In the face of deviance in marriage, how do women choose?
Some women, laissez-faire, face it with an indifferent attitude;Some women set things right and use divorce to coerce the man to return to the family.
Different people have different attitudes towards deviance in marriage.
But no one advocates solving things at the expense of hurting themselves. In particular, they are the injured parties themselves and are vulnerable groups.
I saw such a message.
An original wife in Shenzhen, after discovering that her husband had a lover, actually quarreled with her lover on the street, and in a fit of anger, she cut the other party's throat with a fruit knife.
01. Morality is not a shackle, but a tool to protect yourself
The wife is witnessing her husband and lover together, and the wife herself is betrayed by the other party, and she is already in a state of grief and anger.
At this time, Xiao San was still provocative, "Sooner or later, you will snatch your husband away." ”
Perhaps, it was this sentence that made his wife angry, because she completely lost her mind because of her anger, and she actually cut her throat with a knife.
Because of such actions, she ended up in prison, and even lived in a cage for the rest of her life, unable to be freed.
In fact, "morality" is not to hurt people, but to protect people.
If a lover does not become a lover, but knows how to keep a distance from a married man, he will avoid such a great disaster and lose his life.
Violent revenge is actually the result of losing both, but in the midst of anger, who can think too much?
02, you can not love, but don't betray
We should never betray the man who walked with us.
Especially, the people who accompany us through hard times. In this life, when we are in the scenery, we can meet countless people who appreciate us.
But at the lowest point, when we were the most immature, there was only one person who was with us through thick and thin.
We can not love, we can even get together and disperse, even if we are married and have no love, we can choose to go our separate ways.
But they cannot, in the form of betrayal, to attack and deny the other party, causing great harm, and even ruining the belief in the other party's life.
If you don't love and don't hurt, isn't it born as a human being, the most basic kindness?
Of course, whenever we find that if the other party has no love, we make do with him to live, it is an extremely torturous thing, we withdraw in time and stop the loss in time.
Don't take revenge on others and ride into the happiness of your life.
Because in addition to our partners, we also have parents and children who love us the most, and we have to be responsible for them and we can't let them worry.