, lack of motivation to learn, excessive psychological pressure, etc. As parents, we need to communicate with our children patiently to understand their learning and inner thoughts in order to find the crux of the problem.
Educational violence is not only physical, but also psychological. Children who are subjected to corporal punishment by teachers may have psychological problems such as low self-esteem, fear, and school weariness, and even affect their personality development. Parents need to be aware of the dangers of educational violence, and detect and stop it in a timely manner.
In the face of educational violence, parents should actively communicate with teachers and schools. First of all, it is necessary to understand how the child is doing in school and the way the teacher educates, and how to help the child improve his academic performance. At the same time, it is also necessary to express to teachers their zero-tolerance attitude towards educational violence, and ask schools to deal with such incidents seriously. Through home-school interaction, we work together to create a harmonious and healthy learning environment for children.
Parents need to provide adequate psychological support to their children who have already experienced educational violence. You can take your child to seek the help of a professional psychological counselor, so that they can get out of the psychological shadow through professional methods. At the same time, parents should also care more about their children in their daily life, listen to their voices, and let them feel the warmth and strength of the family.
Parents can seek legal assistance if educational violence seriously violates the child's legal rights. China's "Protection of Minors" and other relevant laws and regulations provide comprehensive protection for minors, parents can defend their children's rights in accordance with the law, so that the perpetrators can be punished as they deserve.
The existence of violence in education reflects some of the shortcomings of the current education system. To solve this problem at its root, it is necessary to promote education reform. Parents can actively participate in the discussion of education reform, put forward their own opinions and suggestions, and promote the education department to formulate more scientific and reasonable education policies and measures. At the same time, we can also pay attention to some educational innovation practices, such as personalized education, quality education, etc., to provide more possibilities for children's all-round development.
In addition to the efforts of parents and schools, the attention and support of society is also an important force in tackling the problem of violence in education. **Communities, enterprises and other parties can jointly launch advocacy activities to call on the whole society to pay attention to the problem of violence in education and promote the formulation and implementation of relevant policies. At the same time, some non-profit organizations can also be encouraged and supported to carry out educational activities and psychological assistance projects to provide more help and support for the victimized children.